Affairs with a ML

[DevilTan4480]

pls continue.

[newyorker88]

Camping here.

[iHackCare]

camping for more too

[stoked]

Bro TS, stay in control of the dynamics. Based on my own and friends experiences, MLs, WLs, KTV gals are mostly the same. They prefer real companionship while they are here. They like the 感觉. Occassional dates, bit of pocket money here and there. Ultimately, they still prefer sex with 感觉. It's better they know you are married, usually they are fine with it and they can be competitive. Want to serve you better compared to your wife. But don't let them control you is most important. Eventually they have to go home. When I have chance I still visit former KTV gals here who have gone back to china. Treat me well too.

If you are going to be wreck by guilt, don't start. If start, be ready to cut anytime. Nothing they can do to you. My two cents worth.

[Sturmgrenadier]

Originally Posted by stoked

Bro TS, stay in control of the dynamics. Based on my own and friends experiences, MLs, WLs, KTV gals are mostly the same. They prefer real companionship while they are here. They like the 感觉. Occassional dates, bit of pocket money here and there. Ultimately, they still prefer sex with 感觉. It's better they know you are married, usually they are fine with it and they can be competitive. Want to serve you better compared to your wife. But don't let them control you is most important. Eventually they have to go home. When I have chance I still visit former KTV gals here who have gone back to china. Treat me well too.

If you are going to be wreck by guilt, don't start. If start, be ready to cut anytime. Nothing they can do to you. My two cents worth.

Nice perspective bro - sounds like theres a story behind it as well. Care to share?

[ringo6668]

TS my advise don't play with fire...later kana burn.

[101s]

Bros, Thks so much for the advices and supports.

PS: She is here on 6 month student pass and is PRC.

Continue.....

The following day, a message from her:

L: Don't be too nice toward me
J: Let me pamper you during your stint in Sg. That's all I can do for you.
L: Thks so much

The next few days, everything is quite routine, I kept on busy with my business. I texted her my regards now and then but no reply from her at all. I started to wonder and try to book 1 hour section with her to see if there would be any reply. Within a second, she replied to my booking.

I thought to myself:"when it come to money then you will only reply huh?". I straight away booked her 3 hours late night out of anger. Actually, i didn't know why i did that. Maybe, just to release my anger.

Key Part 2:

My booking for the night was for 10pm-1am but i was there around 9pm. 9pm +, sms from her:

L:dinner edi?
J:not yet
L:come up now
J:OK

When i reached there, a bowl of maggie mi is waiting for me. To me, the maggie mi was damn delicious because it was cooked by someone I care. Or it represented someone you care, she care you too.

When i was tucking in m maggie mi, i pop up a question:

J: why nvr replied my sms

L: (silent a while. Looking away while reply) i think that m feeling for you is edi beyond customer-ML relationship. You always remind me that one day, I have to go back to where i come. That's why, i have to control myself and not to reply you.

J: .......

We kept on finishing our maggie mi awkwardly in silence.

10pm hit, we get on the bed to start the massage. in midst of sensual massage, I suddenly flipped her over and pin her to bed, eye-to-eye looking into each other. At that point of time, she was so beautiful, complemented by the dim-light.

Looking deep into my eyes, her tears started to build up at her eye corners and burst into sobbing. I felt helpless while looking at a sobbing girl. I planted a KISS on her forehead and cleaned up her tears with my lips and said:

J: What's wrong, babe?
L: You mess up my peace emotionally. I like you and i know you like me too. I don't know what to do. I know I will go back to China. I know we can't be together but.....but...i can't control myself , i am lost.....

I didn't say anything but to kiss her furiously. She started to moan instead of sobbing..Out of sudden, she broke my kiss and asked:

L: R you married? I have that feeling.
J: .......YES (actually, i had been thinking to tell her the truth as, to me, we should be frank with each other if i really like her)

Side note:She told me that she was hurt badly by her ex-bf who is married but she only found out 1/2 year later. The guy she loved the most, hurt her the most. So, I do not wanna be the JERK.

WE, as gentleman, can be Romeo, but we can't be JERK.


TBC...

[loneyheart]

TS u posting too slow ... quick quick keekee thxs for sharing ... camp for more

[stoked]

Originally Posted by Sturmgrenadier

Nice perspective bro - sounds like theres a story behind it as well. Care to share?

Hahaaa...many stories from days of glory already past.

[fictionman]

TS...Kum Cheng trap la...Typical sob story to reel u in...

[101s]

Continue...

She seemed to relieved and cheered up a bit after knowing my marriage status. It puzzled me and i asked her why....

J: why you look relieved after knowing i am married?

L: Ya, because at least i know why we can't be together and hence, i have a reason to tell meself to stop holding any hope of being with you.

Deep down, i felt relieved as well because i told her the truth. No matter, she will kick me out or accept me after this, I will not feel guilty toward her. And seeing her smiling instead of sobbing face, I rather see her smiling face and hope she is happy always. I just want her to be happy at that point time and nothing else.

We did not continue the activity on the bed but we chit chat our family background like best friends until time's up. I thought we can be friends with benefit after this but i was so wrong....something really painful was right at the corner waiting for me...

The next few days later, her best called me saying that she wanna treated me to a supper as i bought her a gift since she was going to go back to China. I said OK and see her downstairs L's house.

Before I reached L house, i texted her a few times to confirm the timing but no reply. I started to panic, wondering someyhing bad may happened to her like the little ondia case. So i spam a few message:

J: Are you Ok
J: Pls reply when you see this
J: I am going to be mad soon

I called her best friend to check if she was OK and she said everything was fine. Luckily, her best come to my rescue , she met me up at outside L house and managed to reached her after around 10 calls.

We got up to her unit and she looked unwell when she opened the door. She did not say much, just apologise to me that she was sleeping just now after taking some medicine.

So, we went out for supper. We did not eat much or talk during the whole supper. Her friend kept looking at us awkwardly. I was so sorry to her friend that i spoilt her mood. After the supper, we took a cab home. L requested we sent her home 1st, then her friend and me. I wanna talk to her face to face, so i ignored her and asked the driver to send her friend home 1st. Along the way back to L home, we remained silent and grabbed her hand, she didn't reject.

Finally, we reached her place. We walked to her lobby and i asked if i can go up or not, but this time she rejected.

J: Whats wrong with you?

L: You don't do anything that made me feel that we can be together. SO, PLS STOP THAT.

J: OK, if it makes you feel better.

L: YOU ARE DAMN IRRESPOSIBLR BY SAYING SO. DO YOU THINK I AM HAPPY THAT WAY. ANYWAY, GOOD NIGHT.

She turned her back to me and walk out. Her image gradually disappeared from my sight. I was standing there, mind in blank for 5 min.

My feelimg at that moment is just like the song:



That night, i could not sleep at all. Every time i tried close my eyes, eveything she said just now appearred....again and again.....


TBC

[neyney]

love story post but not sex related.

[DramaQueen]

Pitch tent here.

[bizbiz]

[proloner]

my advise is forget about everything and move on. Rem, you are married. since she already make it clear, then dont be so hard on yourself.