Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[need_it]

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

Thanks. I just typing what I really feel. Just that with this ML, I feel she made a mistake but there must be something that made her choose this but what a choice. I already told her that from Day 1 to now, already she lost something intangible. If she continues down this road, she will lose more and more. 1 more HJ is 1 more too much. Just couldn’t bear to watch it burn so my you can say naive heart moved to help.

Well, who are we to judge? I also feel that for every pair of tits I fondle and every pussy I ram, I lose something intangible. To the point whereby I don’t think too much about that. Don’t like that feeling but just couldn’t help indulging in such vice. Filthy animal I am. And I think the same mindset applies to these working ladies. Once tainted, they are and will never be the same again.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

I wish you all the best bro. Happiness but don’t get too hurt.

Mine is a different scenario. money and effort spend on dating CAT1 ML where we really meetup after her work hours/ between appointments. We build the chemistry and understanding outside of her work. I do visit her in spa to support is another matter.

You seems to mixed love and lust for your condo ML.

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

Thanks. I just typing what I really feel. Just that with this ML, I feel she made a mistake but there must be something that made her choose this

Originally Posted by Jasperdo

I asked not to work in such a circle anymore. No condo no spa. Just be a normal person. She always says she can take care of herself

Though you say you read character well, you failed to understand the situation she is in. You are thinking how you feel and wanting to saviour

Originally Posted by Wee0502

Bro, you are in this game coz your dick feel itchy, not because you wanna be a saviour for them. Keep your mindset right!

You beat me to this.... wanting to saviour

[Newsasap]

Patroned a new lady in her mid 20s, I exchanged contact with her and didn't expect she is super friendly. Always chat for long hrs. She is fresh to this trade, very innocent, looks, like she is looking for friends to guide her as she doesn't know how to seduce guy from what I have observed.
Too bad I don't have so much time for her. Anyone wants to friend her can pm me for contact. But please support and be polite to her. Cheers.

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by Newsasap

Patroned a new lady in her mid 20s, I exchanged contact with her and didn't expect she is super friendly. Always chat for long hrs. She is fresh to this trade, very innocent, looks, like she is looking for friends to guide her as she doesn't know how to seduce guy from what I have observed.
Too bad I don't have so much time for her. Anyone wants to friend her can pm me for contact. But please support and be polite to her. Cheers.

Hey bro, long time never chat with you. She pretty or not?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Wee0502

Hey bro, long time never chat with you. She pretty or not?

looking for one to rent as gf?

[sladang]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Google translated from a chinese article.
Many people become stupid when they fall in love.

Yeah, this is so true & particularly so when (they) are referring to the loving couples who fall in love wif each other, but in this forum's perspective are (they) the loving couples?

NO, it's juz a lobsided view of the cheongsters themselves towards the MLs/WLs/FLs, cheongsters(they) think they are in love wif the chickens but chickens dun think likewise

Chickens dun fall in love wif cheongsters, chickens oni fall in love wif cheongsters money, simple as that

What? not all chicken is like that izzit? ok lor ..

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

looking for one to rent as gf?

Yeah. I dunno how it works though. Hee hee… but I am a 颜控, most of them age super fast after they join this trade. I dunno what is going on. Got one age like a few years within a span of few month. I seriously think “what’s wrong with you? Don’t you understand youth is what you can sell and yet you just waste your pretty face like that? “

[RedFurBull]

Originally Posted by RedFurBull

My post in another thread - touched on not falling in love with ML
For your reference

Just tried the legendary Amy.
She’s very service oriented, but more importantly, she’s very humble, attentive, kind, honest - and the list goes on

I must say the last time I tried her kind of service is by an FL stationed in a HDB in the heart of Hougang. I treated her really well, taught her English, shared with her how to appreciate wine, we even went to watch musical together, Phantom & Mama Mia. I stop going to her after her character changed, n I sensed that it’s time to end the friendliness.

So experiencing Amy’s AJ kind of like brought back nice memories before the last HG FL’s character changed.

Pls go support Amy n be nice to her. U won’t get such friendly FL that often anymore.

Anyone keen to know who this Hougang FL is/ was? I dun even know if she’s still alive haha

[orangeredyellow]

Originally Posted by Wee0502

You want to know whether what you said is true? PM me and let me try her out. I pretty sure they behave very differently when they meet a young and rich client. Don’t be naive and trust them, the only reason why they are in this line is because they want to earn as much as money as possible within the shortest period of time. Bro, you are in this game coz your dick feel itchy, not because you wanna be a saviour for them. Keep your mindset right!

