Coffee?

[pro.d.igy]

Not a problem for me. The whole point is not to think too much. The more you think, the more paranoid you become.

If you are already married, you must learn to trust your spouse. If not, what's the point in getting married to your spouse in the first place?

[TheDriverGuy]

Originally Posted by Xyberduke

IMAGINE,

your wife going out to meet someone who have had sex with her before in the past and said I love you(s)... held hands, blowjobs.... and now they are friends.

or

your husband going out to meet someone who have had sex with him, banged her hard, received a blowjob, caress her breast, licked her vagina, held hands, 69s... and now they are friends.


I cannot imagine. Sorry, you can call me a MCP, but I would not allow my wife to meet her ex. Impossible. I cannot stand the sight of the two of them standing less than 2m apart, someone whom my wife had feelings for in the past and the guy probably have touched, licked and sucked every single part on her body.

BUT IF THERE IS NO LOVE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE, OR YOU ARE DOING EXACTLY THE SAME, THEN LET IT BE....

Will u throw a big fuss if u know abt it? OF COURSE. IT'S EITHER EX or ME. I made it very clear to my gf when we started and she insisted the same from me.
Or do u suspect anything abt it? There's nothing to suspect... even a accidental rub of shoulders will rekindle some memories of the past.. Having those thoughts within them would be unacceptable regardless of how well they control themselves or how faithful there are.
Or do u keep yr cool? If I truly love my wife, I'll not keep my cool.
Or just simply act blur? If I truly love my wife, I'll not act blur, and will be upfront.
Or u just grateful she is channeling her attention away from u? ??serious?
Or u just has a fetish abt it? no way
Do u secretly hope something happen in btw? like many bros here had done?

I support your points, bro.

[Xyberduke]

Originally Posted by pro.d.igy

Not a problem for me. The whole point is not to think too much. The more you think, the more paranoid you become.

If you are already married, you must learn to trust your spouse. If not, what's the point in getting married to your spouse in the first place?

as much as i trust my spouse to go outings with male friends, ex-boyfriend is a no no for me.... couldn't get past that....

and honestly, i couldn't trust myself to go out with my ex-girlfriend alone.....
when we had sex in the past, it was intense, and the sight of her would rekindle those memories....


but of course, there are indeed spouse who can be trusted... but i'm not taking the risk