Going out with KTV girls.

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by naemlo

If my bank acc fat fat, I still in S'pore??? Now thinking of way to be rich n retire soon.

Hmm....u are most of the time not in SG mah, so ur account is 'semi-fat'.
Can retire soon

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

Hmm....u are most of the time not in SG mah, so ur account is 'semi-fat'.
Can retire soon

Oi u work as detective.... I not in S'pore u also know.

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Oi u work as detective.... I not in S'pore u also know.

Shh.....TCSS chairman hire me to hunt all those siaming to pay membership fund.
I am undercover, u know?

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

Hee hee......if u still soft hearted, u can do this.
Everytime this kinda gal ask u to do something that involves money, dunk it into your 'piggy bank', end of the year you will be surprised to see how much you might have saved.
This is one of the tricks they tried to use on me when I wanted to quit smoking

Its good to know that the person you are appreciating, appreciates u!
Why I dun have?

walao, like tat end of the yr can reach at least 30kSGD!!!! how u use this 'trick' to quit smoking???

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

walao, like tat end of the yr can reach at least 30kSGD!!!! how u use this 'trick' to quit smoking???

Tsk tsk tsk.....obviously you never got for those clinic or read the quit smoking brochures?
Last time, they tell me to do my sum by seeing how much I can save if I quit smoking.
Every pack that I want to buy I save it and I can see the monetary rewards of quitting smoking.

But if I do this for quitting smokes and end up 30k richer? Wow could have smoked my lungs crisped!

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

Tsk tsk tsk.....obviously you never got for those clinic or read the quit smoking brochures?
Last time, they tell me to do my sum by seeing how much I can save if I quit smoking.
Every pack that I want to buy I save it and I can see the monetary rewards of quitting smoking.

But if I do this for quitting smokes and end up 30k richer? Wow could have smoked my lungs crisped!

i see i see... but they dunno we got kangtow from our neighbour, but they oso blood sucka, last time i bought 1 tube, is 45 bucks, now price increase until 65... and i stop buying from them and the fella whom offer me, had disappeared. now i cheapskate liao, i bought cigarette holder, nxt time go m'sia can stored all ciggarettes inside, and hv 1 more empty cigarette box (S'gp ones) to stored those m'sia cigarettes.

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

i see i see... but they dunno we got kangtow from our neighbour, but they oso blood sucka, last time i bought 1 tube, is 45 bucks, now price increase until 65... and i stop buying from them and the fella whom offer me, had disappeared. now i cheapskate liao, i bought cigarette holder, nxt time go m'sia can stored all ciggarettes inside, and hv 1 more empty cigarette box (S'gp ones) to stored those m'sia cigarettes.

Haha....u got those things too?
I have quite a far bit of those ciggie holders.
But MY rokok quite terok, I can't get used to the taste and after effects
Everytime smoke liao tao gong gong and throat gets inflamed leh

If smoking can kill, I rather die with less headaches

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Randi_Candi

Haha....u got those things too?
I have quite a far bit of those ciggie holders.
But MY rokok quite terok, I can't get used to the taste and after effects
Everytime smoke liao tao gong gong and throat gets inflamed leh

If smoking can kill, I rather die with less headaches

yeah... the rokok of our neighbour a bit strong lah... but cheap price, cannot argue wat...tat time, i remember, i itchy see those uncle in JB smoke 'lima lima lima', i oso go and buy. in the end smoke liao, come back throat kena inflamed, cannot talk for 2 days.... wonder how my tigeress can tahan 'lima lima lima' in china, but when i bought 'dunhill -menthol' from m'sia for her, she told me not nice to smoke....

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

yeah... the rokok of our neighbour a bit strong lah... but cheap price, cannot argue wat...tat time, i remember, i itchy see those uncle in JB smoke 'lima lima lima', i oso go and buy. in the end smoke liao, come back throat kena inflamed, cannot talk for 2 days.... wonder how my tigeress can tahan 'lima lima lima' in china, but when i bought 'dunhill -menthol' from m'sia for her, she told me not nice to smoke....

Wait til u try the 'better grades' ciggies in CN.
They even have those in the RMB40-50 and 80 catergory.
I ever asked them how it taste? Can make u healthier isit?
They told me very smooth, pure and won't leave you with a dry mouth.
Tried a couple of sticks, I think comparable with the Davidoff premium ones but RMB80 is like SGD18? siao man

[Randi_Candi]

But sometimes after a session with those smoker who just come over can be quite interesting cos can try the ciggis they bring.
Some times they 'tip' me a pack for my hardwork

[alsahaf]

You know what? I wished she had tried to ask money from me, or try to pester me for gifts, or try to exploit me.

No, I am not crazy. But if she had done any of that to me I would have no regrets, I'll have gone 'HAHAHAHAH I got free fucks from you, now fuck off!'

But she has been nice since day one, never demanded anything other then time and company. Thats why me sad now...

Basket, now 91.3 playing that ah beng song 'china girl' and makes me think about her even more......

I know I'll get over this lah. Just go find another one, bonk somemore, will get it 98% out of the system sooner or later. But for now, sad....

