Cheating girlfriend/partner/wife

[fictionman]

In a marriage where a guy needs to pay everything imo is not a healthy relationship...In ur case bro, u spend the cash & yet she still cheats on u...

Bro...Let her go

[porscheclub]

Dude, dump her asap. Save your torment & agony.

She may crawl back & cry then you'll have to see how to deal with her. There's plenty of women out there to love & be loved.

Happened to me before as well but wish I was a player back then or would've kept her as a FB cos she was fantastic in bed

After a few more relationships, one will learn to take it easier & accept the fact that relationships in the current world cannot be polygamy. It'll be a bonus if it does.

[patrickzapu]

Originally Posted by allbustyboobies

Bro Patrickzapu,

I am sorry to hear that.i know u feel. Pls pardon me,may I know if she is ur gf or wife? N did she behave strangely when she got home?

Bro, she's my OC, married for 20yrs now, i used to chiong and neglect family and many times almost divorce, but we manage to give each one more chance, one more try, now i just spend my time how to make the r/s happy.....

She's ok at home, normal, but when out, seems to forget where is home....

Maybe it's payback time, i deserve whatever is thrown at me....life is but a gamble......u never try, u never know......

[firejalan]

Hey..
Move on..
Gals who love me nvr expected me to pay for everything.. will chip in somehow .
Ur gal is not ready for commitment.. still want to look for a better man.
N u r not her right guy..
Think w a straight mind..
Else u will suffer..
When a gal stray, means she got not much feeling left for u..
So now.. what do u want?

[bobian]

lol i feel sad for u, because i just divorced my wife due to adultery. so i know exactly how u feel. my rship was 8 years dating 2 years married. a decade of my life...

my situation is a little different than urs. i can go long winded on my story here but i rather not. long story short, the girl i've wanted to spend the rest of my life with turned out someone who is not trustworthy at all, and i was being kept in the dark for at least 2 years, before i found out. if u check out my profile u would know from my previous posts that i was going through some rough patches like u before i got the courage to end my marriage.

in another words, as difficult as it looks, it is possible for u to end this before it gets worse; because if i can do it, so can u.

i can see that u're still in mid-late 20s (am i correct?). if u love ur gf despite her actions, u need to break this up, so that she can at least get into the next rship before she reached 30. usually girls who are still single by the time they reach 30 will have difficulties getting married as their "value" go down with age, unlike us guys who are the opposite - debatable but u get my point. i know she doesn't deserve ur compassion for what she did to u after all that u've provided for her, but hey like i said, if u really love her, thats the least u can do for her.

i'm still really hurt by my ex-wife with the things she did to me, but i'm kind of glad that i ended this before we have children and before we reach 30. because i cannot continue living with someone who i can't wholeheartedly trust, as u know what it will do to ur perfomance in work and health.

pls try ur best, and i say try ur best because i know how difficult it is, to not let ur heart make the decision, and let ur brain does it - if there is no trust in a rship, it is bound to fail.

[zeebji]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Dude, dump her asap. Save your torment & agony.

She may crawl back & cry then you'll have to see how to deal with her. There's plenty of women out there to love & be loved.

I fully agree. Just dump this materialistic, unfaithful woman ASAP. You are lucky you found out her true character before marriage. When a girl strays, it's as good as over. You should thank your god/gods/lucky stars!

[Yakuza]

Totally agreed wif all the bros n sis here .. wat's the point ..? The 1 main problem is ... U LOVE HER MORE THAN SHE LOVE YOU .. tat's the big prob. and she knows .. tat's y she's toying with ur weak mind. If she really seriously love u, she won't even bother to know further another man, accept for casual chat. She'll spend more time keeping in contact wif u and can't leave a day without u... and u'll know she won't hv any free time for anyone else ...
But, if she love u too much ... tat's another prob .. She'll be obsessive and possessive n check on u everytime... which is not good either..

From the above 2 examples .. u can put it tat she is TOTALLY 180º opposite. .

Use ur big head .. not ur soft Romeo heart and itchy small head .. cheersss.

[doubletap]

hi TS,

break up this r/s. no point buying EC or paying whatever bills. from yr story, I can tell tat yr gf is trying to find the perfect man! she got no heart for you at all.

give her up, before u have a nervous breakdown.

[Yakuza]

Let it go ..

[Beachsea]

Bro,

I have such Gf before....together real sweet. But behind can act single or flirt around or worst like those dirty sms.

Yours have a bigger issue , why is she asking for a condominium? Easier to sell off if should marriage fail? anyway such girl just keep as 'GF' while u go look for a new one. That's what i do when i encounter such girls , they totally forget guys can also play along.

I don't think you want a wife that you need to check on, you can't trust and need to be worried 24/7. esp if she tells you got gathering, got meeting or overseas work trip etc.

DONT GET MARRIED, no need break, go find a new GF !!!! hahaa
like job, secure one first before you quit ....

[happywoody]

gather your courage and break the relationship

go for a break literally; enjoy your new single status

then if you find someone compatible, start a relationship again

what's the rush - especially if u're going into a lifetime commitment - or at least that's the plan

[checkandmate]

Bro... It is better for u to let her go.. I was in your situation before.. I know its not easy letting go the person u really love but it has to be done.. Dun suffer yourself.. U deserve better.. There is plenty of fishes out there..

[doubletap]

once a man have been thoroughly hurt by woman from the previous relationship, especially when she mean a lot to the man, the man will most probably have no more heart to the next woman whom they are fucking next.

reason: the man is afraid tat the next woman ll give e same end result as the previous one. so he prefers to keep his heart, .............. to save the future pain.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by doubletap

once a man have been thoroughly hurt by woman from the previous relationship, especially when she mean a lot to the man, the man will most probably have no more heart to the next woman whom they are fucking next.

reason: the man is afraid tat the next woman ll give e same end result as the previous one. so he prefers to keep his heart, .............. to save the future pain.

This applies not solely for man only. But also to the ladies as well, only that with ladies, we are usually more 'forgiving'. for most, the way it works is heart over head so when we fall in love we hope that this one guy will be different. And with that belief, we'll be brave n take that chance. Man are more rationale and so react like you have mentioned.

In this case, I feel the best way forward is to move on. In every relationship there is bound to have one party loving the other more. That's fine so long the margin difference is not too great. You can't constantly give and just keep wanting to give. You'll get so shortchanged then so sick of it, a relationship isn't meant to be like that. I'm sure TS knows what's best for himself. Just need to act on it

[banana81sg]

Originally Posted by doubletap

once a man have been thoroughly hurt by woman from the previous relationship, especially when she mean a lot to the man, the man will most probably have no more heart to the next woman whom they are fucking next.

reason: the man is afraid tat the next woman ll give e same end result as the previous one. so he prefers to keep his heart, .............. to save the future pain.

so so so very agree