when betrayal and trust no longer make sense

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by luckyminnie

i started hugging him tighter and tighter .
i got feel both my boobs pressing against his back.....
i felt turned on and brushed off any thoughts as i feel it's not right....
i was lost in thoughts as J parked his bike.

Plus the vibration from the bike's engine, it's getting you aroused there too. Most of the women I've encountered when they stray, always give the reason because their husband does it first. But have you asked yourself why your husband stray? Everything happens for a reason. Think about it. It takes 2 hands to clap. Men, by nature are hunters. After thinking through and you are still unable to come out with the reason, I'll let you know.

[Ratbert]

Originally Posted by zacefron

Pitching up a big tent .

Same here too

[redant]

I start campfire . Anybody want to help ?

[ipwnyou]

Originally Posted by naturegreen

Plus the vibration from the bike's engine, it's getting you aroused there too. Most of the women I've encountered when they stray, always give the reason because their husband does it first. But have you asked yourself why your husband stray? Everything happens for a reason. Think about it. It takes 2 hands to clap. Men, by nature are hunters. After thinking through and you are still unable to come out with the reason, I'll let you know.

Agree with you. Usually men stray away cause they no longer find excitement from the wife - Be it mutually or sexually. Partly because everthing is a routine of being so busy with life

[hi2u]

Originally Posted by ipwnyou

Agree with you. Usually men stray away cause they no longer find excitement from the wife - Be it mutually or sexually. Partly because everthing is a routine of being so busy with life

Hi sis, agreed with you on that.
Hmmm... I once had a stable 3-year r/s, which I ended because of that, but no, I did not go looking around for another gf, instead, i went around asking friends who are married/in a long-term r/s, finding out more about their r/s.
At the end of the day, love is not just feeling because feeling is subjective. Love is a commitment, commitment to stay despite how tough circumstances might be.
Planning, doing things together, finding out more about each other's interests, at least giving a damn about each other.
Oops sorry for sort of hijacking the thread.

[luckyminnie]

that's the sad thing.
our sex life and everything is good.
maybe to me it is good.
or maybe he don't find me attractive anymore.
i agree it takes two hands to clap.
anyway it's not the first time he did this.
before marriage he strayed once and i forgave him.
he promise not to do it again and treat me nicely.
i've been trying to make things up and i thought we were good.
until i chance upon the msg.
if i confront him, things gonna get haywire
if i don't, i suck thumb.
anyway to me, whoever did wrong, guy or girl, it's the same.
so no excuse for finding fault or blaming one another.

i shouldn't start this thread.
brought me even more heart ache .

cause me and J ended up in a bad state.

fml.

i shall not continue further

[doctrine]

Sad that it came to an abrupt end. Hope you are okay.

[paki]

Originally Posted by redant

I start campfire . Anybody want to help ?

Need a lighter?

[BusDriver]

Originally Posted by fuckrojana

is it a real or fiction ? my tent here

Does it make any difference?

[otamay]

Camping here for me updates.

[ipwnyou]

Originally Posted by luckyminnie

that's the sad thing.
our sex life and everything is good.
maybe to me it is good.
or maybe he don't find me attractive anymore.
i agree it takes two hands to clap.
anyway it's not the first time he did this.
before marriage he strayed once and i forgave him.
he promise not to do it again and treat me nicely.
i've been trying to make things up and i thought we were good.
until i chance upon the msg.
if i confront him, things gonna get haywire
if i don't, i suck thumb.
anyway to me, whoever did wrong, guy or girl, it's the same.
so no excuse for finding fault or blaming one another.

i shouldn't start this thread.
brought me even more heart ache .

cause me and J ended up in a bad state.

fml.

i shall not continue further

Hey Sis. I'm sorry for what happened. Sometimes when we're younger we choose to forgive and forget but we tried our best to not let it happen. It's really not your fault entirely, don't be so hard on yourself. *hugs*

Some guys choose to repent, some guys not, depending on how serious they are or how they are willing to change for the better. Or sometimes guys find too much restriction in the relationship that they choose to sneak out and have a breather but if it occured since a long time then it is really up to him. You tried your best.

But sometimes we can't help it to overthink to ourselves where had we done wrong. Are we being too restrictive? Too jealous? Or we're getting older and we don't look attractive as before?

[Bangster]

Originally Posted by luckyminnie

that's the sad thing.
our sex life and everything is good.
maybe to me it is good.
or maybe he don't find me attractive anymore.
i agree it takes two hands to clap.
anyway it's not the first time he did this.
before marriage he strayed once and i forgave him.
he promise not to do it again and treat me nicely.
i've been trying to make things up and i thought we were good.
until i chance upon the msg.
if i confront him, things gonna get haywire
if i don't, i suck thumb.
anyway to me, whoever did wrong, guy or girl, it's the same.
so no excuse for finding fault or blaming one another.

i shouldn't start this thread.
brought me even more heart ache .

cause me and J ended up in a bad state.

fml.

i shall not continue further

Sis, continue to write please
No good to keep it all inside
For every negative post out there, remember you have easily 100 fans waiting to read your next post

The story does not need to have a happy ending
I am sure we all can relate
It's just part of life

[luckyminnie]

we walk side by side and head to the western food restaurant.
i can feel that both of us have this kind of chemistry and i'm really falling for him . i'm sure he feels the same way too. but to save myself from awkwardness i just act like normal.

j- eh order food meh
m- i wan fish and chips but also wan chicken chop so hard to choose. what u want to eat?

j stares at me, smile and went to order the food.
he came back with 2 drinks (my fave ice lemon tea).

m- so u order what?
j- fish and chips and chicken chop lor
m- huh? why leh
j- then we share lor since u can't decide and i'm ok for both

i melted. he is so sweet .
i know he keeps staring at my cleavage. i adjusted my top a little and he gave me a smirk.

j- scare i see then don wear like that la
m- not for u to c la.

during the dinner we were talking about work and how to finish the project on time etc when suddenly he asks unrelated qn.

j- minnie u everyday OT ur hub won't ask meh?
m- 'no he work Ot sometimes and most of the time out with his friends.
j- then u don need him accompany u ah?
m- seldom la,then u leh?
j- oh my wife everyday at home lor, she used to me working late liao.
m- then she sad leh if like that.
j- i think u sad too

silence ...
J- did i say wrong things?? sorry
m- is ok.

everything remain silence.
paid money and left , back to office.

office left with just two of us.
i didn't expect things to happen.....

[truemove]

Camping here for more sis

[Bangster]

thank you for continuing

you have a fan in me

(going to get a cuppa of milo and sit and wait for your next instalment. Maybe some Pockey sticks oso)