Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by technofreak

Wah cheem sia anh...Em hieu chet ling

người đàn ông mặc quần áo phụ nữ và ngược lại is what i got from the Viet online dictionary. It means transvestite

Originally Posted by technofreak

Dun mind I ask u something bro...My baxa's friend was immediately extradited upon entry to Sinkapore n was slapped with a 3-year ban from coming here. Any solution to this? I heard that the boyfriend can go over VN to bring her here. How true is this?? Thanks for reply.

Not even stepped in and slapped 3 year ban? 1st time heard of this bro. Anyway I got intend to bring my baxa back when her ban is lifted.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

What I just want to say is that I've always admired you in being able to accept your baxa as she is plus knowing about her present & past, my simple advice is "Do what you personally think is right, there are no straightforward or a simple right or wrong in life"

There are just too much differing views in a forum and asking for advice here may not be too productive

I took the time to post this is simply becos I know you personally, take care bro...

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, i know you for so many years since secondary school days. After reading your post, i have to say i am worried for you. .......i find the situation she describes about the taiwanese man and US vietkieu very suspicious. I don't want to say too much about this, but please be careful.

Originally Posted by technofreak

Haiz...Which gal (no matter what nationality) won't "outsource" for additional income (since it's no strings attached) right? We as players, also "outsource" for more cunts even though there's a great gf or wife waiting at home...Just my personal view

I am just asking some opinion so that other SBF bro can know more.

Cam on nhieu bro SS08. I got my own view as well and doing what my heart tells me to. End of day, if this relationship don't work out, it will be sweet memory for me with no regret. If it work out, it will be the end of my cheonging days.

Cam on nhieu bro SingViet. You may find it suspicious becoz I 'censored' some part of my personal ecperience. I was very worried when she tells me about the Taiwan man adn Viet Kieu. I beleive if the love is strong, end of the day she will be mine. No point think too much.

Cam on nhieu bro technofreak. For now, I still will out source for cunt and boobs...

Regarding the

[snipeshot08]

Originally Posted by SingViet

I understand that some bros may not agree with me about somethings i write in the forum about vietnamese.

The scene i was in some years back may be different from what it is now. Nowadays, singaporeans flood every corner of HCMC. You can disagree with me in any way you like as personal experiences differ.

No worries as this is what the forum existed for, posting & sharing of different views..., if not the world will be just a population of zombies..

It only becomes a problem once we get too emotional, personal or overly-enthusiatic in the viewpoints, which fortunately most of us here are matured enough not to be

Please keep on sharing your experiences, just like me I have also benefited from certain info given by you previously, its what keeps SBF going.....

Cheerios....SS08 ^_^

[snipeshot08]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Not even stepped in and slapped 3 year ban? 1st time heard of this bro. Anyway I got intend to bring my baxa back when her ban is lifted.

I would suspect that she had made a false declaration in the immigration card under "Have you ever entered Singapore previously under a different name?"

She may have been deported/banned before and tried to enter using a different passport & name, thus leading to immediate deportation. Most of them do not know that the ICA system captures the biometric data of all those banned from entering Singapore so usually using a different name/passport do not work.

Cheerios...SS08 ^_^

[technofreak]

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Correction TechnoF, you were with the saloon gal at her HOUSE, not hotel room.

The reason why no gals raped you was becos you are even more highly hyperactive & higher urge than the gals mah.

Nope the ICA ban stays regardless of who brings her in (unless Lao Lee himself lah, however the BF can try to appeal to ICA to overturn the ban but chances are not good.

Hallo Uncle we were in my room in Sunflower. As for hyperactiveness, I'm still a long way behind Uncle Botar...

Shhh...Don't antagonize Uncle Lee...He may be surfing SBF as well for all we know...

Originally Posted by KangTuo

người đàn ông mặc quần áo phụ nữ và ngược lại is what i got from the Viet online dictionary. It means transvestite.

Not even stepped in and slapped 3 year ban? 1st time heard of this bro. Anyway I got intend to bring my baxa back when her ban is lifted.

Troi oi...Transvestite in short I think is "bey day" rite? Hope I get the spelling correct.

