questions after bonking.....

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

My finger "kungfu" is good also... Maybe we are trained from the same "Clan"??? And of course my specialty will be my tougue...

hmmmm because I told her about one of my ex broke off with me still got the guts to say, she will miss my fingers..... then it all started with the fingers.... she told me she never was so high before.... well, guess she enjoy too.

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by foolish_

I think it's just a phase in life you are going through. Having had all the sex you wanted, you start looking for the emotional aspect rather than just the physical aspect of sex.

If I were you, maybe you can cool down the sex part and focus for awhile on an emotional relationship. I am sure after a while, the desire for just plain sex will come back.

actually i got a gf, who is busy with her life and seldom meet.... maybe due to this I drift off from my gf... and flirt around aimlessly.... yeah... this might be the case.

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by medicheng

hmmmm because I told her about one of my ex broke off with me still got the guts to say, she will miss my fingers..... then it all started with the fingers.... she told me she never was so high before.... well, guess she enjoy too.

Hahaha... Then I think she miss your fingers more than your "Erhmm"...
Bro, Not a good sign leh... Next time must let the girls miss your "Erhmm".... (Just kidding, hope you don't mind)

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

Hahaha... Then I think she miss your fingers more than your "Erhmm"...
Bro, Not a good sign leh... Next time must let the girls miss your "Erhmm".... (Just kidding, hope you don't mind)

haha yeah loh... but then erhmm not good so use finger skills to cover up mah....

[benz]

finger masters medicheng and MachoDevilX

please accept me as your disciple

personally don't think it's a good idea to mix sex and friendship.

you might be feeling hollow coz you are not getting what you are looking for in your current relationship? perhaps you could talk to your gf and work things out.

[medicheng]

haha no xue fei how to teach u? *look at weighing scale*

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by medicheng

haha no xue fei how to teach u? *look at weighing scale*

Agree.... And our Xue Fei is not cheap leh... Such skill requires numerous training before we can master it... Maybe we can let you practice the "finger" skill on the girl and you let us practice our "Erhmm" skills....

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by medicheng

actually i did express to her before that i like her... but she say she will not choose me..... haiz.... that is the sadness of that part....

Well, if this is the case then no strings attached. Women are no longer play things of men, it can be the other way round.

[Richard L]

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."

FOR EXAMPLE:
One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you hold me.

I said "WHAT????!!! What was that?!" So she says the words that every husband on the planet dreads to hear..."You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed dept. store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which to get so I told her we'll just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went on to the jewelry dept. where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings.

Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier...

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it." Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled WHAT???!!!"

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

[wolfy]

haha i think you are a very brave man bro. don't think you'll be having sex for quite a long time if you ask me

nice post! really enjoyed reading it.

Originally Posted by Richard L

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Well, if this is the case then no strings attached. Women are no longer play things of men, it can be the other way round.

yeah I even got a guy friend as old as me but he dun dare to find gf.... coz the girls nowadays are scary to him..... haha

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by Richard L

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."

nah man do think with their hearts, if not, how come got people like me being bother about this bonking thingy? u fulfilled your phyiscal urge but how about ur emotionally self? how u satifed to bonk your whole life away? and not finding someone to settle down? someone whom u will feel emotionally click with?

[medicheng]

Originally Posted by MachoDevilX

Agree.... And our Xue Fei is not cheap leh... Such skill requires numerous training before we can master it... Maybe we can let you practice the "finger" skill on the girl and you let us practice our "Erhmm" skills....

it is a long long way before we master this skill.... haha....

[mayday]

Originally Posted by medicheng

coz the girls nowadays are scary to him.....

wah! in wat ways??

[jeronimo]

Originally Posted by medicheng

Find a gf to settle down and marry? hmmmmmm, but how to find a girl who is totally emotionally click with you? And also allow u to bonk and satified you emotionally? I had been thru quite a number of relationships and none work well.....

Oh man, I felt I am too greedy in this, but then after bonking everytime, I think, is this the lifestyle I want all these while?

If you are me, what will you do?

I think its very common for people to feel lost
My best friends fcuk around too and they do it big time
But at the end of the day, they finish the business then its game over time
But those are strictly transactional basis

Who don't want a perfect lady in the house that can cook, click, tease?
I have not been tru many relationhips but no to the extent of only 1 (pleeezzz) but I do not shun the possibility of a new relationship that could spell the end of the drought
If going in just to get out or even before getting in, you are afraid to lose.
Then the greater would be your loss

There's no harm in going into another alley, if you walk the right one you would be on your sunshine avenue, else backtrack again

Just my thoughts aloud