I come in to read this wake up call again and again. You are truly the master we all need. I read your this 1 comment machiam bible verse.

We must remember: we came out to play coz dick itchy. No $$ no honey.

These are not the girls who can settle down with you for life.

These are girls who willingly betray the sanctity of their bodies to earn the maximum they can earn within a short period of time before they themselves become old and undesirable again.

[giggsy_11]

Love or lust ?
I also not sure. Now i need time to get over her

Been visiting this CAT 1 prc ML more than 10 times over a span of 2 months.

1st visit totally smitten by her. Never had this feeling after more than 15 years of chiong. Normal lvl 1 happiness menu.

Subsequent visits keep on saying how she would love to do FJ. Told me to come after 1030pm. I thought to myself swee liao.

Guess what? On that night she say why never bring 油油 (ky). Say need ky then can do. End up with CBJ. Didnt want to ask her how much just pass her $100(usual standard HJ rate), end up ask can give a little more. End up give her another $50.

All these red flags, i should have seen them. Instead fell for her lovey dovey messages and conversations
Gradually 2 weeks passed and i was back looking for her once or twice a week.

Brought up the topic of FJ. Told her i’m her no 1 supporter. Ask her how is she going to repay me.
She ask me 你想我做什么
I said 什么都做.
And she say ‘好我听你的.

So guess what, i could sense something was wrong. In the room told me to lay down get ready for massage. I said i’m not here for massage. Asked her your period come ?
She said yes.

Wow i was damn hot. Told her why didn’t tell me? So can postpone. She say she didn’t know. She thought I wanted a quiet n peaceful massage at night. Damn pissed off. She look worried too. Coax me back to the bed. I said no. I changed and left

Send me some sorry messages
I don’t bother to reply

Luckily no cash or gifts was involved

How to heal from this?
Going to find my another regular ML now
Even though she’s not as young or as pretty, at least she promised me the service.

Anyone has similar experience?

Thank you for reading

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by giggsy_11

Love or lust ?
I also not sure. Now i need time to get over her

Been visiting this CAT 1 prc ML more than 10 times over a span of 2 months.

1st visit totally smitten by her. Never had this feeling after more than 15 years of chiong. Normal lvl 1 happiness menu.

Subsequent visits keep on saying how she would love to do FJ. Told me to come after 1030pm. I thought to myself swee liao.

Guess what? On that night she say why never bring 油油 (ky). Say need ky then can do. End up with CBJ. Didnt want to ask her how much just pass her $100(usual standard HJ rate), end up ask can give a little more. End up give her another $50.

All these red flags, i should have seen them. Instead fell for her lovey dovey messages and conversations
Gradually 2 weeks passed and i was back looking for her once or twice a week.

Brought up the topic of FJ. Told her i’m her no 1 supporter. Ask her how is she going to repay me.
She ask me 你想我做什么
I said 什么都做.
And she say ‘好我听你的.

So guess what, i could sense something was wrong. In the room told me to lay down get ready for massage. I said i’m not here for massage. Asked her your period come ?
She said yes.

Wow i was damn hot. Told her why didn’t tell me? So can postpone. She say she didn’t know. She thought I wanted a quiet n peaceful massage at night. Damn pissed off. She look worried too. Coax me back to the bed. I said no. I changed and left

Send me some sorry messages
I don’t bother to reply

Luckily no cash or gifts was involved

How to heal from this?
Going to find my another regular ML now
Even though she’s not as young or as pretty, at least she promised me the service.

Anyone has similar experience?

Thank you for reading

Some of them I guess have family back in China, that’s why they won’t do it regardless of how close she is to the client. For me, I will just move on after 1 or 2 sessions, plenty of pretty FLs out there.

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by orangeredyellow

I come in to read this wake up call again and again. You are truly the master we all need. I read your this 1 comment machiam bible verse.

We must remember: we came out to play coz dick itchy. No $$ no honey.

These are not the girls who can settle down with you for life.

These are girls who willingly betray the sanctity of their bodies to earn the maximum they can earn within a short period of time before they themselves become old and undesirable again.