Wish that day would come true for u bro...

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Cam on nhieu bro SS08. I got my own view as well and doing what my heart tells me to. End of day, if this relationship don't work out, it will be sweet memory for me with no regret. If it work out, it will be the end of my cheonging days.

Cam on nhieu bro technofreak. For now, I still will out source for cunt and boobs...

That should be the way it goes...Be a "dormant" volcano (like me) but not an "extinct" one...Slowly lying in wait for the "prey"...Hehe

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

No worries as this is what the forum existed for, posting & sharing of different views..., if not the world will be just a population of zombies...

It only becomes a problem once we get too emotional, personal or overly-enthusiatic in the viewpoints, which fortunately most of us here are matured enough not to be...

Please keep on sharing your experiences, just like me I have also benefited from certain info given by you previously, its what keeps SBF going...

Well said bro...Now I have a different perception of u...

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

I would suspect that she had made a false declaration in the immigration card under "Have you ever entered Singapore previously under a different name?"

She may have been deported/banned before and tried to enter using a different passport & name, thus leading to immediate deportation. Most of them do not know that the ICA system captures the biometric data of all those banned from entering Singapore so usually using a different name/passport do not work.

For my baxa's friend...She had been in n out Sg so many times over the past few years using the same passport...Yet was deported this time w/o any valid reason...Wonder what's wrong with the customs' officers up there??

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How to cope with inflation in Vietnam?
Get as much money from outside source as possible.

She told me this over the phone (daily teleconference) While working, she gets to know 2 guys (1 Taiwanese and 1 Viet Kieu). These 2 guys are interested in her and are willing to help her in money terms...

Hi Bro, if you dont mind my input. Personally, I feel that if you want to believe in her then just believe her and dont think too much. Sometimes, thinking too much might just make you suffer and doubt her more.

I'm sure that most of the r/s problems here will be due to money. But if you had already decided to "support" her, it means you had belief in your love. Since you had trust in this r/s, then remember that trust always. If dont trust someone then why fall in love in the first place. This is the approach that I adopt. As outsiders, we are unsure of many factors and only you yourself will know whether she is true to you. If I'm not mistaken, your r/s had been more than a yr? Anyway, pls pardon me for my bad command of english.

I really hope that your r/s will work and wedding bells will ring after 1 yr 4 mths for you. As for me, I need around 2 yrs before I can really support a family life.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

She told me this over the phone (daily teleconference) While working, she gets to know 2 guys (1 Taiwanese and 1 Viet Kieu). These 2 guys are interested in her and are willing to help her in money terms.

Did ur gf told these two guys that she already hv a bf? IMHO If she really love u she should hv done so.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Did ur gf told these two guys that she already hv a bf? IMHO If she really love u she should hv done so.

She told me that she did tell them.

Originally Posted by Thom07

Since you had trust in this r/s, then remember that trust always

and I trust her... its been 1 year 10 mths. Long distance r/s is not easy, although some time I am un-sure. We have daily tele-conference and this assures me of her love for me.

Bros who are in the same situation as me, please remember that it requires lots of patience, energy and belief. Alot of 'swan ming jai' say that our relationship will not last. But we are determine to proof them wrong.

[saint82]

my ger just told me over sms honestly that she came to singapore as she need a lot of money.. and she needs to go lam tinh with customers in order to earn more money for the family..

she also told me if i really like her.. can i wait for her for 2 yrs..

i replied her ok.. i will wait for her..


Starting to learn about playing mind games already, anyway talk is cheap.. about 15 cents per sms..

[snipeshot08]

Originally Posted by technofreak

Hallo Uncle we were in my room in Sunflower. As for hyperactiveness, I'm still a long way behind Uncle Botar......

Well said bro...Now I have a different perception of u...

For my baxa's friend...She had been in n out Sg so many times over the past few years using the same passport...Yet was deported this time w/o any valid reason...Wonder what's wrong with the customs' officers up there??

Harlo Nephew

Is this the one that keeps calling you "lao gong" during the massage at May Vy?? If it is than you told me the next day you went to her house to sleep overnite what, unless its another one I don't know about....

