Yanzi

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Bro aczeta, coz i couldn't draw the imaginery line yet. My heart just want LW but my mind is flashing many red alerts.

hmmm... No choice loh... Today was a rainy day and I was thinking if I should call LW when I went for my ultra late lunch at 3pm.

My heart was screaming YES but my mind told me to give her space, esp since it has been barely 30 hours since we spoke. I had wanted to repeat the same technique I used for my GF when she left (i.e. go find rplcments and bonk myself silly) but then decided against it.

Already sms DD's YT for her availability tomorrow but then decided against it so never confirm any appt as urge is quite low.

The only place I tink I would visit would be RSE when YY is back for old time sake... I hardly cheong new WL lately... sighz.. no urge.

Anyway, my challenge is to remind myself that I still have a GF in Zhu Hai and also that LW has her own life away from us so I shouln't disturb her rest too much

Time will heal all and time will make things clear... Dun be too insistent on "having"... need to "She" - give up like the buddhist say

Disclaimer: Contrary to common belief, I am not in love with LW. I have my ZH GF so until that is settled after my trip in Sep, it is impt that I dun profess love for anyone else.

[y291252001]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

hmmm... No choice loh... Today was a rainy day and I was thinking if I should call LW when I went for my ultra late lunch at 3pm.

My heart was screaming YES but my mind told me to give her space, esp since it has been barely 30 hours since we spoke. I had wanted to repeat the same technique I used for my GF when she left (i.e. go find rplcments and bonk myself silly) but then decided against it.

The only place I tink I would visit would be RSE when YY is back for old time sake... I hardly cheong new WL lately... sighz.. no urge.

bro, bro... maybe LW will be more than happy receiving your calls. But true, give her some time and space away. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. If it's really true, then you may be stuck in a dilemma loh. Your ZH gf and her. Ha! But that's a good problem. Well, spare a thought for other bros who like her too. Don't step on too many boats at one time hor. anyway, just my 2cts worth of opinion.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by y291252001

bro, bro... maybe LW will be more than happy receiving your calls. But true, give her some time and space away. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. If it's really true, then you may be stuck in a dilemma loh. Your ZH gf and her. Ha! But that's a good problem. Well, spare a thought for other bros who like her too. Don't step on too many boats at one time hor. anyway, just my 2cts worth of opinion.

Maybe.. she told me what she had planned to do so give her some time to do those 1st lah...

Things between me and my ZH GF will be settled in this upcoming trip.. either continue or we may break off... too tough maintaining a long distance r/s (Seems like advice given by Xiao Lu and other senior bros are quite rite)

On the other point... aiyoh... not my decision to make lah.. No one can stop anyone from liking or loving LW and v.v. no one can stop her from liking or loving any guy

My intentions are simple, if LW is here for longer term, I need to take care of her emotional needs (No strings attached).. I have seen WL crumple after 4-6 months in SG. Which is why I make sure I let her know that I still cheong or at least have intent to cheong around even when she is here.

So no worries about me having issues with her and my ZH GF... I will juz appear to be another cheongster in her eyes so quite safe for her and me.

Even if she is Bao-ed, I will still meet up with her for kopi or food. Anyway, physical needs for guys easy to settle lah.. PCC can already.. need eye-tertainment then go 6c6c loh...

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Disclaimer: Contrary to common belief, I am not in love with LW. I have my ZH GF so until that is settled after my trip in Sep, it is impt that I dun profess love for anyone else.

Why do i get the feeling that you are actually saying,

U are going to break off with ur ZH GF and then come back to profess ur love for LW

I'm not insistent on the "having" part, as long as she can find happyness.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Why do i get the feeling that you are actually saying,

U are going to break off with ur ZH GF and then come back to profess ur love for LW

I'm not insistent on the "having" part, as long as she can find happyness.

Nope... tt is not going to happen...both things are separate and I say again... I like LW and we can cliche but I do not love her.. We do not know each other long enuff for love to develop.

...Even if I break up with my GF, I wun tell LW so soon...not gd to let her know until it is necc

[y291252001]

wah, seem like this thread kenna side-tracked liaoz...

don't mind it to happen as the girl involved also interests me.

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by y291252001

wah, seem like this thread kenna side-tracked liaoz...

don't mind it to happen as the girl involved also interests me.

Sorry bro, just can't help it when her name is mentioned, hehe. gosh i'm missing her again. I will pm bro aczeta instead.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Sorry bro, just can't help it when her name is mentioned, hehe. gosh i'm missing her again. I will pm bro aczeta instead.

paisey..paisey.. replied your pm liao... if anything to continue, we will move this discussion to the Matters of the Heart section or LW's thread...

Else not fair to Yanzi..

[y291252001]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Sorry bro, just can't help it when her name is mentioned, hehe. gosh i'm missing her again. I will pm bro aczeta instead.

Originally Posted by aczeta76

paisey..paisey.. replied your pm liao... if anything to continue, we will move this discussion to the Matters of the Heart section or LW's thread...

Else not fair to Yanzi..

wah, see - 2 perfect gentlemen in this forum. So thoughtful and accomodating. No wonder LW likes both of your company too.

Hmm... true, not fair for Yanzi cos i set up this thread for her. btw, all bros, there's another thread by a different bro on another Yan Zi. We've clarified with each other that the 2 YZ's are different, in case you all are wondering.... Also there's another Xiao Yan Zi - also different gal. Hope this clears the air.

Another few contacts given out to screened bros. Do post FRs if meet her ok? For those who i deem to be numbers collectors only, sorry, will hold back from passing the numbers to you.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by y291252001

wah, see - 2 perfect gentlemen in this forum. So thoughtful and accomodating. No wonder LW likes both of your company too.

Thank you for the compliments... Wun intrude on your thread anymore..

[y291252001]

Ctcs given out to quite a few bros already but still no FRs. Why? Issit because too many gems around and price is not right?

[y291252001]

bros here so shy meh? i'm sure some of those ctcs given out, some bros met her already. unless number collectors....

[aczeta76]

I tot Yanzi go back liao.. This thread has been quite.

Bro, I tink u muz go up her and post steamy FR lah...

[y291252001]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I tot Yanzi go back liao.. This thread has been quite.

Bro, I tink u muz go up her and post steamy FR lah...

She won't be back until early next yr. there are a few "yan zi" here in the forum but i checked with the others and confirm we're referring to different gals.

As for rtf, perhaps, perhaps. got others to try too lah. you know who else, right?

[aczeta76]

Ya hoh.. people going back soon...

this one can wait