I personally think it is about the hormone Oxytocin after you make love. The girl is having sex with many guys, so they are not sure which one brings her the highest oxytocin level, but you on other hand, normally stick to one FL or ML due to limited money or sperm, that’s why you are very sure about that particular FL brings you the extra happiness. Solution to this is simple, engage another FL or ML and test drive.

It is very hard for the FL or ML to find 大哥nowadays, if you feel the urge, just pay her to have a good fuck. Don’t complicate things up by insisting you are the special one. Got 2 FLs insisted I am the special one, said they only offer certain services to only me. I personally fancy them a lot but I don’t really give a fuck about this saying. They can say this to me means they can say this to other special clients as well.

[kaypohkia]

Just wanted to write my recent experience here to get it off my chest because there is not really any place else I can share.

I've only played in Singapore for 3 times (most of my experiences were overseas) and the last time was 4 years ago but recently found myself obsessing over sex so I went to find a Vietnamese FL.

I should have known she was different, or at least I believe so. From the way she texted, her behaviours, etc. I initially thought she was a scammer, also probably because of my lack of experience.

During the first visit she shared with me during the massage she initially came to Singapore to work in a Geylang bar but the earnings were too little so she decided to work FL.

I felt it was genuine, but didn't want to probe further as I was in some sense playing a character to desensitize myself from the reality of the experience. Like I know this is an act i'm not proud of, and it's not an excuse but I was spending many hours a day lurking through SBF, reading about FRs, simply couldn't get it out of my head.

I had trouble getting my junk up because I was on Ritalin (ADHD), but she was so nice & kind throughout. Didn't watch the time at all. I don't play around too often so my sample size is small, but I genuinely never experienced such kindness before.

The second visit though we did only one shot she allowed me to stay for 12 hours with no talk of extra fees though I did tip 1.5X her hourly rate which is little. The third visit I stayed for a long time too.

I know I wasn't special or anything. Every time I visited there would be new gifts from other clients. And it was clear why.

She had a vibe that made people feel at ease. Her openness, her life experience, probably some naivety, along with her gung-ho attitude towards life. She always talked good about the people around her.

It was a short period of just 2 weeks, and the feelings I developed were probably just infatuation, but I guess it still felt real.

But then reality sank in, as it always does. There was a day when she received a text from the hotel that the police might be coming so we left the room. In the public setting, things were different. I was self-conscious, worried I might bump into people I knew. Even if she wasn't a FL, our disparity in looks was clear - she was an 8 while i'm probably just a 3.

There was once I also saw her with some black spots under her eye. I didn't really dare ask though. What could I do? After I paid her for sex I felt like I lost all moral high ground, and even though I felt she was a genuine person, there was always this little voice in my head, reminding me this may just be a part of the character she is playing.

I guess it's like the story of how the boy who gave his friend the smaller piece of the treat always worries that others are giving him the smaller piece. 做贼心虚.

Anyway, it reached a point where the illusion was broken, like the music at the club coming to an end at 4, and the lights turning on, and the magic stops.

I don't believe we can be friends or whatever too even if she is fine. Any advice I share feels hypocritical.

I'm also not sad, I knew from the beginning this was going to be the outcome but it still bothers a little.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by giggsy_11

Love or lust ?
I also not sure. Now i need time to get over her

Been visiting this CAT 1 prc ML more than 10 times over a span of 2 months.

1st visit totally smitten by her. Never had this feeling after more than 15 years of chiong. Normal lvl 1 happiness menu.

Subsequent visits keep on saying how she would love to do FJ. Told me to come after 1030pm. I thought to myself swee liao.

A lot of ML use this tactic of coaxing customer about FJ so that we keep on visiting thinking that we can have upgraded service. Young and pretty ML from CAT 1 spa usually don't take the risk to do it. Furthermore they don't need to as compared to old out of date ML..

Originally Posted by Wee0502

Some of them I guess have family back in China, that’s why they won’t do it regardless of how close she is to the client. For me, I will just move on after 1 or 2 sessions, plenty of pretty FLs out there.

True. There are MLs out there that don't do FJ at all not matter how close you are. That is why they are ML and not FL.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by kaypohkia

During the first visit she shared with me during the massage she initially came to Singapore to work in a Geylang bar but the earnings were too little so she decided to work FL.

But then reality sank in, as it always does. There was a day when she received a text from the hotel that the police might be coming so we left the room.

FL working from hotel under OKT?
Move on ...