Lesson

[pokeman71]

I do take make love video or photo with my lover. But i delete everytime after that.

Hopefully nothing ok

[hotsoup16]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Hi there. Please contribute those pix to the private picture forum. It will be much appreciated by all.

Best advice for this thread

[chai1020]

Sorry to hear this bro hope u get over it soon n maybe 1 day ur gf would 4give u.....n always remember to chiong with care

[EricssonMan]

I saved such photos & clips in a thumb drive which is locked in my office drawer

[bunnytease]

there won't be comforting words from me.
cause i feel you deserve to be ditched.

if u cheat.
you'll get find out ulitmately.
there no need to feel sad tt she has left you.
be happy that she finally can have a new life..
with a much better guy that won't cheat on her.

sorry..if it sounds mean.
in order to be kind..you need to be cruel.

[x9lee]

Originally Posted by gentleman

Today i break off with my gf. She is my 2nd gf so far.

Yesterday she opened my laptop , she intended to reorganize last december trip photos. Some how she not able to find photos in my laptop. She figured around my laptop and found some initimate photos inside my laptop. Those photos were taken when i was with WL and some were my FB photos. Even she discovered make love photos with FB.
She went nuts and hurt herself. She cried from morning till night. She not able to forgive me for betray her so long time. She loves me more than i do. I very upset and not able to convince her to forgive me.

This morning she calls me and she not able to forgive me and break off with me. I am very sad now. I very disappoint with what i did because we planning to get married this year......
I born in "Horse" year, this year is very difficult year to those people who born in "horse" year. I make mistake of putting photos inside my laptop and never lock it with password. Now is no turning back....

Serve you right. You dun deserve her.

Dun blame other things when you yourself did te wrong thing. This is the typical Singaporean, when thjings goes wrong, they will blame the Sun, Moon or anything except themself.

[axeman24]

To the TS life still goes on and guess have to blame yourself for you ignorance. Just must sure to keep your erotic movies somewhere only you have the password. Take care

[<<<SUCHINDA>>>]

Well not trying to rub it in but better now than discover after your marriage.....more messy then.....hope the bros can learn from your lesson

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

knn, u really cb ! ppl so cham already u still talk like tat.

wan to contribute contribute here mah. like tat everyone can see.

He's hardly "cham". It sounds as if he's been having a great life... a fuck buddy, a girlfriend, regular trips to FLs etc. Many men would give an arm and a leg to enjoy a similar lifestyle.

He's lost his current girlfriend but that's no big deal. He still has a Fuck buddy and he can still screw his choice of FLs. Once he has found a new girlfriend, his life will be back to where it was before.

My only grouse is that he was selfish and did not share his pictures and videos. He should have uploaded them here and deleted them from his hard drive. He wouldn't have been caught out if the spirit of sharing had been maintained.

[cumminology]

Sorry to hear about your plight gentleman. I've learnt NEVER to leave any evidence after one episode with my gf (now wife) which almost cause a breakup. Hopefully you can mend yr relationship but I can only say it will be tough from now on even if you do. Your gal will be scrutinizing your every movement and questioning anything you do. Unless you really love each other that much, if not it is just gonna end up badly again. With your current case, maybe it is just better to move on.

[pulsepul]

There are pros n cons if you want her back...one pros....if u can come back to her....u will be a good man after that...baut it is the only pros....but the cons can be bad.....I agree with one brudda that she will be using this issue after this if she screwed....than things will be better because for sure u will be spied all the time.......my suggestion is....u have to move on.....and if u find another girl..make sure cheong smartly....my 10 cents...heheh

[Frankiestine]

that is why i always download the pics and videos and store them in a yahoo email account....never ever leave any incriminating evidence on one pc only for some else to discover it later....it really smacks of stupidity...

as for TS, you got to ask yourselves, do you really feel she is the ONE, then be prepared to face shit to win her back...tell her those are actually old pics taken before you met her but make sure those bloody pics are not dated....

[singexpat]

i can onli say "old one dun go, new one wun come.."

hope u feel beta nw...

[XX26]

Originally Posted by bunnytease

if u cheat.
you'll get find out ulitmately.
there no need to feel sad tt she has left you.
be happy that she finally can have a new life..
with a much better guy that won't cheat on her.

Is there such guy?

TS >> Are you prepared to hurt her again after you get her back? or maybe the question is -> will you hurt her again? Have you thought of giving up your colorful lifestyle because fo her?

[yellowmilk]

Originally Posted by gentleman

Thank you for all advise here.. I very sad as my two love cannot last happily..

I doing well in my career, but lust is my weakness. I feel that i'm not suitable to engage in marriage as i easy attracted by pretty girl. It's all my fault to spoil this relationship.

I am so stupid. Chasing short term shiok, end up with losing my gf. Its hurt me, and i hurt my gf

neber mind lah, As your signature says, you oreadi found a new target!