Ex wanting to get back together

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Well here to seek advice from bros here... My ex who I broke up with since a year ago started contacting me again since 2 months ago... Reason why we broke up? He brought another girl home to have sex and I caught them in the act. After that he even tell all his family members who knew that we were together that we were just friends and I was the one who thought we were together and stuck to him. We were together for more than half a year and his parents and close cousins all knew about us being together. Needless to say, I told him that we will never see each other again.

Lately he keep sending me msges via whatsapp saying that he miss me and all and he realized his mistakes, etc etc. Any idea what this guy is up to? Coming back to me hopefully to get some sex?

Some advice from fellow samsters and samstress here please....

Let me make a guess here? First u should have some feelings for him now cos if u dun.. i guess this thread won't appear anyway

So my next ques will be are u willing to forgive and forgive and love him again? can u give him another chance?

And my second ques is are you able to handle the heart break if he does that another time to you? diff ppl diff point of view

But if i were to be in ur shoes... i just simply ask him to Fuck off... Many fish in the ocean... why bother? And i can't accept someone cheating on me...

[MrJD]

TS, your ex is just trying his luck. He will move on once his mass appeal gets a response.

[axeman24]

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Totally no more feelings.

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

Just tell him not to disturb you and also include that sex with him is lousy and you cannot imagine having sex with him anymore.
I am sure that will wake up his idea.

[ol'coyote]

yo babylyn...
tell him to FO...
he still send msgs...ignore...
after sone tume...he will leave u alone...
he only wan foc sex wif u...
after a year already...
u shd have your own life...w/o him...
so why go back to him?...
if u need the sex...here so many bros waiting...
me inclusive...hehe...

[NetRodent]

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Well here to seek advice from bros here... My ex who I broke up with since a year ago started contacting me again since 2 months ago... Reason why we broke up? He brought another girl home to have sex and I caught them in the act. After that he even tell all his family members who knew that we were together that we were just friends and I was the one who thought we were together and stuck to him. We were together for more than half a year and his parents and close cousins all knew about us being together. Needless to say, I told him that we will never see each other again.

Lately he keep sending me msges via whatsapp saying that he miss me and all and he realized his mistakes, etc etc. Any idea what this guy is up to? Coming back to me hopefully to get some sex?

Some advice from fellow samsters and samstress here please....

One Chinese idiom for you:

"好马不吃回头草“

literally: a good horse doesn't come back to the same pasture (idiom)

One should not go back to one's past experiences (of love, job etc)

I am a guy, and had experience in managing multiple serious relationship with different lovers at the same time, I know, how this type of guys think, mostly opportunists.

Since the whole case is known to his relatives, it would be shown bad if you were found together with him again, how to explain it? Probably you would be in the negative light in their eyes. Nothing good would come out from this relationship when the gossip goes around, soon this reunion would broke-up again.

Piece of advice, dump him and move on.

[unsung80]

He makes you look like a fool in the first place. Why bother, you ask because maybe you still have some feeling for him. Maybe he just want to drill your hole that's all.

[AmeShin]

Originally Posted by unsung80

He makes you look like a fool in the first place. Why bother, you ask because maybe you still have some feeling for him. Maybe he just want to drill your hole that's all.

I concur you leave him



Anyway you may just want more ppl to justify the actions you decided but not so call still got feelings for him.

And in most case, sex is not even as important to a female than a guy, jeez some even advice that you stay for free sex... when is cheated of your emotional feelings of a serious relationship.......
You deserve a better guy....

I suppose I will be zapped by lowly ppl soon. For the above comment

[Brainstorm]

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Reason why we broke up? He brought another girl home to have sex and I caught them in the act. After that he even tell all his family members who knew that we were together that we were just friends and I was the one who thought we were together and stuck to him. We were together for more than half a year and his parents and close cousins all knew about us being together. Needless to say, I told him that we will never see each other again.

Why is he an ex to you when you were never even a gf to him? You see him as your ex. Does he see you as his ex too? In some cases, there are strong reasons to patch back. In your case, I can't think of any reason. Lousy guy, lousy sex, why bother to even consider?

[sean69]

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Reason why we broke up? He brought another girl home to have sex and I caught them in the act.

if he can do it once, he can do it again.. remember, once he succumbs to the darkside, there is no turning back...

Originally Posted by BabyLyn

Sex wasn't good with him. He could barely last for 10mins.

alamak... then i cannot volunteer myself to you liao ...

[MidnightRose]

Hi Sis,

Mind me for being blunt, if a guy can bring a gal back to f at his own bed even he has a intimate gf, he doesnt even respect you or he treated u as one of the gal. The gal he brought back might not be the only gal u saw.....If u still have faith with him, u r wrong.

Dump him and find a better one. There are many good men around.

[tttk3388]

Ask yourself can you accept somebody who had betrayed you before. If you cant just move on, after all both of you are only in the BGR state. If you are thinking having a long term r/s with him, then you gonna think twice. First of all trust between both of you have been broken, so eventually the unfaithfulness of him will haunt you back someday. Just my two cents worth.

[manmach]

"fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.". unless you want to be fooled again, the answer is no....

[notti4u]

Sis,

Just leave him alone and move ahead with life. This guy only wants to get into your pussy. If he dare to bring a girl back to his house to bonk, do you think he will not do it again? If you do not have feeling for him, you will already block him on Watsapp and will not watsapp him and reply him already.

[acidicavex]

What you mention remind me of someone......

This gal move in with her bf practically living in with the BF and mother. Whenever they fight she will run back to her own home for the night.

Well on that crazy occasion she and her bf have a big fight she went back to her own place 2nd night only she cannot tahan her parent nagging. So she contract around and finally a guy friend of hers don't mind let her stay with him.

Normally the fight will end the next day when they meet up. But somehow they didn't so she got piss off went party with the guy friend etc. She told me nothing happen (it was much later she say she have sex with the guy). Anyway on the forth day she started to play soft and went back to her BF place (she have the key). Well what she saw cause her to break up the BF was naked with one of their mutual friend also naked.

Well i got to know her when she blabbling around the net that she want to take revenge all this. Until i finally met her and coffee etc. But later part she told me after 1+ mths of break up with her BF. Her ex still contract her and she also don't know why end up being her Ex FB for a short time until they got found out by the mutual friend gal whom replace her role as GF after the breakup.

Don't know whether she purposely do it or the EX is really a good fuck. But since you mention your EX is a 10 min guy than move along is my vote.

[xiaobawang]

forget about him or her unless you are itchy which will be doom for you to foolishly fall again