Very lost in life

[Needsomeadvice]

Originally Posted by Pictionary

I think ah, you cannnot think properly. Have a very nice sex with her, like a very dirty sex with her, zhut zhut her or whatever. After that, have a proper conversation with her.

Also do the same to your girlfriend(not wife), zhut zhut or whatever. After that, proper conversation.

Maybe it is not a proper advice and the sex is really not fanastic at all, however maybe this is the way to start moving the conversation between your wife and you. And also same for your girlfriend. Same thing to your girlfriend. Otherwise things cannot be moved.

**Please do not say these things outside. It's a little sensitive topic, especially among women.

This is something I can’t share with any of my real life friend
Hence the new nick, because I think I’m a total 100% dick/asshole/ whatever name you can think in the book

My gf actually realised this and before we could talk
She started crying and say things like

If you leave me, I’m gonna jump off a bridge
Or
If you leave me, I’m gonna kill you and poison myself

That’s kind of when I realised I messed up very badly


As for my wife, she’s at her hometown now. Can’t talk to her now
This is not over the phone news

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

This is something I can’t share with any of my real life friend
Hence the new nick, because I think I’m a total 100% dick/asshole/ whatever name you can think in the book

My gf actually realised this and before we could talk
She started crying and say things like

If you leave me, I’m gonna jump off a bridge
Or
If you leave me, I’m gonna kill you and poison myself

That’s kind of when I realised I messed up very badly


As for my wife, she’s at her hometown now. Can’t talk to her now
This is not over the phone news

I need to correct my reply a bit. I saying the sex between you and your wife. And also the sex between you and your girlfriend is not really fanastic at all. It's just normal penetration that's all.

I telling you to satisfy your inner sexual needs first, then can have a really proper conversation, otherwise you really cannot think.

No use to talk over the phone. Just reply her with a simple yes or no first. Meet up with her at a hotel, zhut zhut, then you can really think and talk to her properly. Otherwise you can't.

You can finish the sex and then hold the condom in your hand and tell her..... the condom is very full and this is a sign of my love to you. As i write this, this is getting really sick.... i dun think the female readers will really like what i write.... urrrgh.

[Needsomeadvice]

Originally Posted by Pictionary

I need to correct my reply a bit. I saying the sex between you and your wife. And also the sex between you and your girlfriend is not really fanastic at all. It's just normal penetration that's all.

I telling you to satisfy your inner sexual needs first, then can have a really proper conversation, otherwise you really cannot think.

No use to talk over the phone. Just reply her with a simple yes or no first. Meet up with her at a hotel, zhut zhut, then you can really think and talk to her properly. Otherwise you can't.

You can finish the sex and then hold the condom in your hand and tell her..... the condom is very full and this is a sign of my love to you. As i write this, this is getting really sick.... i dun think the female readers will really like what i write.... urrrgh.

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I’m not sure how the conversation will go between the gf and the wife

I might end up on the news though

[demonhunter]

Since she gave you 1 year grace period , continue banging her and come back post after 1 year ...


your questions might be different by then .

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

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I’m not sure how the conversation will go between the gf and the wife

I might end up on the news though

Aiyo, of course you cannot think straight, very frustrated and very fed up because you have not satisfied yourself to the max. You are most probably cooped up due to boss and colleague ranting to you and your work is very fucked up or your report writing really like kingarten work or not to the point.

***********SORRY GUYS & GIRLS
Need to advise this pathetic guy
**************

Your entire life from graduating to now is most probably 7 to 10.
Just use no.1 or 2 will do, got it? Urrrggh.
Just fuck in the chicken farm. You know how the cats do the sicko acts during midnight, meowwwwww.....

Got it????

[Pictionary]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

This is something I can’t share with any of my real life friend

Of course you cannot share with your real life friends. Because all your real life friends have high/acceptable social status. My real life friends are very low social status so I can easily share with them without any consequences.

I met a very intelligent and very pretty lady in this forum. She blocked me for whatever reasons. However because I have very poor health then she unblocked me. I not very smart and the work very crap. She is the one that I fucked with her and have an interactive conversation with her. Even up to now I sometimes I still following. I dun want to disturb her life and if i whatsapp her, she will never reply to me. So it's either bedtime or going out for a proper dinner. It's a bit disappointing I cannot have both.

Of course life is very painful. Yes, it's a very satisfying sexual experience which I cannot disclosure too much because it will definitely affect her. Sometimes my health is just too unbearable, I just think of these sexisfying experience, then my life is less unbearable.

Then the work walao is really machiam like.... I dun think I will really get any proper answers here. Most likely is a bit of toxic replies. Maybe it works, mayhe it does not. The work really sometimes is inhuman. I sometimes have to accustom myself to link the informations together, just like filling up the pieces of the jigsaw puzzle with limited skills and knowledge. Can it be done? Is there an easier way to do it?

Your life is really glamorous, however my life isn't. I dun come from Ivy league school and need to force myself to be knowledge, skillful and apply in real life. Can or not?

