Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[nacho]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Nah Bro I am still here, reading all the comments posted. anyway already booked my trip leaving on 7th June morn.

Any bros leaving for China on that day also?

Bro, despite all those "not so positive" advices, you are still very determine to go and find out the truth about the WL, I wish you luck and be able to come back in one piece.

Also hope that you are able to lost as little money and feelings while there as possible.

Good luck.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by nacho

Bro, despite all those "not so positive" advices, you are still very determine to go and find out the truth about the WL, I wish you luck and be able to come back in one piece.

Also hope that you are able to lost as little money and feelings while there as possible.

Good luck.

Well l notice abt sumtinz in us, sumtime we ppl jus wanna get to the bottom of the truth no matter wad it takes, l used to be like that.

but seriously is there a point or really a need to do to such extent?

Most of the time, the truth might not be the one u yearn or looking forward to.

[nacho]

Originally Posted by longwinter

Well l notice abt sumtinz in us, sumtime we ppl jus wanna get to the bottom of the truth no matter wad it takes, l used to be like that.

but seriously is there a point or really a need to do to such extent?

Most of the time, the truth might not be the one u yearn or looking forward to.

Sometimes, the truth is better to be left unfound and words unsaid to create a better and lasting impression.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by nacho

Sometimes, the truth is better to be left unfound and words unsaid to create a better and lasting impression.

ya, l hav always bear in my mind abt this particular lecturer l used to have. He told me it is best to open 1 eye, close 1 eye in every situations.

[colins]

Originally Posted by longwinter

Well l notice abt sumtinz in us, sumtime we ppl jus wanna get to the bottom of the truth no matter wad it takes, l used to be like that.

but seriously is there a point or really a need to do to such extent?

Most of the time, the truth might not be the one u yearn or looking forward to.

bro longwinter, how true. I used to have that thinking too. Giving up is sometimes the hardest thing to do, knowing at times you will never be able to know the real truth when somebody wants to conceal it.

[aczeta76]

I have given up finding out things... sometimes there may be things that they have buried in their hearts and will not tell u as they dun want to burden u

So ... impt things is to be happy when both of you are together and in love.

My GF is still my one and only. All the other WL, Wu LI, Xiao Lu, Xiao Na, and the 2 new SYT I visit will at most be my friends...

[bomarr]

It's always easier to said close one eye open another eye den actual doing it.

But really how many of us can do that? Personally i used to tell myself that

too. But if there a chance for you to acess to your MM phone without her

knowledge will you really see the content inside or just act blur & be

ignorant? For me it will be a definite YES to check her phone!!! But b4

checking i always tell myself to keep calm no matter what happen. What i

mean is if whatever things she said to u b4 is true den there no issue.

But if she lying to u. At least u will not be ignorant & u can bail out

asap.

[colins]

Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

Yo Bro Colins, glad you should ask
DH's not comparing anything but just speaking up he must
You should know that in this forum I always try to be a sharer and a learner
and seldom if not never, I try not to abuse another forum brudder & sister
not even against louts who stereotype
but when they get abusively personal with their hypes
they had to be rebutted lest such uncalled for remarks
be deemed as true when they are off the mark.

(Pls read my postings in this thread and you will know why)

Bro DH, I see. Hope to see the differences settled between you guys. The world appears very different to all of us, I guess. Cheers!

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by bomarr

It's always easier to said close one eye open another eye den actual doing it.

But really how many of us can do that? Personally i used to tell myself that

too. But if there a chance for you to acess to your MM phone without her

knowledge will you really see the content inside or just act blur & be

ignorant? For me it will be a definite YES to check her phone!!! But b4

checking i always tell myself to keep calm no matter what happen. What i

mean is if whatever things she said to u b4 is true den there no issue.

But if she lying to u. At least u will not be ignorant & u can bail out

asap.

Guess l will share abt wad my lecturer go abt his way of opening one eye close one eye theory.

During my study times, he knew that we are copying, wif our notes and papers underneath the test paper, he saw it, but he refused to comment abt anything.

When my gang of buddies and l disappeared from his lessons halfway, in fact, he could have marked as absent at the end of his lesson, he didnt. He act as if we were still there and we jus disappeared to the toilet.

During Major examination in the lecture theatre, he noe wad we are up to, but there was another lecturer watching us. He tried to shun the attention of the other lecturer to let us wad whatever we wan.

l was once caught smoking by him at the sch corridor, he jus smiled and asked me to be careful.

Till One day, l really cannot tahan riaos, l go ask him, and this is wad he tell me lor

Best to open 1 eyes close 1 eyes in every situations, if not u will be a very troubled person.

l know it is kind of hard la to practise like wad my lecturer do.

Ya, no problem that u can check on the MM phone, but do not make a confront towards her la. What for turn nasty or wad? am l right? if u really love her and wish to continue, wad can u do? open 1 eye, close 1 eye lo. If
u dun wan, then jus stop mixing wif her since u cant tahan the truth u have seen in her hp.

[aczeta76]

Me have learn to respect her ... if she thinks so much of me to want to lie, then respect her loh

Love is unconditional... dun make it complicated

Meeting with Wu Li this week made me think of my GF loh...

