Low sex drive or cheating?

[Apocalypse]

My friend had the same problem.

Then she found out the hubby was gay.

He asked her not to divorce him as he need to have a family for show.

Now he's giving her a big allowance to do what she wants.

[CyberRod]

Hi Powerpuffgirl, I can't reply your PM as it's full... PM me other modes of communication if it's convenient to you...

[LovePotion]

unfortunately for my case, its my ex gf whos the unwilling one with low sex drive...

not into sex... not foreplay... not anything... she gives for the sake of giving then after some time i dont even want anything from her alrdy.



thats when i explore into sbf....

[chnhubby71]

Hi Sis, for your info, you are better than us already.

We sometimes end up ZERO a month. And if I am lucky, I will get average 1 times for 3months. hahaha

Bcoz of lack of sex, I intro my wife and g/f to swing with others. And luckily, it did helps to improve a little bit but too much to the end of us having sex.

But it do enhance our sex and marriage life when we enter into swing with others.

Hope you can have a good chat with your hubby and intro him to this forum to help both of you to move forward to enjoy sex as a happily married couple like us.

Cheer!

[dennischan]

nice to see comments from bros here ~following~

[polkadoll]

i think TS upgrade means after spending a period of time here she starts to see sex in a new light. As in sex can be more fun more sexy and more exciting. thanks to the highly imaginative bros here, erotic stories can invoke hidden sexual needs or feelings hence the increased in sex drive.

Maybe TS would like to spring a surprise on hubby.Men are visual creatures, on a particular night you can wear something sexy, cuddle up to him, give him a sensual oil massage complete with candles or aromatherapy etc...Or TS can try some nice sexy novelty games or suggestive outfits in those adult theme shops.. If all fails, just look at him in his eyes and say: I need you now so badly Just kidding..
Good luck!

[HunterJ]

I believe Powerpuffgirl's inbox sure full. Many suggesting other "suggestions" to her. haha !

Btw, work stress might be one of the biggest problem which arise in many marriage. Low energy level will lead to lack of sex too. Try something else with your hubby and try to arouse him. Maybe give him a massage, and slowly leading to a kiss, and later make love.

Communicate, explore, and everything will be fine.

[LovePotion]

Too stress will affect 2IC to underperform

[RealEstateGuy]

Sistah, 3 or 4 times per month might be the SG average but IMO that spans all age categories. Not sure what is the mean age Sistah. Sistah, with that being said I don't necessarily think your husband is getting it from someone else but really 3 or 4 for your age category is on the low side Sistah. Sistah, I run a business and am busy enought but need it every other day it seems. If anything a man needs sex to releive stress overall horniness not withstanding. Sistah I suggest eroticizing things. Get some nice sexy lingerie and when he comes home surprise him and rock his world starting with a blowjob kneeling by the front door, multiple position fucking all over your home, tear his clothes off, etc. like he's never been rocked before Sistah. Sistah, fuck him like a horny slut and see if that starts to change the frequency, duration and temp of your love making. Sistah, try this and report back to us Sistah.

[picnic]

I agree sis, less than 4 times a month is insufficent, I too run a business and I need it from her everyday. She will have to satisfy my need else I eat outside loh!

[Stageboy]

hi there,

too less 3 to 4 times a mth (if without any kids)
normal is 3 to 4 times a week ( if me )

anyway try to wear sexy (review body not too much skin) man turn on for tat..

[Virginhere]

Hmm..We can try and then i can tell you whether you are sexy enough or not =p

[Constable]

Originally Posted by picnic

I agree sis, less than 4 times a month is insufficent, I too run a business and I need it from her everyday. She will have to satisfy my need else I eat outside loh!

So you should keep her by your side all the time so that you can bang her whenever you wants.

[picnic]

Originally Posted by Constable

So you should keep her by your side all the time so that you can bang her whenever you wants.

I do and always tell her she is my sex slave:>

[freezetheDB]

alot can be solved with a good blowjob.

you cannot expect the hubby to be up and ready all the time without good stimulation to conjure hardness into the flesh rod