Keeping a mistress in China

[Apollo]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

The so-called "mistress" idea may be just an illusion, in the end. If you search using my nick, you would see many posts I made on the topic.

In the end, I found that she was also secretly arranging meet-ups with other ex-customers and even coming into Singapore and staying a few days at MBS without me knowing.

Her game was up, when I spotted that her luggage had flight stickers indicating she came to Singapore a couple of times (apparently to gamble, and also to fuck) with another ML. I checked her passport when she was sleeping, then confronted her and asked her to fuck off.

So yeah, bro Sammy is 100% correct. I never repeated the mistake after that experience. Lasted nearly 1.5 years, was good in the beginning but ultimately painful at the end.

I don't regret, though. An experience is valuable in itself, and a mistake is (usually) OK if you don't commit the same mistake twice

fully agree bro, up you

maybe you should create your own thread to share the experiences and lessons leant

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by Apollo

fully agree bro, up you

maybe you should create your own thread to share the experiences and lessons leant

I did think about that. I actually kept a digital diary of our outings together in the 1.5 years. Bittersweet, when I re-read it.

I think it is best to keep these diaries private, at least that's my thinking for now. It has been nearly 5 years since things ended but she hasn't moved on that much in life - still spreading her legs for money so I hesitate in telling a story which may end up getting back to her.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

The so-called "mistress" idea may be just an illusion, in the end. If you search using my nick, you would see many posts I made on the topic.

In the end, I found that she was also secretly arranging meet-ups with other ex-customers and even coming into Singapore and staying a few days at MBS without me knowing.

Her game was up, when I spotted that her luggage had flight stickers indicating she came to Singapore a couple of times (apparently to gamble, and also to fuck) with another ML. I checked her passport when she was sleeping, then confronted her and asked her to fuck off.

So yeah, bro Sammy is 100% correct. I never repeated the mistake after that experience. Lasted nearly 1.5 years, was good in the beginning but ultimately painful at the end.

I don't regret, though. An experience is valuable in itself, and a mistake is (usually) OK if you don't commit the same mistake twice

Bro, tks for sharing your experience in keeping a mistress in China.

Long distance relationship doesn't work. Even for a legally married couple

You should keep a mistress here in SG. It's much easier to monitor her movements n you can up her anytime you want.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Leo1966]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro, tks for sharing your experience in keeping a mistress in China.

Long distance relationship doesn't work. Even for a legally married couple

You should keep a mistress here in SG. It's much easier to monitor her movements n you can up her anytime you want.

Cheers!

Bro WB

absolutely true bro

[Penguin23]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro, tks for sharing your experience in keeping a mistress in China.

Long distance relationship doesn't work. Even for a legally married couple

You should keep a mistress here in SG. It's much easier to monitor her movements n you can up her anytime you want.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Wise Words indeed bro WB,

So sorry I never had the chance to meet you in person before the lockdown started.

You're right that long-distance doesn't work in the end. I tried so hard to make our two worlds collide, but I guess what is meant to be separate, will always be separate.

I don't chase things that hard nowadays, I realize that what's mine won't run away from me and what isn't meant to be, will never stay no matter how hard I try.

Wish I knew that when I was younger, but I guess some of us have to learn certain lessons the hard way

[hoosdathu]

agree, long distance relationship damn difficult.

[pakpak2001]

Originally Posted by hoosdathu

agree, long distance relationship damn difficult.

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100% agree, especially if shés a FL
its always the guy end up heart pain, wallet pain, brain pain, balls pain

[Trtmeister]

No need keep mistress la, just use those sb website damn no trouble... if boring liao just cut contact find new one haha somemore can choose flavour oso

[CumExplorer]

Originally Posted by Trtmeister

No need keep mistress la, just use those sb website damn no trouble... if boring liao just cut contact find new one haha somemore can choose flavour oso

which SB website, so good ma

[lovethaibabes]

Long distance doesn't work

They will be unfaithful

And they will keep asking for money

No amount is enough for these gold-diggers

[hoosdathu]

this discussion is pointless, given there's no end in sight for the current pandemic, and no way to travel as before until dunno when