Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

The standard SOP is "Love" and "FL" do not go together in the same sentence....

nice one bro...made me thought of FL = Forget (about) Love

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

nice one bro...made me thought of FL = Forget (about) Love

thanks bro.... I have gone out with an Ex FL before, FL when I met her, later quit, became FB/GF

character was super shitty. It takes a certain type of lady to do this trade. And the mentality is hard to shake off.

[todae]

first tell me daughter need study.. now tell me mother duno wat.. lol

their problem nvr ending one..

[kick_ass]

Haiz this topic like nvr ending...
In short summary, there is no such thing as clever or 苦命 fl but stupid men who believe in them. Full Stop!
Screw, pay up and look for another

[Nonteerak2553]

Originally Posted by todae

their problem nvr ending one..

Their problem only starts after they got their "t laks" to wire them some money. Endless problem.

[Icecreamsoda]

Hi bro,

Personally I think its best to keep it commercial.
I have r/s with 2 FLs before, and I considered myself lucky as both are great ladies and never did they once sponge on me. In fact, they even pamper me with gifts and treats at times. But honestly I think I will have trust issue, not to mention being a guy, we can't help but think about all the guys they had dealings with before. Which is why I choose to just keep it casual, good to have, but no lose if it doesn't goes on well.

Of course to be fair, FLs are humans too and have need for affections and TLC. I won't deny that they might really change for u and have no other hidden agendas.

Just sharing my 2 cents worth of thoughts. Nevertheless, its up to u to decide. Life's a buffet of experiences, got to try then know if it suits ur taste.

If it doesn't work out, there's always tomorrow
HOpe it helps !!

[chanster]

As long no money involved will be fine ..

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by chanster

As long no money involved will be fine ..

It depends on how you handle the relationship.

I have fl friends and we go out for meals and stuff which I dun mind paying and driving them around, in return I can invites for overnighters at their hotel rooms. If you start throwing money/gifts to gain affection, then they will be a fool not to try and squeeze more from you.

Just need to remember this- if they really likes you, they only want your time. If not, they just want your money.

[Shadow_warrior]

my best 2 cents advice is

1. Enjoy the sex while you can. Once she becomes a FB, GF, don't expect to have that kind of GFE that clients get, because you are not paying. At least not upfront. But of course like all gfs, girl you are chasing, for dinners, gifts, presents, etc....You start hearing stuff your wife tells you, I am tired, its painful, not tonight, I don't want do this, that etc.... And in your head you go mad thinking of all the wild stuff she used to do with clients, moan like crazy, and with you, now this cannot, that cannot. You might even be tempted to pay her to try her special service she used to dish out, because you aint getting that kind of "love or GFE". She might tell you she used to scream so loud, her sisters at the brothels would knock her door asking her to be quiet, but with you, she is don't do this, don't do that, or even not keen on sex with you.
2. Be prepared for a shit storm of emotions, thinking about her past, whether her ex clients will recognize you when you go out, whether it is one of your friends, relatives. Going out with her she looks at guys looking at her, this it their trade, attracting guys is the job, and hard to shake off the habits
3. Don't bank on her being faithful to you, 1 man 1 woman is not her motto in life, if she is in the trade, or out of the trade. If she did believe in it, she wouldn't be doing this trade. Two timing three timing is something she used do before FL, during FL, after FL.
4. Have lots of money, you know that is what motivates her, when it runs out, so will the relationship
5. A very complex individual with a warped mentality of life when it comes to sex and money, and the tradeoff.
6. They will expect you not to ask or talk about their past, understandable of course. And better don't know, they more you know, the more hurt or upset you feel
7. If you want to get involved, have a huge huge heart to accept her past and a big allowance for hurt.
8. To be fair I think once they leave the trade, they really want to move on, I am just not sure our mind, spirit allows us to move on from living in that world for any period of time without being affected or damaged in/for the future.
9. She will have sad stories to tell you, how she cried sometimes after having sex with customers, her past, her family complicated, poor, has a son to raise. Then you find out, she has a son because she wanted to hold on to her ah beng bf so she screwed him still she got pregnant, but he still left. She really spends her money on drugs, casino. And the loan shark she said her dad owns money, is really her debts. She will have lots of ex bfs Chinese, indian, ang mo, malay etc...a whole united UN in her list of people she slept with even before she entered the trade, and even when she is in the trade, she might also have bfs, or people who bao her. But she might not be truthful to them telling them what she does.
10. Don't trust her to be honest and not lie about her past or her future or time with you. Next time her phone rings, sms comes will lead you to jump if its her ex customer looking for her for a quickie promising lots of money. When you cant get her doesn't pick up, you will be going mad thinking what the hell she is doing behind your back

Like I said, its hard to enter this trade and not leave with a character or mind not damaged, afterall its a flesh trade for money, but the trade off, effects is more than just sex for money, it goes deeper than that. Normally factors such as multiple sex partners before, drugs, gambling, loan sharks, ah beng ex convicts bfs, maybe even convicted herself are current or past events.

Not that people don't deserved a second chance, but once they start down this road, a lot of stuff, you cant just leave the past in history. And they might not have thought it through before before they entered the trade and now will pay the price for the life of branded goods, easy money
Relationships between FL Ex Fls are tough because trust is nearly an impossible thing, including all the points above, but if you are special enough to be able to rough it through the storm and the lady is willing to do what it takes to make it what is wrong, right, to get into normal relationship, Kudos to a new life

[risingup]

Great insights, wonder if anyone knows where FL normally end up after their trade? Do they just marry a normal guy and go on with their lives and fade into the surrounding?