Yah another different perception other than DOM rite?? >_<

As for your BX's friend, I suspect that are a lot of secrets she's still keeping >_<, Singapore customs or almost all Garment agencies are not known to do things haphazardly or not in accordance with the written rules & regulations

Cheerios....SS08 ^_^

[technofreak]

Originally Posted by saint82

my ger just told me over sms honestly that she came to singapore as she need a lot of money.. and she needs to go lam tinh with customers in order to earn more money for the family..

she also told me if i really like her.. can i wait for her for 2 yrs..

i replied her ok.. i will wait for her..

Starting to learn about playing mind games already, anyway talk is cheap.. about 15 cents per sms..

Wait 2 years for her while she earn $$ thru "lam tinh"...I find this philosophy crap!! She shouldn't have continue doing this after she had known u...Don't u agree?? Furthermore, can u guarantee that her family won't ask for more money from her again in future?

Originally Posted by snipeshot08

Harlo Nephew,

Is this the one that keeps calling you "lao gong" during the massage at May Vy?? If it is than you told me the next day you went to her house to sleep overnite what, unless its another one I don't know about...

Dung roi anh...Think u misinterpret my words lah. I fetch her from her house then go my room that nite.

[Thom07]

Originally Posted by saint82

my ger just told me over sms honestly .... i replied her ok.. i will wait for her...

You believe her ?

[oldcar]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How to cope with inflation in Vietnam?
Get as much money from outside source as possible.

She told me this over the phone (daily teleconference) While working, she gets to know 2 guys (1 Taiwanese and 1 Viet Kieu). These 2 guys are interested in her and are willing to help her in money terms.

Sorry to say this, I think she want you to up your investment.

I also have this baxa, for 2 year. Each month I give her 1K US+++, she only like to go out to bar with her all girl friend, say go out with me boring (because other boy cannot talk to her!!!). Every month say have this man US, Korean, or twainese like her. and off course Viet Kieu want to marry her. Say I no good only earn 2k US per month (off course I lie ), cannot buy her house and land etc.. I told her since I not good, I give you one year, not seeing her, go and find a better one...

Now she want to come back even she know I have another baxa, she say, one week see one day ok, me have other girl ok...because she cannot forget me

[X_plorer]

Originally Posted by oldcar

Sorry to say this, I think she want you to up your investment.

I also have this baxa, for 2 year. Each month I give her 1K US+++, she only like to go out to bar with her all girl friend, say go out with me boring (because other boy cannot talk to her!!!). Every month say have this man US, Korean, or twainese like her. and off course Viet Kieu want to marry her. Say I no good only earn 2k US per month (off course I lie ), cannot buy her house and land etc.. I told her since I not good, I give you one year, not seeing her, go and find a better one...

Now she want to come back even she know I have another baxa, she say, one week see one day ok, me have other girl ok...because she cannot forget me

Bro old car, i think you are too good already. Give her US$1k +++, do you know that kind of money when you invest every month into unit trust or other investment, you could get a lot more after a period of time.

I think you can tell her you kana sack or retrenced. Then got a even lower pay job, and can give her only $300 - $500 Sing dollars, if she cannot take it, then forget it. A monthly pay for Vietnamese working in HCMC which i had encountered when i go there was only $170 sing (not including food and lodging - to be pay by themself).

So if you give her $300 - $500 monthly, i would say it is very good already but of course would also depends her family is from Urban or Rural Area.. Country side would be cheaper..

When you are giving her US$1k ++, and she is not satisfied.. Bro, i think i intro you to some Village gals to chose from and i think not even half of her maintenace.

So many of them are simple minded, and are easily satisfied, but your this girl is so greedy. I think you can give her up, save the money for other purposes, or find new ones. Dun give up the forest just because of a tree..

There are so many trees outside for you to pick it up..

Got money, Got Honey.. No Money, No Honey..

Maintain your personal view and you will never lose out..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Tiring... but yet always feel sweet whenever i go hcmc to see her.

Paid n distance love is always sweeter