If your FB from SBF ask you to quit SBF. Will you? - Page 2

sane · #16 25-04-2013, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Oxen

Your point of view applies to extreme cases. Let's name an example, you cannot deny the fact, in SBF when there are many so called righteous people that pm on the sly with proposals and suggestions once they know the nick is a gal regardless knowingly that the gal is attached or not to someone in SBF. WELL it's SBF, it's a sex forum and most are looking for sex isn't it. Will u feel comfy when ur FB gets such proposals and you know about it? This is my own 2 cents worth.

TS, how about u? u sound v troubled. Are u in such situation? y u nvr response to my reply? i m the first to post in your thread!!!

Anyway I feel u should noe what type of person she is. Is she type who sleep around or be tempted easily? Be reasonable.

sane · #17 25-04-2013, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by micmac888

Nope. I won't feel uncomfortable. Fuck buddy is fuck buddy - I get my definition right. If one cannot control to see FB as just being a pure FB - he/she is getting him/her-self into emotional turmoil and possibly real-life gf/bf/wife/husband/fiance/fiancee innocently dragged into it (one's change in routine behaviour, schedule, habits etc etc). Worse still - both FBs get themselves emotionally turmoil(ed) and yet dare not be a pair of "legit" lovebirds in public.

So my question back at "you" - "You" able to handle it ?

Totally agreed unless What TS meant is not fb but his GF

TS, waiting for your reply.....................

Oxen · #18 25-04-2013, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by micmac888

Nope. I won't feel uncomfortable. Fuck buddy is fuck buddy - I get my definition right. If one cannot control to see FB as just being a pure FB - he/she is getting him/her-self into emotional turmoil and possibly real-life gf/bf/wife/husband/fiance/fiancee innocently dragged into it (one's change in routine behaviour, schedule, habits etc etc). Worse still - both FBs get themselves emotionally turmoil(ed) and yet dare not be a pair of "legit" lovebirds in public.

So my question back at "you" - "You" able to handle it ?

FB relationships are happy come unhappy go basis. I do understand. If you look upon it with another angle, isn't it the same as any other relationships just that it comes with fine print.

Look upon the issue with a open mind and you will see beyond and understand what I am regressing about.

I do had my fair share of misdemeanors and I am just sharing my experiences out loud to discuss not rant nor seek advice cos I am fully capable of HANDLING it.

sane · #19 26-04-2013, 07:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Oxen

I do had my fair share of misdemeanors and I am just sharing my experiences out loud to discuss not rant nor seek advice cos I am fully capable of HANDLING it.

U manage to find fb here? I m still waiting for u to share your experiences ......

U seem to be serious in r/s including your r/s with your fb. Mind sharing your stories>

BiRd13 · #20 26-04-2013, 12:57 PM

Hmm... I think you meant if your friend/fb know that you are surfing sbf

For me yes if my FB is from sbf

If she wanted me to quit, I will quit... Provided she will quit too...
Of course it's not a full time thing... As I won't know how long will last with the fb... Probably once 'break off', then will return back.

An example is that several years ago, I got an FB from here. She wanted me to stop surfing this site, and hence I stopped after she promised me she won't online in sbf as well...

Later on, I found out that she still surf sbf (through history) and hence I came back to sbf again... We did had a slight argument on that... But the faith in her have faded pertaining to this case... So since then, I'm allow to surf sbf again even we are still now together...

DegenerationX · #21 26-04-2013, 03:56 PM

Siao meh?? FB only leh. Not GF or wife leh.

sane · #22 26-04-2013, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Siao meh?? FB only leh. Not GF or wife leh.

How many fb here u hv

micmac888 · #23 27-04-2013, 12:44 AM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Siao meh?? FB only leh. Not GF or wife leh.

My same sentiments exactly.

sane · #24 27-04-2013, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by micmac888

My same sentiments exactly.

Its because he see her as a gf n not a fb

curiouslala · #25 28-04-2013, 05:08 PM

well, i was in quite a same condition before.
he's not asking me to quit but to lessen my activities here for my own good.

with his great reason and all, i think of it and i did follow him.
i should thank him as i get a GREAT opportunity when i was away from SBF.
well, if he read this, he should know that i'm very grateful listening to him

but now i dont have to oblige to his request for the sake of keeping him..
as i realized he's never be mine from the start..

so, i think you better think again..
because you dont have to obliged to her request.
but if its to keep her (and its hard for you to get another fbs) then do whatever that you want la..

crood · #26 28-04-2013, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by curiouslala

but now i dont have to oblige to his request for the sake of keeping him..
as i realized he's never be mine from the start..

so, i think you better think again..
because you dont have to obliged to her request.
but if its to keep her (and its hard for you to get another fbs) then do whatever that you want la..

morale of the story: A fb is just a fb, don't take it seriously.