How to Make it happen? - Page 2

seedofcucky · #16 26-06-2005, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Xfactor

That's our first year of marriage, jess slowly died down & we did not have any other activities for years until recently......some dark secret from Jess make me think of my next plan.....

What was ur wife's dark secret?

stephenL · #17 26-06-2005, 05:59 PM

Dickrick,
Exactly as what Xfactor had said, "You have to understand your partner fully before you consider is she the right person to paticipate in such activities.". Once the ground rules is layed, you cannot go back on your words nor any arguments pertaining to the sexual escapee be brought forward.
It's not easy to keep it in the marriage, but we had try much effort to love each other more every day, and of-cos the kids is the driving force.

Xfactor
what's your next plan?.
I had a plan and it work out well as planned.This time round with my drinking buddy. Recalling how i get it done before i give a full FR on it. ( will be posting shortly)
Mine is much different from yours as we don't frequent pub after our marriage, but indeed the first few years were filled with exciting sexlife.
we are into our 8 yrs of marriage now, and still ever loving to ach other.
cheers...

peterpan · #18 26-06-2005, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by stephenL

I had a plan and it work out well as planned.This time round with my drinking buddy. Recalling how i get it done before i give a full FR on it. ( will be posting shortly)...

Im looking forward to ur FR. For me and my gf, we ve reach a stage where its getting a little mundane for us now. It seems so 'normal' for her to go out and flirt with guys, getting ONS here and there... I really hv no idea wat will happen let's say mb 3 yrs down the rd...

Since we started i think early this year, she's done (inclusive of pcc, bj or fj) ard mb 50 guys liao... Thats alot of guys compared to the fact that the only sex she got was from her exbf and me.... One must bear in mind that she was actually a very kwai chatholic gal who tinks sex as a dirty and holy act only to be given to her man on her nuptial nite... I wld say the more sex she get, the more horny she bcums... Ive totally changed her from a 'nun' to a wholesome 'slut'.

Im comtemplating whether to stop it for awhile... Get her to be the old her and mb try it again when we r married and our sex life has becum boring. Wat u tink?

asdfghjkl · #19 26-06-2005, 06:20 PM

salute you! good life ah!

peterpan · #20 26-06-2005, 06:20 PM

Hey guys i found out 1 phenomenon...

Whenever we post a reply or a FR in our hotwife threads, there will always be alot of readers, or lurkers. They will read but none of them will actually type a reply or give thir comments. Can i noe y? Isit bcos the HW lifestyle is too extreme and unothordox that u guys dun agree on? Or does it all seem too unbelievable for u guys?

Just hope to u/s the feel from guys that are still 'normal'? Haha, perhaps we are really weird, but hey, this lifestyle is indeed very pop and widespread in the western part of the world...

No offences...

asdfghjkl · #21 26-06-2005, 06:25 PM

peter.. i dun understand your qns ler.. too chim for me..

peterpan · #22 26-06-2005, 06:27 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

peter.. i dun understand your qns ler.. too chim for me..

Simply put, many ple read, no ple reply. Y leh?

Too hiong for them to accept or not interested at all?

Paiseh my ang mo not so good...

asdfghjkl · #23 26-06-2005, 06:30 PM

actually not this thread only.. many threads i find also got high views but low replies.. maybe they are females?

seedofcucky · #24 26-06-2005, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by peterpan

Im comtemplating whether to stop it for awhile... Get her to be the old her and mb try it again when we r married and our sex life has becum boring. Wat u tink?

She would be thinking to herself that u may be regretting ur lifestyle. Her being a catholic seems to bring a sense of deja vu...her fellow catholics may deem it so wrong, but then again, isn't what is good defined why culture and society?

asdfghjkl · #25 26-06-2005, 06:58 PM

think catholic dun use contraceptive?

seedofcucky · #26 26-06-2005, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by peterpan

Just hope to u/s the feel from guys that are still 'normal'? Haha, perhaps we are really weird, but hey, this lifestyle is indeed very pop and widespread in the western part of the world...

No offences...

I tend to think that many readers here seem to think it's humiliating to let himself be a faithful hubby and let his wife fool around. But then again maybe they don't experience the rush u experience when u know ur partner has submitted to another man...the immense pride and excitement.

seedofcucky · #27 26-06-2005, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

think catholic dun use contraceptive?

That's according to what the Church preaches. But lets no get into religion shall we? It's a sensitive issue.

asdfghjkl · #28 26-06-2005, 07:07 PM

if wife catholic.. also bo pian..

stephenL · #29 26-06-2005, 08:38 PM

PP, you are right, most of them don't have this experience and were unable to comments and some bros, you know who lah, disapprove of this activities base on their own opinion.

Xfactor · #30 27-06-2005, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by stephenL

Xfactor
what's your next plan?.
I had a plan and it work out well as planned.This time round with my drinking buddy. Recalling how i get it done before i give a full FR on it. ( will be posting shortly)
Mine is much different from yours as we don't frequent pub after our marriage, but indeed the first few years were filled with exciting sexlife.
we are into our 8 yrs of marriage now, and still ever loving to ach other.
cheers...

Bro

We don't frequent pubs too..only when we need to find some sparks..then we'll proceed to pub & have a couple of drinks. Drinking at home can be real bore.

Oh, yes...good luck to your plan & i will look forward for your report.