erection problems !!!

[fishball]

Originally Posted by confusion

Dear bros,

i hardly log in nowadays , but i do need some advise from all the lao jiao here, alot of times when i having sex, be it with pros or with a normal gal, i can get an erection initially, but after awhile, i seems to lose interest and my di di soften, before penetration.
Once in awhile i am able to penetrate and have sex and even shoot inside, but on and off alot of times i can't get an erection when strip naked, and the more i am worried and try to get it stand up, the softer it gets. Is it ED? or my sex drive is becoming lower or simply my expectation is too high and my partner fail to arouse me?? But i have no problem at all when i watch porn and diy and when i wake up in the morning, my di di is hard.

I am really depress now, i am hitting my 30 and i am not over weight, runs regularly. Is it due to stress? This problem 1st begins 6 yrs ago.

What should i do, if i am to consult a doc, which clinic is good in this sort of issue? The DSC at kelantan?

All advices are welcome, no flamming pls.

Omg! I am having almost the same prob as the TS! I'm coming to the big 30. I exercise regularly, dun smoke, cut down on alcohol alot but yet my didi will go soft after a while of penetration even though its a chio bu. Certainly not sensitivity issue either as i go usually go raw with my gfs.

I remember i read in a post in this forum that a doc adviced that if a guy woke up in the morning with a harden didi means he is in ok condition. I'm quite troubled by this problem recently as it certainly does not reflect well in front of your girl.. TS, we could share more with each other should either one of us found a remedy..

[esssinine]

Have you heard of Testosterone Deficiency Syndrome? It hits you as you grow older but not necessary so, it does also happen to younger people

http://www.singaporemen.com.sg/scrip..._tds/index.php

Also you could have a enlarged prostate which may or may not impact on your blood supply to the penis .

Get a referral to see a urologist and let him run the tests. Goes a long way to correct the problem .

[kgbkgb]

Originally Posted by fishball

Omg! I am having almost the same prob as the TS! I'm coming to the big 30. I exercise regularly, dun smoke, cut down on alcohol alot but yet my didi will go soft after a while of penetration even though its a chio bu. Certainly not sensitivity issue either as i go usually go raw with my gfs.

I remember i read in a post in this forum that a doc adviced that if a guy woke up in the morning with a harden didi means he is in ok condition. I'm quite troubled by this problem recently as it certainly does not reflect well in front of your girl.. TS, we could share more with each other should either one of us found a remedy..

maybe u shldnt eat too much fishballs?

[wally888]

Watch the local movie acted by 辉哥. The wife said all men can only have 5000times in his lifetime, so does it mean nowadays Sg man reaching the limit earlier?

[MrCam]

ED is a very stressful thing to happen to any man. I had this problem too. As usual, tried all sorts of things. Chinese medicine, qigong, as well as doctors getting Ciallis. My personal experience with Ciallis is that it makes u hard for a couple of days. But after that the dick seems to be softer and smaller. With a box of 4 pills costing $80 not to mention the doctor's consultation fees, it's expensive to get a hard-on.
Recently I came across something that is not taken orally. I hate popping pills. It did work for me after about 2 weeks of trying. It's not an instant cure so pls don't think this is a miracle. Any bros interested can PM me for the info.

[MrCam]

Originally Posted by esssinine

Have you heard of Testosterone Deficiency Syndrome? It hits you as you grow older but not necessary so, it does also happen to younger people

http://www.singaporemen.com.sg/scrip..._tds/index.php

Also you could have a enlarged prostate which may or may not impact on your blood supply to the penis .

Get a referral to see a urologist and let him run the tests. Goes a long way to correct the problem .

I just researched about this. There's a danger of liver failure linked to pills for testosterone deficiency. Please be careful with this. Not worth dying for a hard-on.

[confusion]

Does Tongkat ali has any side effect if stop taking?

