Need Advised from samster

[playboybunny]

Hire a PI.

The results will still be the same.

[M1N1Ster]

Two options

1. Hire a PI and act on the outcome.

2. Ignorant is bliss ... Sometimes beter not to know something

BUT

Since u oredi itchy backside and dig into her facebook..... guess no choice IMHO
go for option 1 !

Keep us posted ok ?

[porscheclub]

Oh sorry to hear about your case. Most bros have said what you could do & I know exactly how you feel being a victim before too.

You should be cooled off by now yeah? Get over it, play cool, hire the PI & do groundwork. If you want to save the few Ks on PI then just confront her while the balance is now whether you still want to save this relationship or not since trust has been broken. You guys have to work it out to glue it back or throw it off.

After that it's chiong time

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by 2centsworth

Which country are you in now and which country is she in? If she say she's faithful, don't accuse her of infidelity. You might just end up pushing her over the edge. It's like 'since I say no and you don't believe, I might as well have an affair to prove a point.' How old are the two of you and do you have any children? Married for how long already? If the pay is so good, why not bring her over to where you are?

Originally Posted by hotstuffm8

There really isn't a point flying back now. Whether she's having an affair or not, your presence here wouldn't change the fact. I suggest you put the matter out of your mind for now, and concentrate on your work - don't let this jeopardize your job. If she says she's not having an affair, you gotta give her the benefit of doubt - that's what getting married is all about noaccIdent .don't accuse her of anything until the facts are out. It is rather hurtful if she turns out to be innocent, and can pretty much ruin your marriage. The trust is gone.

Good luck bro.

Hire a Pi. Then decide what you want to do. Rushing back to confront her without any proof will push your wife to the arms of another man more, whether or not she is having an affair. Your behavior will drive her nuts.
Do not let your wife knows you had a PI followed her unless divorce is what you want ultimately.
Hope you are already settling the issues now. Good luck.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Sugar Auntie ur post come in so late n everything u said everybody who posted before u all said before liao, why u copy everything?
No originality