Married wife as FWB/FB

[Lemonjuice]

Shifus n bros,

So I went out with this milf for the first time, and we go park walking. Shared drink n I sampled her food too.

We know each other marital status, so we are "just friends". Now I am like flying a kite, need to control the line.

Any tips?

[elune]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

In my opinion, married women who strays are the best catch logically.
Unless she is on a suicide mission meaning she couldnt care for much if she is to be caught by her man, she still strays then this would be your problem.

She and us have equal risks on the table once we engaged hence that makes both of us inherently discreet about the nature of our fling.
But married women comes with a caveat.

Fuck her but dont fuck with her heart, emotions.
U crossed that line, either she will be devastated or she will make u pay. Trust me, this happens a lot.

How to find married women who wants to stray?
I would not know. I like to be passive in this.
I want to be misled and led, i am fine with both.
Women gave a sign i thought it was 'come let's do it', i approach.
If it is really a wrong sign, i have nothing to lose and i apologise.

But if the signs are genuine then let's the game begin.
So how to get the signs?

U and me have to fucking give out the signs first.
U and me have to show the married women thinking of stray that we MIGHT be attracted to her being married and still want to fuck her.

We have to show her we WANT and still LUSTS for her even though she is MARRIED.
Trust me, this is a powerful pussy-whetting trigger for them.
It is all about we give out the signs and we keep our eyes peeled open to see how the signs come back or not.

Let's be realistic and mature here.
Anyone think a married woman would wear it on their forehead that they want to fuck u and to be in a relationship outside of her marriage while not knowing a single thing about u?

There are women like that. That makes u her dick-call.
How many of such women u think are out there?

The benefits of having a married woman/women on the sides are aplenty but it comes with hard work and patience.

By now at our age we should know how this world works.
U want a Wham Bam Thank U Ma'am kind of stuff, go FL or ML.

U want a sexual relationship that can mature over time with love, lust and affection plus the thrill of a kept secret, married women who strays are the best.

I have absolutely no joy in engaging FL,ML or ONS.
Those Young Dumb Full of Cum days for me are over.

Now, i want an erotic, sensual, sexual and fulfilling relationship with women who are mellowed, mature and independent.
Age is not an issue for me.

Again, fuck her but dont fuck with her heart.
Dont give her hope or wrong impression.
Both of us on the bed now are not saints.
So dont be a sanctimonious fucker but be real.

Dont judge her marriage or her.
Her marriage life has nothing to do with u and u are in no position to judge her.
Fuck her dont fuck with her heart unless u have such a big heart that u can accommodate 2 lives at the same time. U know what i mean right?

Now look at what i have said. Make sense? Logical?
Then again ask yourself this.
So is fucking married women worth it.
Your choice, your path and your work.

Wise words. Just curious how would you feel if you find out your wife is eating outside? Will you be ok with it?

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by elune

Wise words. Just curious how would you feel if you find out your wife is eating outside? Will you be ok with it?

Thanks man good questions!

I have been married for 20 years.
I have been snacking on the sides on and off more than that period
My wife is perfect for me, marriage wise.
Good and responsible partner. Great mother to our kids.
Very supportive wife. We have sex about once a week now that we are in our early 50's.
I still snack, what is wrong?

There is nothing wrong with my wife, i am the one.
So if i get caught i have absolutely no fucking excuse to give my wife why i stray and the answer is simply, i want more.
She has been giving me 100% of what i expect of her as my wife.
Yet i want other pussies. So, if i am caught there is no excuse.
However, if i am caught i will ask for forgiveness and i will sever all ties with the rest of my women. I will and i can.
As long as she gives me one more chance and i will go down on my knees to beg for that. Honest to God i will if i am caught.

Ok, now what if my wife is the one who snacks.
This is a little tough to answer.
She snacks and i snack too, then i found out about her or i dont snack?
Let's say i dont snack and she snacks. Hmm.....
That would not be my case. I snack.

Ok for real. Let say all this while she snacks and i snack.
She didnt find out about me yet i discovered hers first.
I would be pissed. This i am sure.
Would i divorce her, unlikely.
Separation first, also unlikely.
What i would do and i am sure that i would most definitely do is to find out why she snacks.
If she wants to salvage our relationship, i am willing to work towards repairing our relationship.

Then let's say she just wanted out. This would be simple, let it end then.
For me, i will try to salvage our relationship by wanting to know why she strays and snacks.
If she is willing to give our relationship another try, i will too.
And i will confess to her that i stray too.
I am one that will not end a marriage just like that.
I will work to find the cause with her and together we make whole again.
Having said that, if after we worked things out and she go back to her old ways again, i will end our marriage with her.

