Regarding approaching FLs, HCs

[wally888]

Marry your gf earlier is 1 solution

[sta1100]

Since you are still young and still a V better keep it for your wife than to poke into a FL/WL pussy, she will look young and you will look old as she has taken away your V. Worst still kana VD or HIV

[flowbow]

What's your right hand for?

[SammyNewbie]

Some of the stuff people said here is true... BUT I feel I don't entirely agree.

People felt that losing their virginity is a really big deal but actually not really. Well they tell me to wait for someone special, but yeah, I got tired of waiting and a friend brought me to go for WL.

I really can't say anything much really changed. I remember that when I riding on a bike home with my friend the first time, all I felt was a slight strange feeling from having sex with a total stranger, with my friend laughing at me cause I didn't really touch the girl or do very much and he was going "I pay money you still shy ar?"

I went a few more times after that, and I didn't really feel there was a difference between me when I was a virgin and when I was not. Maybe the feeling of becoming a radish head and getting burnt made me wiser, but I don't think it has anything to do with losing my virginity.

I'll just give a slightly objective view of how sex is like since you are a virgin.

It really depends on the girl. My first few experiences with a certain girl were just bad. It was actually WORSE than fapping. It's sort of like a quicky where you came, but it wasn't quite as good as you hoped. I actually swore off hooking for awhile as a result.

But as things happen, there was a really cute girl in my office that was my type, and she didn't fancy me. The result of that sexual tension and frustration building inside me prompted me to visit the place again, and I got smarter and changed the girl.

This time, the sex was really great, cause I switched the girl. I realized the problem lay with her. And I remember coming out sweating and having a stupid grin on my face and being dazed.

Some of the things I learnt are

-If a WL is cute, you can pick her. But if she's not good in bed, don't pick again. Switch!!!! Don't get too angry. Don't think maybe the next time will be different. Just fuck,forget and change.

- Freelancers on the streets may cost the same or be cheaper and look netter, but beware of bad service and running away from police raids. They are also more likely to squeeze money out of you cause you are new and stupid.

-Just pay for Cat 50. Don't really bother about the more expensive ones. If you are new, usually will come out very fast. Can give tips like $10 for good service, but don't let them sucker you into buying extension package etc. Know yourself and how often you can come and how long you can last before you decide to buy packages.

- Try to switch WLs often to try out new ones (This helps you find a feel good ones rather than going back to the same one and forming an attachment to her. Helps you avoid emotional trap)

- Look inside this forum for houses and FRs. It really helped me. My friend only know one Cat 50 house. Now, I know 3! XD

- Don't book a WL overnight just from first impression. Always bonk a few times with her first so you know her personality and she knows you.

Regarding STDs

I had an itch in my groin recently, and I actually went to see my doctor about it and told her the truth. Being a family doctor she was understanding and told me that the general symptoms of various STDs are:

- a rash and spots appearing on your groin
- Sores or ulcers on it
- a foul green discharge

She also told me that in general, chances of getting STDs are rather low if you use protection all the time. As long as you continue to do so.

Regarding relationships with WL/FL

- Whores are for fucking, not loving
- They will satisfy the physical aspect of your needs, but not the emotional aspects. It might feel good, but you will still feel abit of that emptiness, cause it's really just fucking. You want to go out, should not go Geylang. Find a girl some other place.

[DolceD]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Some of the stuff people said here is true... BUT I feel I don't entirely agree.

People felt that losing their virginity is a really big deal but actually not really. Well they tell me to wait for someone special, but yeah, I got tired of waiting and a friend brought me to go for WL.

I really can't say anything much really changed. I remember that when I riding on a bike home with my friend the first time, all I felt was a slight strange feeling from having sex with a total stranger, with my friend laughing at me cause I didn't really touch the girl or do very much and he was going "I pay money you still shy ar?"

I went a few more times after that, and I didn't really feel there was a difference between me when I was a virgin and when I was not. Maybe the feeling of becoming a radish head and getting burnt made me wiser, but I don't think it has anything to do with losing my virginity.

I'll just give a slightly objective view of how sex is like since you are a virgin.

It really depends on the girl. My first few experiences with a certain girl were just bad. It was actually WORSE than fapping. It's sort of like a quicky where you came, but it wasn't quite as good as you hoped. I actually swore off hooking for awhile as a result.

But as things happen, there was a really cute girl in my office that was my type, and she didn't fancy me. The result of that sexual tension and frustration building inside me prompted me to visit the place again, and I got smarter and changed the girl.

This time, the sex was really great, cause I switched the girl. I realized the problem lay with her. And I remember coming out sweating and having a stupid grin on my face and being dazed.

