Advice is needed

[fei2012]

Originally Posted by fabiann

....Juz very afraid the result will be the same.

How can your didi harden when you are afraid, looks like your fear/anxiety of the result could be one of the cause. Try booking longer time to slowly built up the horny level & to relax the mind, not sure if you want to try surfing the porn site alone/with the WL/FL. Sometimes I used to do that before booking for action

[Brainstorm]

Originally Posted by fabiann

u said dodgy sex pills. the XP 2D tongkat ali is also counted as dodgy sex pills? but if i were to see a doctor. i really dont know how to pop that problem to him.

Such pills should not be seen as just another type of vitamin pill. You never know exactly what goes into these pills and if the make up for future versions of this pill is changed. Remember this? Slim 10 was sold at NTUC Healthcare Pharmacy. Does the place where the pills are sold make the pills more credible?

You should see a doctor who will analyse your health, allergies before prescribing pills for you. We are all trying to cheong for a long time and not for the last time after all. Normal guys may adapt well to the pills you mentioned but if you have underlying health issues, who knows if these pills will make your condition worse? Just being concerned for you bro.

I have been trying to lose weight. Some friends suggest expensive procedures like liposuction (down time 1 month) to expensive gym packages to expensive acupuncture to expensive beauty/slimming packages to MLM ($2K for 6 months) pills.

I decided to play safe and see my GP. He analysed my health, monitor my weight and prescribe me 1 pill of Duromine per day. The total monthly cost is $75 only. It makes me wonder why people will choose the other options which are more expensive and dangerous.

See a GP for your sex problem. Just show him the thumbs down sign and he will know. The cost might be higher but considering how much you are spending on FL, this cost is probably affordable to you.

[Big Sexy]

stick to diy then. it is safe and u still get to release.

Originally Posted by fabiann

When I do watch porn. And DIY. I don't have a problem. Cuz the speed and the tightness I can control with my hand.

[late bloomer]

1) For those who DIY too often, I think it's harder for you to come.

The walls of a woman's vagina are softer and more sensitive than a man's hand. So if you PCC too much, it would take greater effort on the girl's part to get you out.

2) Watching too much porn, especially good quality porn I think, would also subconsciously raise your expectations of how sex in reality is like.

Porn is all staged. The uniforms, the fetishes, the horny talk etc.

How many girls in Geylang can outperform / outshine AV actresses in terms of both looks department and skill? If your imagination runs too wild, it can work against you.

3) Do you drink alcohol? If you do (like me), it's even harder for you to come.

Like you, on bad days, I can stalk the streets of GL, jump from girl to girl, fail to come, burn holes in my wallet and cry over my stupidity the next morning (like what I'm doing now).

4) GL girls are usually concerned about timing and very few provide GFE feel. The ambience simply makes it very difficult to satisfy 'slow' performers like us.

So maybe you should find a horny and creative GF who is willing dress up as schoolgal / office lady / teacher / zoo keeper, complete with handcuffs and whip to spice up yr sex life. Just kidding.

Since she's yr GF, no need to watch the time. Can pet the whole day, from cinema to toilet to car, bathe together and talk dirty, then fuck yourselves silly in bed for 4 hours. Song boh?

[Sirrus]

your just stress out lar. what is ur age? do you smoke drink? are you fat?

[fabiann]

Originally Posted by Sirrus

your just stress out lar. what is ur age? do you smoke drink? are you fat?

i am below the age of 30 and over the age of 25. and yup i do smoke. but for drink wise. i dont drink. maybe once in 3 months.

[HarryPopGer]

Originally Posted by fabiann

i am below the age of 30 and over the age of 25. and yup i do smoke. but for drink wise. i dont drink. maybe once in 3 months.

I used to have the same(or similar) problem like u. But my problem is not about ejacuation but more on erection.I am not anywhere near 30s,but at my 40s tho. And my situation happens during my 30s. (if i can't erect,or having only short erection,i cant ejacuate)

Every time i try commercial sex,the erection problem persist.It is either i cant have a 100% erection or just 75% erection at max which don't last. I do not have problem of such with my gf(prc singer) and wife at all. From there on, i begin to realise one thing abt myself,i can't have 100% sextisfaction with woman i arent familar with or not comfortable with.

Went to see a doc (7-8yrs back) for this issue and the doc says its something like a psychologically problem. (Bro late bloomer was somehow right) I was then prescribe with some ED pills and becos my problem wasn't due to physical,i am only require to take the minimum prescribed which is only half a pill.

Today being 40++,i have no problem with commercial sex.

[desmond_lee]

just take blue pills or if not, revival for men loh.

it works for me 100%, even when you dun have the mood 100% or the FL is unfriendly, will make your didi really hard.

i would rather spend some $$ on these pills for guaranteed performance loh.

[rider88]

don't masturbate or watch porn too much..
think you are having the same problem like me.. i don't quite get full erection at times and it goes soft as well..
i'm single and therefore i masturbated a lot, and for masturbation i'm like quickie as ejaculation is the joyest moment.. so at times i have ejaculation before it is even fully erected..
got to realise this problem and therefore i go for commercial sex.. just to make sure my bro is still functioning well.. i don't watch porn or masturbate nowadays and the erection part is improving though it may be bad some times..
by the way, i am below 30 and above 25.. good luck bro..

[fulham]

avoid those food and drink that are too nourishing or too nutritious for your little bro

[fabiann]

Originally Posted by fulham

avoid those food and drink that are too nourishing or too nutritious for your little bro

example like?