[piichai]

I have been through few marriages and I am on the receiving end and giving end when it comes to EMA.
These are my observations :

1) We can fuck around with other peoples woman (wives) and our wives can also do the same and probably will because both of them do not have the sparks anymore.

2) Many married couples are not happily married and they may seem happy but only they know best. Maintaining a healthy relationship takes trust, faithfulness, respect and love.

3) My flings, FWB and FB usually married comes from all walks of life when I was single and attached.
Some of their betrayal are so scary that I dont trust woman anymore.

4) When men are attached, they can either find a FB or pay to get a release.
It takes only 1 occasion to break the bond and betray her, once it is done, it is very hard to stay faithful and you will start to stray

I have been faithful for 8 months now because i found my true love. She is married and maybe wife of someone in this forum. She is considering to get out of a sexless marriage.
She is more than 45. As for me, after all these married life and expensive commercial sex, I have good sex with her and she loves me.
Now instead of spending on SPA and GL, I spend it on us and I even have spared cash to save.

I think I may be in a honeymoon period and I am not sure when the novelty will wears out and how long i can hold on before returning to commercial scene.
I hope I wont.

5) When there is no feeling between 2 couples, women are usually the one who feels it first.
They are also the one that want to get out of it if they can.

[Rickey]

T.Q. v. much Bro piichai for writing such a detailed account to share with us yr experiences on this popular subject ...it's such an eye-opener for many of us not in it just like the ones by UncleHasBeen

[UncleHasBeen]

Guys if u want to continue our sharing and discussion on such but more on the failed attempts and what we can do more to refine our search or reading the right signals, join us here.

https://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=878314

My apologies to the TS as i have unintentionally derailed the context of this thread.

[Ray06]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Similar.
My colleague’s wife texted me.
Met for dinner. Threw herself at me. Resisted and kept it from my colleague.
Second time gave in for dinner again. She straddled and grind her pussy against my crotch at a park.
Third time, gave in surrendered and fucked her like crazy.

After a month my colleague, her husband found out. We stopped.
Confronted all parties involved. Decided to end it.
She moved out of their place. Temporarily separation.
She called me, again I gave in surrendered and became her booty call.
Went to her new place, fucked again.

Our personalities eventually kicked in and we called it quits after 2 months.
Went separate ways and she returned to her husband.
Before that she told me I was her 2nd fling and got caught by her husband second time.

About 1.5 years later bumped into our mutual friend and colleague.
We catch up about our old work place.
She told me the entire office knew about the incident between the 3 of us then.
Then she told me that the married woman has been divorced from my colleague.

No surprise to me I exclaimed.
However, to my surprised is that my ex-colleague and his wife only filed for divorce after her 5th fling.
I was 2nd fling . Three more dicks came into her before her husband filed for divorce.
I was one of the meats she hunted.

wow, you mean there is such woman around?
I guess I am out dated....

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Ray06

wow, you mean there is such woman around?
I guess I am out dated....

Her antics are nothing compared to the SYT these days.
I am sure just by browsing within this forum u would know the current trend of women.

Not that i am complaining or judging.
Women are equally good and adventurous as men, as players in the field.

[Ray06]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

Her antics are nothing compared to the SYT these days.
I am sure just by browsing within this forum u would know the current trend of women.

Not that i am complaining or judging.
Women are equally good and adventurous as men, as players in the field.

Well, I just don't have such luck and privileges...
Maybe I am not tall and handsome....

[UncleHasBeen]

Originally Posted by Ray06

Well, I just don't have such luck and privileges...
Maybe I am not tall and handsome....

U dont need to be privileged to have willing pussies. (Later i will show u)
Tall and handsome, not a prerequisite too. (Again later i will show u)
Factually men who are taller and better looking will stand a higher chance to get girls.

But nowadays, it is pussies-galore and u just need to be in the right social circle.

Case in point. I am above average in height but only with average looks.

Now for the "Women are equally good and adventurous as men, as players in the field." part.

Check out this thread. The pussy is a SYT. A willing one.
And those buggers, u judge for yourself if they are tall and handsome.

https://sbf.directory/showpost.php?p=21288746&postcount=264

https://sbf.directory/showpost.php?p=21318406&postcount=286

My case in point

[AmpedUp]

Originally Posted by UncleHasBeen

U dont need to be privileged to have willing pussies

Very well said

[yang punk]

Interesting thread. Have been following it since inception. I agree totally with unclehasbeen who seemed to have led a very interesting and 'successful' life and who is now so generously sharing his wisdom in this field milf conquest.

