How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[ahpui99]

Hi Guys,

I send a PM to warbird to show my appreciation for his insights. Just wanted to share with you guys that I have been sending extracts of his articles to my friends. Even seasoned bros are speechless how good he is.

Have I been KCed before? Yes, be it singapore or china. Luck saved me previously but cannot always depend on it.

Certain articles like maintaining self- control and the important DGAD attitude allows us to play without screwing up your mind. I still am trying to figure out how to make the girls addicted to me. Haha.

Bro, hope your insights are either blogged or can be searched. Cos i really learned a lot. Quit smoking recently so my mind is not as strong as it used to be.

[NotMyRealName]

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Hi Guys,

I send a PM to warbird to show my appreciation for his insights. Just wanted to share with you guys that I have been sending extracts of his articles to my friends. Even seasoned bros are speechless how good he is.

Have I been KCed before? Yes, be it singapore or china. Luck saved me previously but cannot always depend on it.

Certain articles like maintaining self- control and the important DGAD attitude allows us to play without screwing up your mind. I still am trying to figure out how to make the girls addicted to me. Haha.

Bro, hope your insights are either blogged or can be searched. Cos i really learned a lot. Quit smoking recently so my mind is not as strong as it used to be.

Yeah, bro WB and others have shared their experiences, it's good to learn from each other since the girls also learn from each other (from relatives - 表姐妹堂姐妹，好朋友etc). I usually don't try those girls who has their close relatives or good friends here in Singapore because they always consult and come back with more thought-out demands or tests. hehe.

If you can share your experiences, others will take their lessons learnt from it too.

Don't try too hard on any particular girl. After you try your chances on others, your chances go up. You keep trying one, your chances goes low very fast, as the girl don't like clingy guy, or they like to milk clingy guy while they look around.

[ahpui99]

Originally Posted by NotMyRealName

Yeah, bro WB and others have shared their experiences, it's good to learn from each other since the girls also learn from each other (from relatives - 表姐妹堂姐妹，好朋友etc). I usually don't try those girls who has their close relatives or good friends here in Singapore because they always consult and come back with more thought-out demands or tests. hehe.

If you can share your experiences, others will take their lessons learnt from it too.

Don't try too hard on any particular girl. After you try your chances on others, your chances go up. You keep trying one, your chances goes low very fast, as the girl don't like clingy guy, or they like to milk clingy guy while they look around.

I agree on the clingy part. Been guilty before or have seen bros who did the same.

Think when i bo chap the girl, she starts calling. When i try to be nice, she take me for granted.
it is a tough playground we are in

[warbird]

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Thanks warbird


Been closely following your posts. You are the man

Thanks for ur support.

Originally Posted by merrygoround

great sharing warbird bro..

Pleasure is all mine.

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Hi Guys,

I send a PM to warbird to show my appreciation for his insights. Just wanted to share with you guys that I have been sending extracts of his articles to my friends. Even seasoned bros are speechless how good he is.

Have I been KCed before? Yes, be it singapore or china. Luck saved me previously but cannot always depend on it.

Certain articles like maintaining self- control and the important DGAD attitude allows us to play without screwing up your mind. I still am trying to figure out how to make the girls addicted to me. Haha.

Bro, hope your insights are either blogged or can be searched. Cos i really learned a lot. Quit smoking recently so my mind is not as strong as it used to be.

Hi bro ahpui99,

Your flattering words make me speechless...

You're spot on. Self control and DGAD attitude is THE SECRET that separates the men from the boys.

Making girls emotionally and sexually addicted is a arduous process. Be careful, don't get addicted yourself.

Originally Posted by defendercourt

yeah true...learn a lot

I hv learnt a lot too.

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Good morning!

"It's not the shortness that's the problem. It's the LACK OF
CONFIDENCE that the shortness produces in the man
that's the problem."

Put in another way, It's not 'shortness' or any other self perceived shortcomings (in looks, weight, age, physical defects, educational level, intelligence, financial and social status, ethnic group, creed, nationality, etc) that's the problem. It's the lack of confidence that the self perceived shortcoming produces in the man that's the problem.

The big scar between actor Joaquin Phoenix's lip and nose is obvious. Many men w/ such defect will be shy and withdrawn.That would be a big problem.

Take a look at two other celebrities: Nick Vujicic n Sean Stephenson. Quite amazing.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Good morning!

I received an e-mail from a RS guru yesterday. Although the topic is not directly related to this thread, it's a problem many of us will face, sooner or later. It's a situation which may arise in any long-term male-female RS, whether the gal/woman is a spouse, GF, lao po or mistress, etc.

