An affairs at cross road !

[stillgottheblue]

No need divorce, just fuck the girl until she gets tired of you or you get tired of her. But be warn, she don't go such kill herself later.

[Greendevil]

bro my feel is, since you already decided to divorce, then jus own up and tell the truth to her. it is only fair that way. you think u divorce liao and 1 month later u marry again, she not going to know???

[wells]

you have forgotten your vow.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Bro Kigo San, got your PM, a very long one and I think I will reply you here.
It will be long and also in segments.

When we are young, we always hope to marry the one we love and live happily ever after.
How many can actually achieve that?
No one can sail in a smooth ocean 24/7/365, there are bound to be turbulent weather occasionally. So as in life.

Marriage?
What's the whole purpose of getting married?
You don't marry someone you love, you marry someone with integrity, someone who can care for you, your parents, your family, thru thick and thin, never despise you no matter what, someone who is responsible and can hold the fort when you are down.
Remember these!
These are attribute of A WIFE!
Rare? Not really but not common too.

Cycle of life.
Remember this, we all go to school, have a gf, part tor, loose our virginity, then either get married, for the guai guai type or change bonking partners till we so called, FIND THE ONE

Ok, so you found that one, 1st few years is lovey dovy, granted but it's called honeymoon period, but day in day out see same person, fuck same hole....you have to be an angel not to be SICK OF IT!

So, cycle of life comes to play now. You 2 hit your 30s and you're all not getting younger. But you're still together and kidless. So now what. Well, all your priorities are ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME, when it should be, my kids, my family, their school etc etc etc

So since it's all ME, everyday eat sharks fin will also sian one.
Then you chance upon chai tow kuey...damn tasty and shiok, even after you go home brush teeth, you can still feel the texture and smell the chai tow kuey. Try eating this chai tow kuey ONLY for the next 30yrs and trust me, you will be sianzzz too!

This is life. There is no one man who will not say, I WILL NOT TASTE NEW MEAT.
You have your needs, so does she.

Before you make any decisions, you owe it to her standing by your side when all was down. Trust me, in our modern society, i dare say, 6 out 10 will see you no up, KPKB or just leave you. She didn't. This attribute of her's already tells you her loyalty to you as a wife & has kept her part of the bargain. THRU THICK AND THIN

But now you have fallen for another PR, take a step back and ask yourself, if it was a friend of yours, you see his wife and see this PR, what will you advise your friend and what will your impression of him be?

So, you new meat is willing to leave her husband for you. What kind of woman do you call that?
Would you, if you ever become a dad, agree to let you son marry a woman who is willing to divorce her husband cos she fell in love after she got married to another man?

Marriage is not simple, but marriage is also a cycle of life that we all MUST go thru.
Everyone says, the grass is greener on the otherside, but when they go the otherside, most will complain, last time my place grass greener.
The fact that your current wife does not agree to a divorce shows her commitment to her vows.

My advise to you my friend is, just keep that PR to fulfill you cock and emo needs but don't be the bastard who breaks up a family. KARMA will follow, money back guarantee! Let someone kenna the karma not you.

Sit down, don't be a MCP and have a good talk with your wife, pour your heart and soul out, have a confession with her about all your vice and all that shit.
Bro, been there done that, you'll be surprised to know by this, how much she loves you and have given her all to you.
This is what I call, A WIFE!

Then for fucks sake, have children, have a family, and soon, you'll see sleep is more important that fucking a cunt lol
You see old couples holding hands walking around parks and all that, that's love. Fucking part is just physical pleasures, not love!

You want advise, here's the honest truth.

Good Luck

P.S: Which chee bye kia told you to find me one as you mentioned someone told you to find me

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro Kigo San, thanks for your pm

Please check your pm on the 2 routes in your crossroad..........Make the WISE choice. What's Love and what's Lust! What's the agenda......Good luck!

[sean69]

Originally Posted by Kigo San

Dear samster,

This time round I must admit things turn to an uncharted
Arena for me. What started out as just friendship turns
Into lovers for us and we are at crossroad.

To cut short, we are both committed to our family. she is married less than
3 yrs, while myself about 5yr. I will call her MM here, she have spoken to her
partner for a divorce and her partner know of my existence. Likewise, I have spoken to my Home partner too except my do not know of mm presence. Therefore, despite several talk, my home wifey still refuse for a divorce, even I
Have hinted to her that I am seeing someone......

Maybe seniors can advice me. Need to hear some noise / dif view on how to work these issue out. Can PM me too.

to cut a long story short, you are both committed to your family but you want to get a divorce?? .. what the fuck are you talking about??!!..

if the feeling is gone and no kids, get a freaking divorce but dun give the bullshit that you are committed...

like what other people have said, if MM can cheat on her current husband, what is stopping her to cheat once she married you?

similar, for the same reason that you are tired of your current wife and cheated on her with MM, one fine day, it will re-surface again... the mundane routine life will get to you and you will cheat again..

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

..... and soon, you'll see sleep is more important that fucking a cunt lol

Absofuckinglutely agree with that sentence. How I miss the days when I could sleep till noon on a weekend... Sigh.

[Iemanishere]

My dear sbf brother..
All brothers here... how good or how bad we may be to our partners and wife, one thing is for sure we always go home after what we have done... and I tell u... our partners and wife's know as well most man will sure eat outside ones every blue moon... but the things is our wife and partners always intend to look at the better side and that is thy always come home thus how bad can thy be....unless unless...
My point is think and think again...
Cheers..

[ahpui99]

It is ok to eat out once in a while but never ta pau the whores back home

My 2 cents worth

[puzzleman]

there is no right or wrong when situation like this happens. However the decision is yours as you the only one knows the reason behind it . Be it good bad ugly be prepared to face and manage it well too.
No one can tell or direct how you wanna life to be. You answered for your own actions. I know you are in a tight situation as I have been and already there

end of the day no matter what it is

You are gonna face it alone and no one will help you

that's a facts and reality
follow your heart or your brain
you decide

good luck to you

[lorraina]

does divorce means happiness to both of you? unless you are sure that she is your lifelong companion. else, same thing might just happened again..

[xiaopangge69]

Originally Posted by lorraina

does divorce means happiness to both of you? unless you are sure that she is your lifelong companion. else, same thing might just happened again..

agree... how sure can you be that she is definitely your lifelong companion? and compare it to how sure you were when you decided to marry your current wife. marriage is a commitment. looks like the grass is always greener on the other side? is your wife treating u badly now?

[leaseoflife]

Many good advice here. totally agree. No matter how dickhead we are... back of the head there is always the family.

Sexual gratification is not lasting.

True that some bros or sis here will think we are hypocrites talking abt love when we monger... but it is impt to remember why we got married in the first place. Granted that many of us..including me.. would have thought of leaving the greener pasture once in a while. but truth behold that time will show who is your love and who is your fling.

Last note.. i hope you dont have kids... or this will definitely be a very selfish decision.

[TCH1975]

U choose one u only left with one. Just carry on as usual n u have both. after 20 yrs u will know the better choice.

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

P.S: Which chee bye kia told you to find me one as you mentioned someone told you to find me

Long time no hear from you, this is your last post so I just quoted it. That cbk make a good recommendation leh. Haha.