Money or Honey?

[semen]

In this world, they must learnt to co-exist. You can never have enough of either. That a wonderful headache is you ask me

[no_faith]

if there is a 100 note and a 1000 note on the ground, which u will pick?
both rite?

[hiad64]

i felt u already strayed... u just feel obligated to stay with ur current gf.

Love is a strange thing... ur feelings for the rich lady may not be love and maybe its only freshness...give yourself more time to think through it...and feel...

Sometimes when u see a pretty lady (Prettier than ur gf) yet u hv not no feelings for her... its all about chemistry.... I guess u hv it with both.... but choose wisely and dun regret after that... coz there is no turning back...

[strikeking73]

Love is blind! Even who can went with you for 5 to 6 years, doest not mean can be together until ocean dry. Heard/read or seen those old couples did not live long together. Peoples do forget what they promise when they had married. Its your luck and fate.

[fire_power99]

if can have both will be nice

[Regular1000]

go ROM with ur 5 yrs steady, go RCB with ur rich buddy... in the end I agree to eating both cakes!

Good headache u have there!

But above all, my vote goes to you starting a thread to relay the story... keep us updated... at least can let us praise you or fiak you mah along the way!!

[DegenerationX]

TS. u realli have to know who u love more deep in your heart. The rich lady might just be a moment of freshness for you. It does not matter who you choose now, the point is you have to know what you really want. If years down the road after you r married and another nice lady comes along into your life, are you going to divorce and marry the new lady? And if in your life there comes along 5 such nice ladies, are u going to divorce again and again to be with the new nice lady?

Just my personal comments. Sorry if it offends any bros.

[deuter]

Originally Posted by no_faith

if there is a 100 note and a 1000 note on the ground, which u will pick?
both rite?

now tis is a real down to earth n practical statement... heheh..

upzzz u for it...

[fenwick]

Originally Posted by aces68

Personally, I would choose the one who is wife material and is most sexually compatible.
For highly sexed cheongsters, I think sexual compatibility is most important if you are thinking of marriage. Good luck

Yup ! Agree with you bro...

[skirtchaser639]

Convert to muslim, married both women...then regret your whole life...
(joking, do not meant to offend muslim bro)

it depend all on you bro, who do you think you want to start family with and who do you think will want to start a family with you
do not let sex or money cloud you
and after making the choice, don't look back and regret that you should have made the other choice

[hamlinlau]

Originally Posted by richmenson

Say you have a really steady girlfriend of 5 years and about to get married. She's those type who will really stand by you through rain or shine.

Then... along comes another lady. Nice, demure, slender, pretty and RICH.

How rich? Driving a >300k car + staying in a district 9/10 landed property all by herself (she owns it).

Perhaps slightly older (2-3 years). But she's also nice and very supportive to you though she knows that you are attached. She also claims that she will never want to be third party yet date you out all the time.

She's so nice that you will not even think of bedding her for the sake of bedding.

Will you be tempted by the money + honey or stand firm with someone who stood by you through thick and thin for 5 years?

*Confused*

Given that chance I would make that rich girl marry me and give me some of her money. Continue to date my gf and convince her that I am marrying the rich girl for her money. I'll divorce her in 5yrs to be with my gf.

Reassess the situation after 3yrs.

1. If the rich wife's assets have grown and I still dont own 50% of that I'll continue to stay with her and will recheck the status at the end of 5yr term.
2. If her father makes me the MD or CEO of their company, I'll continue to stay and have 2 kids with her.
3. if 'none of the above' I might have to continue to live off her.

I'll do my best to have the cake(s) and eat it and keep everyone happy as well in that order.

Cheers


if condition 1 and 2 are met. then..
a. go thru the same process of prolonging the relationship with the gf for another 3-5yrs.
b. if gf disagree then dump her and find another one.
c. if no gf then go ktv choose some prc with kc and keep them. Change every 3 months.. I should be able to afford it then.

[bangbangben]

Well, I believe many would be caught in similiar situation in certain part of their lives.

Myself being one, I do love my current girl lots but other seems to have more plus compared to her. I give her the benefit because she's been thru the tough times with me before.
But on the other hand, I did consider if I never give the other a chance, I would never know if she's gonna be overall better or worst.

For me, this shit has been hanging for almost a year and well... it's still hanging there...

Sex is another issue which I think should be considered separately.

[Reaper]

Originally Posted by bangbangben

Myself being one, I do love my current girl lots but other seems to have more plus compared to her. I give her the benefit because she's been thru the tough times with me before.
But on the other hand, I did consider if I never give the other a chance, I would never know if she's gonna be overall better or worst.

For me, this shit has been hanging for almost a year and well... it's still hanging there...

This is alos for the TS,

IT is no longer called LOVE, its called OBLIGATION.

The romantics will say this is a pessimistic way at looking at things, the realist will say this reality and a part of life. Guess you have to decide. Either way you are screwed becuase you have to make a decision. Watever the decision, you have to live it. No one else to blame if the shit hits the fan...

[old_yet_horny]

Originally Posted by richmenson

Say you have a really steady girlfriend of 5 years and about to get married....

...Will you be tempted by the money + honey or stand firm with someone who stood by you through thick and thin for 5 years?

*Confused*

Hope u dun lose the 2 of them can liao. Only u know what uwant for urself.

Originally Posted by Criminalz

Con all her money then you can be with your honey.

I doubt TS is smart enough to Con her money... If he could have done it, he would not be posting here for opinion...

[alphalaw]

Originally Posted by hamlinlau

Given that chance I would make that rich girl marry me and give me some of her money. Continue to date my gf and convince her that I am marrying the rich girl for her money. I'll divorce her in 5yrs to be with my gf.

Reassess the situation after 3yrs.

1. If the rich wife's assets have grown and I still dont own 50% of that I'll continue to stay with her and will recheck the status at the end of 5yr term.
2. If her father makes me the MD or CEO of their company, I'll continue to stay and have 2 kids with her.
3. if 'none of the above' I might have to continue to live off her.

I'll do my best to have the cake(s) and eat it and keep everyone happy as well in that order.

Cheers


if condition 1 and 2 are met. then..
a. go thru the same process of prolonging the relationship with the gf for another 3-5yrs.
b. if gf disagree then dump her and find another one.
c. if no gf then go ktv choose some prc with kc and keep them. Change every 3 months.. I should be able to afford it then.

wicked!
but i like ur idea.

then again I wont do it.
If im the ts, i go with my feeling. Who do I really love? (remove all $ and career aspects)