"What To Do If You Get A Girlfriend But "The Grass Is Greener" Elsewhere‏"

Mr Guru,

I need to ask you a question.

I am in a VERY happy relationship. I am going to get engaged very
soon. But in my day-to-day encounters I do work with or interact
with attractive and cool women.

Since I work in a large group, there are some people at my
workplace that I don't see on a daily basis but enough to have
regular conversations.

I have an ongoing dilemma on how to deal with particular women at
work.

Take for example a girl named Christina I work with.

She is super cool and very attractive. But if I continue to
interact with her, inevitably I will end up wanting to get to know
her more, get a big crush on her, and maybe even starting thinking,
"Man, the grass might be greener here."

Maybe this is just a man's tendency to want variety. As I said, I
love my g/f dearly, so it's not secondary to unhappiness with my g/f.

So I can pursue a stronger friendship / more interaction with
Christina at work, because I am physically and personality wise
attracted to her...but at risk of torturing myself since I will
fall for her but not do anything about it (the ultimate masochism).

Or worst-case scenario I'll fall for her so hard that I compromise
my relationship with my g/f.

This Christina girl is just one example....as there have been many
Christinas in the past who I usually end up AVOIDING to not create
drama in my life.

What do you think?


XX (Chicago, IL)



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Thanks for the great e-mail, Bro XX.

So why is it that women named "Christina" always seem to be hotties?

Here's the cold hard fact of the matter: If you are still gazing
at "greener pastures", you're either not ready to get married
because there is more left to be done in your dating life, more
deep-thinking ahead first, or because you *could* be settling.

I hear you telling me that you have a great relationship with a
woman whom you intend to marry, and that you couldn't be happier.

And I greatly admire your discipline with regard to not wanting to
compromise that relationship in any way. Big ups for that.

But YOUR genuine concern over the possibility of being drawn away
by another woman concerns ME also.

Taking your message to me at face value, I'm pretty sure that if
you were able to make the "Christinas" of the world a "non-issue",
then you would be an even happier man than you may now even realize
is possible.

Some will be quick to say this is an "unrealistic" explanation.

But much like, "you can never understand women", such is the battle
cry of those who SETTLE.

When you've met the one who wins your heart forever, other women
will melt into the background insofar as any real desire for
romantic involvement is concerned.

Hang with me here and I'll show you what I mean by that.

This does NOT mean that no other women are ever going to be
attractive or endearing to you ever again. And you *can* acquire the
skill set of enjoying femininity without requiring sexual
fulfillment to come from it, by the way.

(And that is REALLY COOL, opening the doors wide-open to GREATLY
ENHANCED day-to-day interactions.)

What it DOES mean is that you never, EVER second-guess the decision
you made to be with one woman, because you always keep the
perspective of having been through the dating process and having
made your decision from a position of ABSOLUTE STRENGTH and a
WEALTH OF EXPERIENCE.

The greatest woman you've ever met--your "100 out of 100"--will
literally COMPEL you to cut ties with the other women you've been
seeing until then.

No kidding, man. I wouldn't have believed it myself five years ago.

And there's no compromise when that happens. No "giving away your
manhood", "sacrificing your freedom" or anything negative at all,
really. It will have been YOUR decision...and a GOOD one.

And you'll be able to tuck away that definitive notion for safe
keeping over the long-haul, no matter how many hotties catch your
eye over the years to come.

I have to be honest with you here though Bro XX.

My first thought after reading your message was that if you REALLY
believe Christina might possibly be the kind of woman who could be
better for you than your current girlfriend, then perhaps you
haven't "raised the bar" high enough just yet as far as the person
you are going to spend the rest of your life with successfully.

If that doesn't resonate with you, and you are indeed firmly
convinced that your current girlfriend is the greatest woman you've
ever met, then so be it.

Nonetheless, If you ARE second guessing yourself on the possibility
of being sexually drawn to other women such that it would
compromise your current relationship, it's time for some hard
consideration.

The questions to ask yourself include:


1) Are you comparing your girlfriend to someone you don't know as
well?

This is always a loser of an idea. There's too much opportunity
for idealism there. I can't tell you how many guys blow a
long-term relationship for a fling with a new chick only to wonder
what they've done when she quickly falls short of expectations as
he "gets to know her better".



2) Have you really dated enough women to know EXACTLY who you're
looking for?