Life is really sucks. Frustrated > Anger > despair > ..... > suicide. Just dun go down the path. I have faced these issues many times myself.

[Needsomeadvice]

Originally Posted by demonhunter

Since she gave you 1 year grace period , continue banging her and come back post after 1 year ...


your questions might be different by then .

This is exactly my thought
Just that I need to balance time between my work, wife and gf
And hopefully I don’t get caught 😳

Fact that I need to travel for work, saves me tons of explanation

[BoLiang]

great sex will eventually slow down or come to an end. The rational question to ask is what is in for the girl-in-waiting? Money? Or simply just family?

2 months in and you think that shes the perfect 1 like what you went through in the initial marriage so I would put that as moment of impulse.

Cool down and review all that you know...or dont know about the new girl.

[Taffy83]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

Hi all, sorry I’m not sure where to start even
But I will try to spell it out as clear as possible

I’m in the age group of 34 to 38
I used to travel quite abit for work
During one of my work trip, I knew a girl

Nothing special came out during the trip but she took my number and asked me out.

So we went out for a few time and there’s some chemistry between both of us and we had great sex(protected)

She’s looking for a guy to settle down, and that’s when I knew I screwed up when I lied to her saying that I’m single.

Unable to get past my own issue, I decided to tell her and thought things will just end there
But she accepted that I’m married after some drama and tears, and she gave me time to divorce with my wife within 1 year.

Point to note
Things are not great between me and my wife
But not to the extend of divorcing her
The last time I had sex with my wife was like in 2019
I feel that my love for my wife has become a responsibility instead and there is no more growth in our relationship

But with this girl, she seems like the perfect woman to settle down with but I do not know, after all I just knew her for less than 2 months

I’m not sure if I’m willing to throw away my marriage of 8years for this girl

On a side note, this girl feels like your first love and you can feel that she genuinely love me kind
But as all relationship in the beginning, not sure if that would change

I’m not sure what is my question here, just wanna share my story here and listen to inputs from you guys

And if this is required, the new girl is not as pretty as my wife and older by 2 years too

Hi Bro, it's always a push and pull factors that caused man to make the mistakes. I am quite sure you already have some decision in mind, that is to be with the new gal, just need some confirmation from bros in this forum.

Maybe ask yourself how was things like before when u just met your wife last time, and how did it ended up like the current situation?

Next is what's your plan with the new gal? After all she is with you for just two months, are you very sure she got the quality as a good wife? I feel it's too early to make a decision.

Whatever it is, any decision you make be it right or wrong, you will need to suffer the consequences, make your choice wisely as you can never turn back time. All the best bro.

[Pictionary]

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[178noobnoob]

I would rather stick to your wife only as you never know what your gf have to offer. Maybe years later, history repeats?

[Pictionary]

Once in a while the chicken farm apply. Just dun do it everytime unless no choice. It really depends on your job scope nature. Everyday is a moderate learning. No one can adjust to it with the adjustment of 9% GST, just enjoy the chicken while it last, please dun think too much. I assume everyone is in pressure cooking learning environment, it take a while for readjustment.

** Disclaimer, it does not apply to everyone.

[CookCrew]

Just proceed with divorce since it sounds liken nothing but a burden limiting your life experience. You are then free to meet more interesting girls without any guilt

[NotVeryRare]

Originally Posted by CookCrew

Just proceed with divorce since it sounds liken nothing but a burden limiting your life experience. You are then free to meet more interesting girls without any guilt

Agreed Agreed

[Zetyalpha]

Originally Posted by Needsomeadvice

Hi all, sorry I’m not sure where to start even
But I will try to spell it out as clear as possible

I’m in the age group of 34 to 38
I used to travel quite abit for work
During one of my work trip, I knew a girl

Nothing special came out during the trip but she took my number and asked me out.

So we went out for a few time and there’s some chemistry between both of us and we had great sex(protected)

She’s looking for a guy to settle down, and that’s when I knew I screwed up when I lied to her saying that I’m single.

Unable to get past my own issue, I decided to tell her and thought things will just end there
But she accepted that I’m married after some drama and tears, and she gave me time to divorce with my wife within 1 year.

Point to note
Things are not great between me and my wife
But not to the extend of divorcing her
The last time I had sex with my wife was like in 2019
I feel that my love for my wife has become a responsibility instead and there is no more growth in our relationship

But with this girl, she seems like the perfect woman to settle down with but I do not know, after all I just knew her for less than 2 months

I’m not sure if I’m willing to throw away my marriage of 8years for this girl

On a side note, this girl feels like your first love and you can feel that she genuinely love me kind
But as all relationship in the beginning, not sure if that would change

I’m not sure what is my question here, just wanna share my story here and listen to inputs from you guys

And if this is required, the new girl is not as pretty as my wife and older by 2 years too

If you have no children and can afford to get a divorce. Do it, but not for this side chick if yours. It seems your wife cannot satisfied your needs and your side child is looking for a provider by giving you sex.

It is still cheaper to keep her. The choice is yours.