Some of the things I learnt are

-If a WL is cute, you can pick her. But if she's not good in bed, don't pick again. Switch!!!! Don't get too angry. Don't think maybe the next time will be different. Just fuck,forget and change.

- Freelancers on the streets may cost the same or be cheaper and look netter, but beware of bad service and running away from police raids. They are also more likely to squeeze money out of you cause you are new and stupid.

-Just pay for Cat 50. Don't really bother about the more expensive ones. If you are new, usually will come out very fast. Can give tips like $10 for good service, but don't let them sucker you into buying extension package etc. Know yourself and how often you can come and how long you can last before you decide to buy packages.

- Try to switch WLs often to try out new ones (This helps you find a feel good ones rather than going back to the same one and forming an attachment to her. Helps you avoid emotional trap)

- Look inside this forum for houses and FRs. It really helped me. My friend only know one Cat 50 house. Now, I know 3! XD

- Don't book a WL overnight just from first impression. Always bonk a few times with her first so you know her personality and she knows you.

Regarding STDs

I had an itch in my groin recently, and I actually went to see my doctor about it and told her the truth. Being a family doctor she was understanding and told me that the general symptoms of various STDs are:

- a rash and spots appearing on your groin
- Sores or ulcers on it
- a foul green discharge

She also told me that in general, chances of getting STDs are rather low if you use protection all the time. As long as you continue to do so.

Regarding relationships with WL/FL

- Whores are for fucking, not loving
- They will satisfy the physical aspect of your needs, but not the emotional aspects. It might feel good, but you will still feel abit of that emptiness, cause it's really just fucking. You want to go out, should not go Geylang. Find a girl some other place.

Thanks bro,

maybe its because of stress and stuffs which led me to thinking of such stuffs, haha, but now that i think about it, the reason why i'm not engaging such stuffs is cause of my relationship, guess i'll have to let things be and satisfy the physical aspect of my needs with my hand, haha. Am actually quite curious about bros(single/attached) who lost their first time to Fls, how it felt and any regrets thereafter.

[SammyNewbie]

Well, it might actually be a good experience for you. That's all I can say.

I actually learnt abit about sex with a girl and which parts to touch to turn them on. More importantly, I learnt which parts when licked or touched turned ME on. This experience may help in satisfying your girlfriend in bed in the future, rather than her going through a period of frustration during the early part of your sex life cause you don't know a thing.

But like many bros here have already said, there's no turning back.

Some of the consequences include less satisfaction when DIY in future. You will be thinking of hooking when you are fapping cause yeah, having a girl doing it and touching certain areas feels better than you doing it yourself. You will be 'lonely' so to speak.

Also, I take it that you are studying now, so that means you don't have a stable income. In such a case I advise against it. It's 50 dollars a session, and you are taking money from your parents. Assuming you go once a week to the cheapest legal houses that charge $50 a session, it will amount to $200 a month. That's not a small amount of money, and it can buy lots of stuff compared to only two hours of spread out sex where you can pop yourself 4 times.

Also, I saw you checking out the freelance section. I advise you against booking those cause it's three times the price and while it is three times the price, it doesn't guarantee it's good. That one is for people with money and earning power.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

In such a case I advice against it.

Should be "I ADVISE against it." "Advice" is a noun.

I saw you checking out the freelance section. I advice you against booking those

Should be "I ADVISE you against booking those...". "Advice" is a noun.

[SammyNewbie]

Are you an english teacher, boss?

I saw you talking about this several times.

Like you cannot tahan already because the mistake keeps repeating. >.<"

I advice you to let it go before you get a heart attack.

[sgjoey]

From the evolutionary perspective, your sex drive is strongest right after puberty. It means that humans are actually built to have sex at this time, and the longer the delay, the lesser the chances of maximum fulfillment later on in life.

Modern lifestyles and silly morality conventions however sell people the idea that they need to postpone sex until after marriage. Thankfully, not many people subscribe to such ideas anymore, but there are still plenty out there who still live by this needless mental restraint.

If I were you, I would dump your present gf and look for someone more accomodating. As to whether or not you should make use of the services of sex workers, a major consideration at your point in life is affordability. But you should try them out at least a few times to get rid of this virginity nonsense.

Good luck.

[Kenzetan]

Hey bro I don't mean to add on too but you got it wrong again! It should be "I advise you to let it go before you get a heart attack"

You give someone advice, but you advise them against doing something!

[Kenzetan]

Originally Posted by SammyNewbie

Are you an english teacher, boss?

I saw you talking about this several times.

Like you cannot tahan already because the mistake keeps repeating. >.<"

I advice you to let it go before you get a heart attack.

Hey bro! Just wanted to tell you that you got it wrong again!! Haha, it should be "I advise you to let it go before you get a heart attack.[/QUOTE]

You give someone advice but you advise someone Different!