Depressed girl

[AmeShin]

Guys normally will not mind the past. As long as not when u know him u still is doing it will do. Be honest with let understand u

[Dracolash]

TS, if you can't take the anxiety and stress, tell him and he should be with you or he is not worth it. It takes 10 lies to cover 1. As for your BF's friend, don't take your chances, once you discussed with your BF, he is irrelevant but need to thank him for his help, etc. Finally that idiot that is so infatuated by you, warn him for possible legal repercussion if he persist. Hope this helps.

[sammyboyfor]

Nobody responding with "Please post the pictures for us 2 check" ?

[mistahlolo]

Hi,
I think you should tell your bf the truth, tell him what you are thinking, tell him how u feel. It maybe something harsh for him to accept, but if he really loves you, i think he will accept the fact. But please give him sometime to re-arrange his thoughts, its not easy for him, but have faith in him.

Tell him that you need him to go through this hard period with you, ask him for suggestions. By telling him, you are actually protecting yourself from further harm from that bastard ex-client and possible blackmailing from your bf's friend...

Remember!!
1.)Please do not succumb to any blackmails. You will only sink further.
2.)You got to expect more people you know to come across that pic. so you got to deal with that to minimize the dmg too. Report to the police.

Above are my kind advice, the ultimate decision making is still yours to make, don't make anymore mistake.

[ck1961]

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[BiRd13]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

How did the client contact you? Via sms or a phone call? I would go to the police if I were you. Let the police track the client down and get him to take down the photo. I do wonder if your bf's friend will really keep his mouth shut or will he demand 'something' from you in future to keep his mouth shut. Actually, I wonder if you can say the photo was taken by a ex-bf and not a ex-client. That way, people won't know you were once a FL, right?

You sound pretty young. If you are young, do understand that bfs come and go. Even if you lose this guy, there will be a next guy. If I were you, I will consider leaving the current bf for a fresh start. A fresh start where no one knows you are a fl.

AGREED !!!

TS,
Go made a police report that your ex (instead of client) is harrassing you... If your bf is truly towards you, he will understand and forgive about the past... Even cant, let him go... There's many better one out that...

[7777]

Where are the photos posted ?

[RealEstateGuy]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hi...

I'm posting this thread hoping to seek advice.

This is something I cannot share with anyone , Not even my bf or best fren.

Few yrs ago, I was a FL. (and none of my friends know )

During my 1yr term as a FL, i allowed a guy to take pic of me doing BJ.

I have already left the FL line... Today I have a nice bf and I do not wish to cross paths with the people I knew when I was a FL.

But never did I imagine The guy who took my pics manage to track my new HP number. I really do not wish to meet him as I do Not wish to remember my past.

I think I upset him ? Today he is posting my pics online....

And worst thing is my bf's fren saw my pics , download it, and verify with me..

He promise not to tell my bf . Can I trust him ? I really want to tell my bf, but I think he will be even more depressed, and I may lose him..

I am really having the worst luck now.

So depressed I can hardly eat. It's like a time bomb.

You really should contact the police. The guy doesn't have permission to post your pics. Plus he is a total loser doing so and attempting to hurt you like that. It really bugs me that someone would inflict that kind of harm on someone. Take the power back from him by doing as I reccomend.

[callmejeff]

You have to throw away your past and move forward. If BF ask, deny all the way. When come to this type of issue, most people cannot accept. If your BF dont believe, also throw him away and move forward to look for someone else. Cheers.

[wanderer23]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hi...

I'm posting this thread hoping to seek advice.

He promise not to tell my bf . Can I trust him ? I really want to tell my bf, but I think he will be even more depressed, and I may lose him..

I am really having the worst luck now.

So depressed I can hardly eat. It's like a time bomb.

Firstly what is he blackmailing you?

Is it money or free sex? Or he wants to continue paying you for sex?

I think you may have to come clean with your bf if he really loves you he wun mind your past.

Do make a police report and seek proper advice from the police

[yagami00]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

How many of you can actually recognise Tammy from NYP if she walks past you now? I can't for sure so TS why worry?

Sorry to say this, but i saw her few months ago in holland V. i recognise her instantly....thinner tot...

[Kalv]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hi...was .. FL. ...guy take pic .. doing BJ. .. Today I have a nice bf ... guy who took my pics .. track my new HP number. ...upset him ... posting my pics online..... my bf's fren saw my pics , download it, and verify with me.. promise not to tell my bf ...want to tell my bf, but.. may lose him..

Time bomb waiting to explode!! Good answers already given by many. Sure you are not here just to get pts ?? Worry would be more of being recognized by previous customers. Summary of actions:

1) Deny to the last breath to BF's friend - pics not yours. Threaten to complain to BF if he pesists. Yes, BJ photos always look ugly /different from person. Petain got an ex Geylang Cat150 WL with pics in internet. Looks like her but denied strongly: ear rings, dress, bedsheet not hers etc.

2) Message guy to remove pics from internet. Tell him will report to police with his phone numer etc. If he refuse, report to police.

3) Do not make a false report to police - can be charged. However no need to tell everything. Just report that ex close boyfriend took some porn pics and post on net to blackmail U. No need to mention know him because of FL.

4) For lasting relationships should always be truthful to present BF. BF may forgive and forget. Many will not - so must be prepared for the worst.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Nobody responding with "Please post the pictures for us 2 check" ?

Do pm me the pics (plus yours) to check. Guaranteed confidential. Will be very dumb if U do so!! All the best.

[alan0338]

tell the person tat posted the pictures u are going to the police ...

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by Thanks

I think I upset him ? Today he is posting my pics online....

And worst thing is my bf's fren saw my pics , download it, and verify with me..

He promise not to tell my bf . Can I trust him ? I really want to tell my bf, but I think he will be even more depressed, and I may lose him..

I am really having the worst luck now.

So depressed I can hardly eat. It's like a time bomb.

Sis, I suggest you be truthful to your bf about it. If he really loves you, he won't mind. Plus you did it for money and not for the sex. Take it as a love test for him too.

It will be worse off for you if you delay further. you are infact being held ransom to more people as more people find out. My advise is to end all uncertainties once and for all. And after that, deal with that ungentleman beast who posted your photos online.

[acidicavex]

Well it is better coming from you than to hear it from another person.

From you = at least you are remorse of your past and wish to be a new person

Coming from a 3rd party = degrading to him and hurtful to him.

Your choice at least you come clean and hurt him yourself and if he still choose to be with you i think you love will blossom.

But coming from a 3rd party means even if you wish to to repent and he choose to stay with you. There will be no trust in you from him and that time your life will be even more miserable than now.