Advice Please (Ver 2.0)

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

Originally Posted by DNAT

O/Nite for 2 months ... S$130 x 60 days = S$7,800 ..

Way to go .. !!! lidat get a Kalimantan chinese wife better lah .. S$9888 only.

Brother if it is within my means I will not let her work even the ST, but the OKT says no so everday I pay for 3-5 ST sessions

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

Originally Posted by Eastpipper

no offence huh,but i really smell a fish here,better chk b4 u commit.

I trust her, also she will be with me in Singapore once I marry her so I dun care for her past or if she has a bf/husband in Thailand or whatever

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Since you have got the 5 million Baht (SPG$211) ready, that means you got serious business here. Since she's a WL, her work permit is kinda specially issued by MOM. You shld cancel her work permit, send her back home for awhile, return back to SGP and ask MOM for approval b4 heading to ROM for registration. Seems very easy uncomplicated but it's not. Take care huh.

Rof|maoxz

I can cancel the AV permit for her on my own? I intend to enage a lawyer to go to MOM/AV/ICA or where ever to demand her release, possible?

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by RX-8(SFF4518X)

She only in this trade for 4 months plus can cancel and go home just like that?

Dun know how deep is your relationship with her. By judging your thread, I think you are just handle things aimlessly. Without much consideration you want to discuss an important event call marriage?

[jdi813]

Sad to tell u bro ... u dun sound like ur in the right frame of mind to make this sorta decisions ... Marrying a WL is not something u wanna rush into ... % million debt ??? U know wat the hell she did to inccur such a huge debt ??? It's really a hell of alot of money man ...

My advice would be to take it slowly ... find out more about her and her background b4 u make such a life changing decision ...

how long have u known her and how much do u know about her ???

Watever we tell u ... ur mind is more or less made up liao ... Just hope that she is not playin u big time ... Wish u all the best in watever decision u decide to make

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by Eastpipper

no offence huh,but i really smell a fish here,better chk b4 u commit.

S$217,000 leh ... if got this sum of money, teng poh zhuar also got many Sg gals come and pai-tui to be your wife leh ...

S$50K - renovate new home
S$80K - buy a new car
S$30K - FD under the gal's name
S$50K - wedding ceremony package and banquet

gum gum ho ... still got S$7K can go Japan for 7 days honey moon

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by RX-8(SFF4518X)

I can cancel the AV permit for her on my own? I intend to enage a lawyer to go to MOM/AV/ICA or where ever to demand her release, possible?

Nope, you cant cancel on your own of course. Cancellation Of Work Permit is to be done by the employer. On the termination of the worker’s employment (inclusive of resignation) or On the expiry of the Work Permit.The Work Permit cannot be cancelled in advance. The cancellation of the Work Permit is done immediately when the required documents are submitted at the Work Permit Department.

Call 6438 5122 to find out more.

[guppiesguppies]

i agree with bro above... do your background check... don't be caught being the fool... $ can make back though... but nursing a broken heart is tuff... from what i see...

anyway am i wrong to say that CAT40 girls are usually up in the thai market for quite a while before they are exported to singapore??? that's what is norm in the CAT40 market right? i'm not implying the "Worth It Or Not" for i believe True Love is priceless...

still the same words... don't be caught being the fool...

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

I just want to do whatever it takes to stop her from working ASAP. You guys are also men, I ask you who can take it that his wife is being fuck by other men everyday while I sit and do nothing? I must save her at all costs! I admit now I am very rash and reckless but I will go crazy if this is to carry on, money is secondary and I dun mind what she did in the past since I love her, but now that she is going to be my woman I cannot allow this to happen. I am now asking close friends of mine to go and pay for double sessions at one time so that I can prevent her from working. Of course in the room they will do nothing and I will just be chatting with her on the phone. This OKT claims that I cannot block book her even if I pay as it is against AV laws? Is there such a thing? Luckily I got the worker in my pocket so everynight I can go and book her since the OKT is not around at night. The OKT even wants to ban me from going to the house. If he makes me angry I might just bump him off.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by RX-8(SFF4518X)

Brother if it is within my means I will not let her work even the ST, but the OKT says no so everday I pay for 3-5 ST sessions

ok bro .. you go the money but can you ensure she can stay in Sg permanently after you marry her? ...

unless you intend to move to Thailand then I got nothing to say.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by RX-8(SFF4518X)

I trust her, also she will be with me in Singapore once I marry her so I dun care for her past or if she has a bf/husband in Thailand or whatever

let me remind you first .. there is no way she is gonna get a long term visit pass in Sg even through marriage, let alone PR status. Unless she get a new ID ..

[OkoBoko]

Assuming a rich guy driving a RX-8 going crazy over a CAT40? Bro, u can hv tons if u want man...........think u really need to cool off & hv a serious thought of dat. Yr personal friends never advise u? How about yr family members?

[LeDivorcee]

Originally Posted by RX-8(SFF4518X)

I trust her, also she will be with me in Singapore once I marry her so I dun care for her past or if she has a bf/husband in Thailand or whatever

Hello bro,

Trust me on this lah... no GL girl, especially those who are working in the house one, are worth that sort of attention from you. Furthermore, 5 mil of baht is no small amount to a thai, you may have that kind of money to throw to her, doesn't mean that she will just follow you around like a puppy... how can you ensure she won't be back into the same trade during the day when you are working?

You can never know when she is going to turn around and bite you in your back. With that kind of money, you can have your choice of PRC, Viet, Cambodia or even Indon. What for go looking for love in GL?

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

Originally Posted by OkoBoko

Assuming a rich guy driving a RX-8 going crazy over a CAT40? Bro, u can hv tons if u want man...........think u really need to cool off & hv a serious thought of dat. Yr personal friends never advise u? How about yr family members?

What is wrong? Rich pple cannot love poor pple? She being poor is no fault of hers, what's so great with driving an RX-8? No BS but I can ask for a real sports car if I want to but that's not my style, if a girl falls for me because I am driving a Porsche then she should marry my car not me what I am looking for is true love not tons of woman who love my money.
My family has meet her couple of times but they dun know her trade as I dun think they can take it. Now I am taking money form them to help her as I am still in NS and my monthly allowance and savings dun have enough but luckily they have not started asking questions yet that's why I need to solve this ASAP

[RX-8(SFF4518X)]

Originally Posted by LeDivorcee

Hello bro,

Trust me on this lah... no GL girl, especially those who are working in the house one, are worth that sort of attention from you. Furthermore, 5 mil of baht is no small amount to a thai, you may have that kind of money to throw to her, doesn't mean that she will just follow you around like a puppy... how can you ensure she won't be back into the same trade during the day when you are working?

You can never know when she is going to turn around and bite you in your back. With that kind of money, you can have your choice of PRC, Viet, Cambodia or even Indon. What for go looking for love in GL?

why musty we put money on one end of the scale and the love the girl deserve from us on the other end? Can we really measure LOVE? How much a kilo? I know I can have my choice of many 'decent' women but I only love her and she loves me, who's to say 'decent' girls dun sleep around? Go to the clubs at night and you can see how slutty the 'decent' girls are. My wife she is only doing this for finanicial reasons, she is not s slut. When we get marry, I will provide for her and her family there is no need for her to go back to the trade. She is a simple girl with simple needs