Just to put in perspective...if he is Unclehasbeen then I can qualify as grandpahasbeen! Frankly times have changed but human nature both male and female has not. There are horny men and there are highly sexed women as well, only that being women and supposedly the more 'chaste' sex they have to appear more well behaved. But the moment you realised it takes 2 hands to clap then you know the prospects are there for the taking. If you know where and how to look.

You don't have to be rich, tall, handsome and successful so long as you know your limitations. So if you're an average joe be happy with an average Jane.

Many people here will advise you to never shit where you eat! But it is no surprise that many affairs start off in the same work environment. Why because you spend more time with your colleagues than with your Wife at home. After a few years of married life with tiresome kids around you'll find home is not where you look forward to be after a hard day's work. If you are a senior in the office you find your subordinates are more willing to serve you than your Wife! If you're a nice boss and knows how to shower your favours and attention you will soon know who you can groom. But just as often you can be the 'victim'.

As Kenny Rogers advised, a good gambler must know when to fold! You must also know when to bite the bait.

I've had 3 relationships during my working life and these were all long term ones involving colleagues. The first involved a subordinate, my assistant. We both started working in the service company before our marriage and only started years later after we had our families. She was like my office Wife in the office family and we sort of drifted into intimacy in the office after office hours after the rest of the colleagues have gone home. We definitely had more frequent sex with each other than with our spouses at home. She was married to a well to do businessman. Big house, maid etc. Conservative in-laws patriarch matriarch type of family...the type where divorce is forbidden territory. Husband was very hardworking, 7-day work week etc. So she was the perfect milf candidate. Perfectly happy to serve me when ever I wanted. Bj and swallow even when she was on red alert. Ended amicably when she was transferred to another branch.

The second affair...I was the 'victim' hunted by this colleague from the head office who met me during a short training session. Nothing yet until she was transferred to the same building and we became neighbours. Embarrassingly she kept coming over to my office to chitchat. Background...she was married not too long ago, no kids yet, match-made marriage to someone from same kampong, husband busy businessman. Sex was conservative 'wham bang, goodnight ma'am' type with no foreplay. She claimed she didn't know what was organism! Our office chat progressed to long phone chat after office hours whilst I was still in the office and she at home. I became her sex guru, phone sex teaching her to masturbate and experience organism. So from plutonic sex desire for physical sex was the natural progression. How? She will go shopping after work and wait for my office colleagues to leave before coming to my office. We would lock up switch off the lights and have our tryst. Even brought me to her home one Saturday to fuck on her marital bed with her wedding photo starring down at me! Ended when she quit her job to follow her Husband to China. Later she even got me into one of her husband's company but by then she was a Mother of 3 and we agreed to let bygones be bygones. Strange to look at the MD and to know I fucked your wife.

Third was this syt subordinate who was recruited as a part-time sales assistant in a different company from above stories. She was a Malaysian working part-time during weekends and evenings. Capable and hardworking I recruited her to be a full time supervisor and some how I knew I wanted to fuck her one day. She was 20 and I was double her age then. Took over 2 years of grooming when it finally happened. It was her birthday and I bought her a huge bouquet of red roses, drove her to quiet park to present it to her. We were close but not intimate yet. Somehow she knew I was wooing her but from a conservative family she knew it was wrong to be with a married man and her parents would kill her if they knew! There and then she told me we could never be in a relationship and she would never want to be the 3rd party to breakup a family.


We were both very emotional and tears even flowed. But somehow I felt it was now or never. I leaned over (in the car) and kissed her passionately and slowly she responded and my hand roamed to her breast, I buttoned her blouse to reached in...kissed her breast and sucked on her nipple. Guess what? She came had an orgasm, first time I encountered someone who could climax from nip being sucked! That cemented our relationship and we became a couple. Our affair lasted over 25 years! She never married neither did she wanted me to divorce and be with her. But all good things must come to an end when my Wife retired and I no longer have any opportunity to go meet her. I still love her deeply and appreciate all the sacrifices she made to forgo having a family (she even had to undergo an abortion). Still in contact with her, perhaps if I am lucky one day...

There were also the misses...a single Property Agent, but she would have want me to leave my family. A married lawyer, too high maintenance. A client, Wife of a businessman, who even took me to view an empty property belonging to her family. But it was not a convenient opportunity.

So there you are sometimes the forbidden fruits are the sweetest.

[dwog1]

Originally Posted by yang punk

Interesting thread. Have been following it since inception. I agree totally with unclehasbeen who seemed to have led a very interesting and 'successful' life and who is now so generously sharing his wisdom in this field milf conquest.

Just to put in perspective...if he is Unclehasbeen then I can qualify as grandpahasbeen! Frankly times have changed but human nature both male and female has not. There are horny men and there are highly sexed women as well, only that being women and supposedly the more 'chaste' sex they have to appear more well behaved. But the moment you realised it takes 2 hands to clap then you know the prospects are there for the taking. If you know where and how to look.