Originally Posted by mahalosux

after reading about this, i feel like penning down wat happen to me during the past 2 days. pls bear wif me a bit. few weeks ago, my former PRC gf called me to ask me to raise 1500 RMB for her. the actual amt though not very big, but it's not small either as wif tat amt, i can do alot of things, such as paying my hp and credit card bills. i was hesitating and told her, i will try my best. but in actual fact, i wan to reply her a straight 'NO'! 2 days ago, i jus recieve my salary, she noe my payday, so she start sms me askin me whether i had remit the $. i din reply, i m still in a big dilema. i wanted to give her the $, but my mind tell me tat this is no the rite thing to do. bro, who had read my previous posts, know tat i had spent almost 30k SGD on this gal, and whenever she call me, it is about $ and whenever i call her, she will find it bothersome. yesterday, i was having a medical appt, while waiting for 3 solid hrs for my turn, my mind is still pondering on this matter. after thinkin for 3 solid hrs, i make up my mind and tell myself, this is it! no more remittance for her. after i walk out from the med center, i recieve 2 sms from her, askin me whether i had remit, i chose not to reply. this morning she sms me again, askin me about the money, i told her tat i unable to give her, as i hv a lot of 'debts' to clear, her reply is 'forget it! since u dun give me $ i will go indonesia and work instead'. i din reply, and i guess this will be the last time i will be hearing from her. i, myself dun feel good, and my heart is very heavy, as i m typing this post. i feel tat i m cruel, but at the same time, i m feeling sorry for myself. y? because of her, i hav been living miserably, unable to spoil myself wif luxury lifestyle and living like a beggar. as my fren told me, watever i earn, always end up wif her, pls spare a tot for yourself'

well moral of story is i tink i make the 'right move' but it is very hard for me, as i hv displayed 'cruelty' to a gal i luv for 1.5 yr.

[Van Basten]

Originally Posted by alsahaf

You know what? I wished she had tried to ask money from me, or try to pester me for gifts, or try to exploit me.

No, I am not crazy. But if she had done any of that to me I would have no regrets, I'll have gone 'HAHAHAHAH I got free fucks from you, now fuck off!'

But she has been nice since day one, never demanded anything other then time and company. Thats why me sad now...

Basket, now 91.3 playing that ah beng song 'china girl' and makes me think about her even more......

I know I'll get over this lah. Just go find another one, bonk somemore, will get it 98% out of the system sooner or later. But for now, sad....

bro it's quite normal lah... wat u r going thru i think most PRC cheongsters have gone thru b4... my guess is that she has at least some feelings for u so she wants to enjoy yr company for awhile (abt 2 weeks isit?) knowing she wont get anything from u... this is for her leisure...

remember wat they r here for? $$$... so now she's gone back to fulfill her primary objective liao.. this is for work.

that's life... u cant change a KTV PRC.

Originally Posted by mahalosux

u r rite, it's easy for a 3rd party to give the rite advice and opinion, but as me, myself is involved, i will tend to sway towards the other direction. we do not wan to expliot them, as they r in a terrible state, but wat i wan is not to treat me as dirt or some money spinning tree.....

P.S. sorry about this, but i dun classify them as WL

Hi... I understand what u feeling now.. as recently me also get into this situation .. the gal is very pitiful came to singapore to work and got debts to pay in china. However she does not ask me to give her money but i think it will be in the near future. She understand me and told me all her things in china.. and as usual i choose to believe half of it only. But her so called story always get into my mind.. and it is so fucking sad for me not able to help her in any way.. But as u see, me just started work and as i and my friends cheong , i seldom had any money left and so it back to square one, even if she ask me for money , i still couldn't afford to help her, and it is this helplessness that i felt bad about...
As u say , i do hope that she would ask me for money during our bonks and in this way , i feel better cause i know that it is the money that she is interested in...
Guess it is life and the world that we are living in.. the reality is there for us to see, me also got my life to live and me not a very rich person. In her case , i think i had beginning to trust her story and it is more that half of it already. This kind of things do and i think will happen in them , if not why they would like to came to singapore to work in this line??
Story is sad but reality is there for us and i must face the situation that i in now.. i am in no situation to help her and that is the bottom line.. i do pay her now and i always pay more ..but deep in my heart i knew that to help her is like an endless journey..
I in no position to judge if u are right or wrong .. All i had to say is that do what u think is right and at the end of the road of ur life , at least there are some memories that u will remember.. But be very very realistic..cos it the realistic world we are living in..Guage yourself.. Help within ur means..if u are able to help her only 30 % of your salary then go ahead so at least u got 70 % for yourself and other things. Never put all salary on her....
It is not that we are cruel...i also wanted to help her but it is 20k++ we are talking about , it not 50cents or 1 dollars!!! All i hope is for her to be fine and at the end of our road , maybe when she is free of debt, me also stable in income , then we will meet again as friend not customer , to go out have a cup of coffee..chat ..till night...God Bless Her...and all the sufferers in this world....

[hock19]

Originally Posted by Flame

As u say , i do hope that she would ask me for money during our bonks and in this way , i feel better cause i know that it is the money that she is interested in...
..

Would it then not be better for you to give her money for bonks even though she does not ask for it? just to ensure that this is a "transaction" as oppose to you being responsiblt for her?

What does other people think? I have been reading elsewhere that if a girl does not ask for money after bonks, then some people do not give at all as they assume that it is for free. For me, even though they dont ask, I normally pay - any comments on this?? I know some may say why pay if can get free but sometimes, maybe the girls dont ready want to ask even though they do need money... (although I know that most girls do ask anyway!!)

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[alsahaf]

Depends on the individual situation. Some girls might actually feel insulted. Better to buy them presents and such in some cases.

For that case I mentioned at the start of this thread, the girl wouldn't take money and actually got angry.

Originally Posted by hock19

Would it then not be better for you to give her money for bonks even though she does not ask for it? just to ensure that this is a "transaction" as oppose to you being responsiblt for her?

What does other people think? I have been reading elsewhere that if a girl does not ask for money after bonks, then some people do not give at all as they assume that it is for free. For me, even though they dont ask, I normally pay - any comments on this?? I know some may say why pay if can get free but sometimes, maybe the girls dont ready want to ask even though they do need money... (although I know that most girls do ask anyway!!)

Would like view of others