Which One Will You Choose...

[Cheri_Popper]

In the beginning of a relationship, the passion, the flame, etc is burning hot. After a couple of years even months, the passion will drizzle out.

Can you gurantee that maybe 5 yrs down the road, your new GF now will be the same? Or what if another GF comes along and gives you better sex. Would you dump your New GF and take the latest one?

You can't not expect everything is the same as years goes back.

What you are feeling now is probably lust and not true love. Think about it. Physical attractions, lust, etc comes in first before love set in.

One wrong move and that's checkmate for you.

[2swirls]

Originally Posted by SBFguy

wat i afraid most now is i choose my gf but other fling will come n go
i hate dis type of relationship, i dun wanna betray her
but on the other hand, she izzit giving me the sex i wan
we tried so many yrs n the only pos she allow is missionary
no doggy no gal on top no nothing

in fact is this fling who teaches me all the stunt n truely allow me the enjoyment of sex rather dan just ejaculating.....

love is so contridicting

Love encompasses sex but sex need not be out of love. I would choose the former, which is your girfriend. BUT given a stage where you have reached a big disappointment, its time to move onand go for option 3 - None of the above.

Find someone more substantial, better communication rather than pure carnal lust, while in between a good session still knows, you, loves you and wants you.

Tough decision but.............the choice is ultimately stil YOURS

[dap26]

For me sometime wish to choose the old relationship but there will be somehow something missing after we hv patch back.The feeling is longer there..

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by tan_yjc

it feel the same when u cum...

u think everyone like u meh? can cum inside 50 year old auntie. sorrie i cant lol.

[dom01]

Ai... choose the smart one? So you two can build a love nest faster?

[chickenzip]

Originally Posted by SBFguy

in fact is this fling who teaches me all the stunt n truely allow me the enjoyment of sex rather dan just ejaculating.....
love is so contridicting

bro...sori but no offence...pls dun mistaken lust with love...

love make our soul feel wanted...lust only want to have a body...

Originally Posted by SBFguy

in fact is this fling who teaches me all the stunt n truely allow me the enjoyment of sex rather dan just ejaculating.....

love is so contridicting

can you ensure your "new" gf/fling or yourself will not grow tired of each other???

if u can grow "tired" of your current gf (for not having fanstatic sex wi u), then I assure you that you would also grow tired of your new gf/fling some of these days.

love is not contridicting...human being are...as the old saying said, one will never learn till they lost what they once owned...

take heed, the choice is yours...what others choose doesn't matter...they will not feel the pain of losing when the day come...only yourself to blame.

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

sex, u happy for 15 min. u choose ur gf u unhappy for 15 min.wat do u wan? happy for 15 min or unhappy for 15 min?

i'm not against couples having fanstatic sex....but to choose sex ahead of everything is nothing more like an animal...

bro unrep, pls dun get offended...i'm not saying u...just quoting on the general view. of course u have your right to choose your path...but sadly, i view your view in another way...

[tk-king]

旧 爱 还 是 最 美

[Manofwar]

As what i mention earlier on you gota let go lo cos fling(S) do come and go de they will never stay by your side but your GF will.

Maybe your gf doesnt do much stunt as you pleased but it sure fun to try out after much persuade lo.

Jus my 2 cent thinking

[terrormon]

Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

...Can you gurantee that maybe 5 yrs down the road, your new GF now will be the same? ...
What you are feeling now is probably lust and not true love.
...One wrong move and that's checkmate for you.

I agree with Bro Cheri_Popper. Becareful with your move, 5 years isn't short.

And if you truely love your old gf you can talk about your sexual innovation or fantasy out. As you mentioned before you understand each other well, then try a new approach or new agreement to spice up this relationship. Sometime it could be her stress (work stress, family...) that turn sex off or it can be strict family brought up.

Just my 2 cents worth. Hope that you make the correct decision and happiness endures.. Take care bro.

[2swirls]

Originally Posted by tk-king

旧 爱 还 是 最 美

If its time to let go, there is no meaning in clinging on to history

[ah_gogo]

I used to think that to love a changed person, i would rather find a new love.

Until this profound feeling i experienced with my gf-ex-then gf again-then ex-then gf again, and realise that this love drama is for a meaning.

She took my heart when she left me behind, and i actually felt miserable, sunken with agony.

Beaten, my choice is Jiu Ai

[Don Hay]

I will say jiu ai.
A day got 24hrs, minus 8 hrs sleeping time, still got 16hrs. 16 hrs is alot of time, u dun wan to spend 16hrs just having great sex per day for a week. Spend those time communicating and doing things with yr jiu ai who understand u

[lemeinpls]

Originally Posted by SBFguy

background
been together wif my gal for more dan 5 yrs. life was simple, but happy. even though we have stop our sexual activites for mths, i still feel its acceptable. our relationship has slowly turning into close friends. sometimes, she get angry over little things but i just couldnt be bothered. life goes on until another gal came into my life. we progress pretty fast but she izzit those loose gal. she gave me the best sex i ever encounter, bbbj, gal on top, reverse cowgirl, sideways, missionary, doggy, sitting etc etc etc n so much more. i really love the sex life with her. she does anything i wan, even cim, half way fucking bbbj then continue fucking. comparing to my gf, only missionary. it was like heaven n land. recently my gf requested for sex but i rejected, i feel too ashamed. i told her i was tired.

summarize
gf - long relationship, we really understand each other, can see light for our future but sex life was not wat i wan

fling - less than 2 mths, dun really understand each other, dun even know how long we can last, but sex was excellent in fact its really more dan enough for me now

i dun wanna be a 2 timer. i m really tired, mentally breakdown soon. i really wan the sex life dat my fling is giving me but i really dunno how long dis will last. another problem is i dun wanna end my relationship wif my gf, i mean i hope dat we can still be close friends.

btw i m in my mid 20s

yo bro mid 20s can still afford to enjoy.
well enjoy and enjoy till you find your best and then settle down.