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

my best 2 cents advice is

1. Enjoy the sex while you can. Once she becomes a FB, GF, don't expect to have that kind of GFE that clients get, because you are not paying. At least not upfront. But of course like all gfs, girl you are chasing, for dinners, gifts, presents, etc....You start hearing stuff your wife tells you, I am tired, its painful, not tonight, I don't want do this, that etc.... And in your head you go mad thinking of all the wild stuff she used to do with clients, moan like crazy, and with you, now this cannot, that cannot. You might even be tempted to pay her to try her special service she used to dish out, because you aint getting that kind of "love or GFE". She might tell you she used to scream so loud, her sisters at the brothels would knock her door asking her to be quiet, but with you, she is don't do this, don't do that, or even not keen on sex with you.
2. Be prepared for a shit storm of emotions, thinking about her past, whether her ex clients will recognize you when you go out, whether it is one of your friends, relatives. Going out with her she looks at guys looking at her, this it their trade, attracting guys is the job, and hard to shake off the habits
3. Don't bank on her being faithful to you, 1 man 1 woman is not her motto in life, if she is in the trade, or out of the trade. If she did believe in it, she wouldn't be doing this trade. Two timing three timing is something she used do before FL, during FL, after FL.
4. Have lots of money, you know that is what motivates her, when it runs out, so will the relationship
5. A very complex individual with a warped mentality of life when it comes to sex and money, and the tradeoff.
6. They will expect you not to ask or talk about their past, understandable of course. And better don't know, they more you know, the more hurt or upset you feel
7. If you want to get involved, have a huge huge heart to accept her past and a big allowance for hurt.
8. To be fair I think once they leave the trade, they really want to move on, I am just not sure our mind, spirit allows us to move on from living in that world for any period of time without being affected or damaged in/for the future.
9. She will have sad stories to tell you, how she cried sometimes after having sex with customers, her past, her family complicated, poor, has a son to raise. Then you find out, she has a son because she wanted to hold on to her ah beng bf so she screwed him still she got pregnant, but he still left. She really spends her money on drugs, casino. And the loan shark she said her dad owns money, is really her debts. She will have lots of ex bfs Chinese, indian, ang mo, malay etc...a whole united UN in her list of people she slept with even before she entered the trade, and even when she is in the trade, she might also have bfs, or people who bao her. But she might not be truthful to them telling them what she does.
10. Don't trust her to be honest and not lie about her past or her future or time with you. Next time her phone rings, sms comes will lead you to jump if its her ex customer looking for her for a quickie promising lots of money. When you cant get her doesn't pick up, you will be going mad thinking what the hell she is doing behind your back

Like I said, its hard to enter this trade and not leave with a character or mind not damaged, afterall its a flesh trade for money, but the trade off, effects is more than just sex for money, it goes deeper than that. Normally factors such as multiple sex partners before, drugs, gambling, loan sharks, ah beng ex convicts bfs, maybe even convicted herself are current or past events.

Not that people don't deserved a second chance, but once they start down this road, a lot of stuff, you cant just leave the past in history. And they might not have thought it through before before they entered the trade and now will pay the price for the life of branded goods, easy money
Relationships between FL Ex Fls are tough because trust is nearly an impossible thing, including all the points above, but if you are special enough to be able to rough it through the storm and the lady is willing to do what it takes to make it wrong, get a normal relationship, Kudos to a new life

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by risingup

Great insights, wonder if anyone knows where FL normally end up after their trade? Do they just marry a normal guy and go on with their lives and fade into the surrounding?

I know a Vietnamese lady who invested in a condo with her money since she had no CPF, she was married to a Singaporean husband who treated her bad(according to her), she came out to be a FL while other men also Bao her monthly to be faithful- she wasn't though of course.
She was also raising up a young daughter.

[risingup]

Wow, that is complex. what would their plans be like once their youth has faded?

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I know a Vietnamese lady who invested in a condo with her money since she had no CPF, she was married to a Singaporean husband who treated her bad(according to her), she came out to be a FL while other men also Bao her monthly to be faithful- she wasn't though of course.
She was also raising up a young daughter.

[AhKel]

haiz.....cant help recalling my past while reading this thread....

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=256835

ok la. actually a lot of men need shit to happen before gaining immunity like me

Most of the bro here are right. Modus operadi of FL are ALL THE SAME.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by todae

been in sbf for many years.. not a newbie but I wont consider myself old bird too.. been to sig thai disco countless of time. never cross my mind that I would one day posted in this section..

to cut the story short, I just came back from bkk 1 week ago.. meet a lady(WL) in a disco.. went back to hotel.. rest of it is SOP.. 2nd night, can't forget her n meet her again, then from there we chat n make like long lost couple.. I feel very loved..

come back to sg.. I cant forget her.. I even send $ to her cos she promise me that she will not be WL after her problem settled..

ok now, we are still contacting now.

just to share my experience here.. I know I m stupid but I just cant help it.. is like kana gong tao..

Wow bro, think you really kana kong tao liao. Better siam first while you are still clear in the head.

[todae]

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

Wow bro, think you really kana kong tao liao. Better siam first while you are still clear in the head.

thanks bro! lucky there is a lot of guru in here.. their wise words knock me up.. now I stop contacting with her liao..

past few weeks was living hell for me.. till now I also duno what happen to me.. hahaha..