[Happy555]

TS, u should consider trying some pills for ur problems. Last time I also have similar problem, but after taking this pill, im hard like a rock. N if the girl is very pretty n give me the shiok feeling, i can continue doing after i cum the 1st round. If u interested to try, can PM me la.

[studdyme]

try juagen?

[callmebad]

Dear Confusion,

As you're quite young, I can think the possible reasons are you get tense up or you have performance anxiety issue.

I suppose you need some help from your sex partner. How about getting her to masturbate you or give you oral, stimulating you until you feel you're going to come, then ask her to stop and you penetrate her. I personally like to receive some oral sex or oral stimulation as a foreplay to help me get erected. Or, before you have sex with her, you watch a blue movie together with her to help you get erected and if this can work, probably before the movie ends, you may have already shoot inside her.

Before you reach for any Viagra, I suggest you go for a medical checkup of your heart. Erection is dependent on blood flow. If erection has problem, this may be a sign of blood flow problem or possible blockage to your heart.

[confusion]

Originally Posted by callmebad

Dear Confusion,

As you're quite young, I can think the possible reasons are you get tense up or you have performance anxiety issue.

I suppose you need some help from your sex partner. How about getting her to masturbate you or give you oral, stimulating you until you feel you're going to come, then ask her to stop and you penetrate her. I personally like to receive some oral sex or oral stimulation as a foreplay to help me get erected. Or, before you have sex with her, you watch a blue movie together with her to help you get erected and if this can work, probably before the movie ends, you may have already shoot inside her.

Before you reach for any Viagra, I suggest you go for a medical checkup of your heart. Erection is dependent on blood flow. If erection has problem, this may be a sign of blood flow problem or possible blockage to your heart.

But Tongkat Ali is a herb right, not consider medicine , so is it advisible to take,is it something like taking vitamins ? no side effect?

[MultiOrgasGuy]

TS appeared not to have a physical problem, as he gets hard in the mornng, and able to PCC normally. If it is not a physiological issue, it's most likely a psychological issue, as many had pointed out.

Here are some suggestions:

1. Don't pcc too much using porn. If you only get titillated by AV stars, you set a high standard for your "fantasy lover", and hence you may not find your gf good enough to titillate your senses. This works on your subconscious mind, regardless of whether you are aware of it or not. I get around this by using amatuer porn, where the girls are not perfect, and are of comparable standards to your gf or fb.

2. Hold off pcc for a while, maybe a few days etc. Then watch some amatuer porn with your gf, imagine & fantasize it's her, and then both of you can ML after that.

3. No matter how beautiful or sexy your gf is, most guys can get "tired" or de-sensitized" after some time. You know it when that happens, eg, your gf strips off and change her clothes in front of you but you don't get a hard-on anymore. That is why we guys get a fb, or look for FL etc. Guys need new stimulation for our mind. With new fresh stimulation, ML with your gf may get better.

Just my 2 cents on what works for me. Your views may vary.

[weaver]

Bro Samroy and Bro MultiOrgasGuy advices are very sound, you get hard watching porn and you are hard in the moring. Your tool is OK.

It all mental, 5mg of Cialis should see some improvement. Once you get over your mental block you should be ok.

Just with Doc first if you are fit for Cialis.

[confusion]

Originally Posted by weaver

Bro Samroy and Bro MultiOrgasGuy advices are very sound, you get hard watching porn and you are hard in the moring. Your tool is OK.

It all mental, 5mg of Cialis should see some improvement. Once you get over your mental block you should be ok.

Just with Doc first if you are fit for Cialis.

HI, meaning those who got ED can't get their di di stand up no matter how ther stroke it?

I guess its my mental block, my sex drive is not that high anymore, compare to army times, i got alot of sexual fantasy. Any ways to increase your sex drive?

[MegaMaca]

Maca is also a natural product. Good for the male organ. Makes it very hard and can last up to 3 days.

Bros keen to read up more on it, PM me with your email addresses, I'll email u the link.