You don't have to be rich, tall, handsome and successful so long as you know your limitations. So if you're an average joe be happy with an average Jane.

Many people here will advise you to never shit where you eat! But it is no surprise that many affairs start off in the same work environment. Why because you spend more time with your colleagues than with your Wife at home. After a few years of married life with tiresome kids around you'll find home is not where you look forward to be after a hard day's work. If you are a senior in the office you find your subordinates are more willing to serve you than your Wife! If you're a nice boss and knows how to shower your favours and attention you will soon know who you can groom. But just as often you can be the 'victim'.

As Kenny Rogers advised, a good gambler must know when to fold! You must also know when to bite the bait.

I've had 3 relationships during my working life and these were all long term ones involving colleagues. The first involved a subordinate, my assistant. We both started working in the service company before our marriage and only started years later after we had our families. She was like my office Wife in the office family and we sort of drifted into intimacy in the office after office hours after the rest of the colleagues have gone home. We definitely had more frequent sex with each other than with our spouses at home. She was married to a well to do businessman. Big house, maid etc. Conservative in-laws patriarch matriarch type of family...the type where divorce is forbidden territory. Husband was very hardworking, 7-day work week etc. So she was the perfect milf candidate. Perfectly happy to serve me when ever I wanted. Bj and swallow even when she was on red alert. Ended amicably when she was transferred to another branch.

The second affair...I was the 'victim' hunted by this colleague from the head office who met me during a short training session. Nothing yet until she was transferred to the same building and we became neighbours. Embarrassingly she kept coming over to my office to chitchat. Background...she was married not too long ago, no kids yet, match-made marriage to someone from same kampong, husband busy businessman. Sex was conservative 'wham bang, goodnight ma'am' type with no foreplay. She claimed she didn't know what was organism! Our office chat progressed to long phone chat after office hours whilst I was still in the office and she at home. I became her sex guru, phone sex teaching her to masturbate and experience organism. So from plutonic sex desire for physical sex was the natural progression. How? She will go shopping after work and wait for my office colleagues to leave before coming to my office. We would lock up switch off the lights and have our tryst. Even brought me to her home one Saturday to fuck on her marital bed with her wedding photo starring down at me! Ended when she quit her job to follow her Husband to China. Later she even got me into one of her husband's company but by then she was a Mother of 3 and we agreed to let bygones be bygones. Strange to look at the MD and to know I fucked your wife.

Third was this syt subordinate who was recruited as a part-time sales assistant in a different company from above stories. She was a Malaysian working part-time during weekends and evenings. Capable and hardworking I recruited her to be a full time supervisor and some how I knew I wanted to fuck her one day. She was 20 and I was double her age then. Took over 2 years of grooming when it finally happened. It was her birthday and I bought her a huge bouquet of red roses, drove her to quiet park to present it to her. We were close but not intimate yet. Somehow she knew I was wooing her but from a conservative family she knew it was wrong to be with a married man and her parents would kill her if they knew! There and then she told me we could never be in a relationship and she would never want to be the 3rd party to breakup a family.


We were both very emotional and tears even flowed. But somehow I felt it was now or never. I leaned over (in the car) and kissed her passionately and slowly she responded and my hand roamed to her breast, I buttoned her blouse to reached in...kissed her breast and sucked on her nipple. Guess what? She came had an orgasm, first time I encountered someone who could climax from nip being sucked! That cemented our relationship and we became a couple. Our affair lasted over 25 years! She never married neither did she wanted me to divorce and be with her. But all good things must come to an end when my Wife retired and I no longer have any opportunity to go meet her. I still love her deeply and appreciate all the sacrifices she made to forgo having a family (she even had to undergo an abortion). Still in contact with her, perhaps if I am lucky one day...

There were also the misses...a single Property Agent, but she would have want me to leave my family. A married lawyer, too high maintenance. A client, Wife of a businessman, who even took me to view an empty property belonging to her family. But it was not a convenient opportunity.

So there you are sometimes the forbidden fruits are the sweetest.

I have similar experience of Malaysian ladies not wanting more but just wanting to cling on to you without status and just wanting to see and make you happy.

[UncleHasBeen]

@yang punk aka Grandpahasbeen

Thanks for your sharing.
I hope those who are reading can take it all in and strive for those forbidden fruits when they are ripe for the plucking.

[AmpedUp]

Originally Posted by dwog1

I have similar experience of Malaysian ladies not wanting more but just wanting to cling on to you without status and just wanting to see and make you happy.

They seem much more happier with a simple life