Haiz... anyway, hinted to Wu Li that we can be friends.. not asking for anything more as I cannot commit anything to her.

Dunno why I love my GF so much.. missing her so I keep butterflying to different FL to try to shield my heart from loneliness.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Yup, totally agree wif what many say here.
I saw a movie not too long ago wif Morgan Freeman in it & I cried my eyes out twice in that movie. Thank god i was watching that DVD in the middle of the nite when my entire family knock out liao. Mind you, not tears running out but like crying after loosing my 1st love hahaha
That movie, "Feast of Love" is so like what we all go through & he quoted alot of things that we all fail to do in life that leads many, and I mean many to heartache, me not excluded. Not in the movie industry but I would strongly recommend it to all to watch.
2 things that will remain in my mind forever is that:

1) We all can see the end from the beginning
2) When we jump from one place to another, almost all jump with their eyes closed....open them & you'll know where & what you're jumping into

Last & final part of the show even more touching, 人算不如天算

Sometimes, one must learn it the hardway like the postings here. 99% negative cannot go in, 1% positive and that was the post to be capitalised on. Fair.....been there & i truely understand.

Go, go wif your heart, but do remember one thing, the most beautiful time has passed, & it will never come back again....we all live for that moment, once passed, no matter how we try, it's only memory. Most importantly, time reveals all and also, heals all wounds.

That's why I posted much earlier, this wont be the 1st or last statistic.

As for the one who say he go look for FL to get off his mind, save it. Screwing a piece of meat & making love can never be the same.....damn you shud know that already.

[aczeta76]

I know lah bro... tt's why there ain't no satisfaction

haizzz...

[dirtyhairy]

Originally Posted by colins

Bro DH, I see. Hope to see the differences settled between you guys. The world appears very different to all of us, I guess. Cheers!

Yo Bro Colins,
thanks for sharing
actually there's nothing to settle
I am just trying to set the record straight a little
especially when sweeping statements are made at me directly
when I was merely sharing my own experiences only
indeed I have seen and done alot
but there are many things I humbly submit, I still know not
sure, stories of frauds and woes involving PRCs abound
then, there are also cases with good endings happy and sound
Perhaps DH is just so very lucky
to find a good partner lady who's a PRC,
she's not a WL but a biz lady, stoic, yet as kind as a good person should be
as such, I was sharing with TS my story
that while there are many bad PRCs, there are also gems really
but one must be alert, choose carefully and dun commit easily nor readily
perhaps a mindset change about PRC is necessary
just look at the heartwrenching actions at the earthquake-hit Chinese cities
many of them PRCs do have a positive side after all
their ready charity and display of humanity...
just look at that police lady who shared her titties to feed so many babies

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Yup dirtyhairy, there are good ones around, no question about it.
Like the one i mentioned that is wif me for 2yrs liao, she actually sent SGD10k of her savings to the sicuan relief fund.......and i know many more PRCs working here who have done it. For me, i spent SGD10buck at Macs bwahahahaha
Guess it comes down to one thing....
They're here for a mission, who wants to be a WL?
Some do it wif a conscience some do it hit n run......
But whoever disagrees wif you the all PRCs are crap, go screw themselves....it shows that they're still very lack of exposure here & in the mutha land or they're just a very unlucky bunch of SOBs......cheers dude

[colins]

Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

Yo Bro Colins,
thanks for sharing
actually there's nothing to settle
I am just trying to set the record straight a little
especially when sweeping statements are made at me directly
when I was merely sharing my own experiences only
indeed I have seen and done alot
but there are many things I humbly submit, I still know not
sure, stories of frauds and woes involving PRCs abound
then, there are also cases with good endings happy and sound
Perhaps DH is just so very lucky
to find a good partner lady who's a PRC,
she's not a WL but a biz lady, stoic, yet as kind as a good person should be
as such, I was sharing with TS my story
that while there are many bad PRCs, there are also gems really
but one must be alert, choose carefully and dun commit easily nor readily
perhaps a mindset change about PRC is necessary
just look at the heartwrenching actions at the earthquake-hit Chinese cities
many of them PRCs do have a positive side after all
their ready charity and display of humanity...
just look at that police lady who shared her titties to feed so many babies

I think in a lot of cases, we're all correct based on the things we see. But when its time to converge and talk on an issue, most times, the only thing we couldn't agree upon is the context. Or how we use our observation to derive on a conclusion. This is why I asked the earlier question cos really, I have no idea why both of you are arguing about when both are so correct. This is a little different from other arguments I see in the forum, and maybe I am placing judgement far off where I'm supposed to and playing busybody, but seriously, both are experienced in prc and both wants to share and both are genuine.

I've been in China from 2002 and yet learnt many things from both you guys. Just thought that its a pity to drop the discussion and put up an argument on our age and maturity. Surely with age, we see things differently, at times, we even argue with our former self.

Oh yeah I have been following your threads and hopefully, pls dun mind me saying the above. Just like to see that we're all happy and continue the sharing for guys here to take their own conclusion. Peace!