Your girlfriend MAY BE the greatest woman in the world for you.
But unless you have a firm grasp of what you want, you'll never
really know if you've found it.



3) Is it YOUR DECISION to get married?

Do you WANT to get married, or do you simply fear losing a great
woman? Are you DONE dating, or does the timing feel a bit premature?



Please know that you may indeed be able to resolve all of these
questions VERY successfully vis-à-vis your current relationship.

If so, I imagine your resolve will be rock-solid going forward.

If not, you may be frustrated now (as may she), but take it from
the guy who has been in front of a judge before and paid the
divorce lawyer richly for my trouble.

It's like the old Fram Oil Filter commercial: "You can pay now, or
you can pay later".


Be Good,

Mr Guru

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Hi Gang,

Think twice before u get hitched. Never settle for a girl/woman out of pity, family pressure or obligations. Never ever settle period.

Mr Guru is a puritan! I hv a spouse, a long-term mistress n I still do shorter term BYs n eat outside regularly haha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[KhunnTey]

this thread is HAPPENING!

[deathnitez]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

Hi Gang,

Think twice before u get hitched. Never settle for a girl/woman out of pity, family pressure or obligations. Never ever settle period.

Mr Guru is a puritan! I hv a spouse, a long-term mistress n I still do shorter term BYs n eat outside regularly haha.

Cheers!

Bro WB

This phrase i agreed never ever settle down with a girl out of pity or family pressure etc

[saabking]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro,

Have a great time.

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Good morning!

Two of my mistresses and several potential GFs hv seen the new movie 北京遇上西雅图 (2013) n they love the movie, love the 2 protagonists n, best of all, they love Seattle.


Seattle is a romantic city. It's scenic n air quality is very good, unlike Beijing.

Here is a review of the movie: http://baike.baidu.com/view/9804845.htm

I'll try to watch it. My lao po said she would like to watch it again w/ me. I think it's not available yet in SG.

Has any bros seen the movie? Your comments?

Cheers!

Bro WB

The movie is a bit draggy - 2hrs...the exciting part was the Croc Hermes on X'mas Eve.

But I think the Tiong can really relate to the story and the whole the grass is greener on the other side as well as the Seattle romantic city, great American dream myth.

Just my two cents worth.

[Ladyrain]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

This phrase i agreed never ever settle down with a girl out of pity or family pressure etc

Never ever settle for anything less.
Period.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

This phrase i agreed never ever settle down with a girl out of pity or family pressure etc

Also, never ever settle for less than you deserve because you're afraid that nothing better will come along.

Originally Posted by saabking

The movie is a bit draggy - 2hrs...the exciting part was the Croc Hermes on X'mas Eve.

But I think the Tiong can really relate to the story and the whole the grass is greener on the other side as well as the Seattle romantic city, great American dream myth.

Just my two cents worth.

Thanks for sharing ur review.

Originally Posted by Ladyrain

Never ever settle for anything less.
Period.

I couldn't agree w/ u more.

“The only real failure in life is not to be true to the best one knows.”

Cheers!

Bro WB

[deathnitez]

Thanks WB like this 2 advice you give lol you the man lol

[warbird]

Originally Posted by deathnitez

Thanks WB like this 2 advice you give lol you the man lol

Bro deathnitez,

You make my day!

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Good Afternoon!

I hv some musings on the subject of cheonging n BY-ing.

In the last 6 months I hv had difficulty maintaining an erection whenever I put on CD. I feel very little, even w/ the thinnest ones.

However, I hv had no problems at all when I do raw w/ my long term mistresses. As a result I hv done fewer ST or short term BY.

I suspect that many bros hv similar problem w/ CD.

A word of warning. Doing raw w/ any girl/woman carries some risks even if she is ur spouse. Sadly, over 50% of legal wives cheat. Nothing in this world is 100% foolproof. I do advise testing her n yourself w/ Oraquick for HIV every 2 months.

Your wife/spouse/mistress/GF/lover will be much less inclined to cheat if she is sexually addicted to u. And the best way to get her addicted is to give her regular penetrative vaginal orgasms PVOs. I hv alluded to this fact in the past.

A woman will feel empty n discontented if she doesn't experience regular PVOs, often w/o knowing the cause herself. It's all in her subconscious mind.

The other day I just received the following newsletter related to this vital subject from a guru..

I don't agree w/ the guru that it takes at least 20 min to give a woman PVOs. if you can prime the pump by giving her clitoral n/or G spot orgasms using ur fingers, tongue, etc. first, lasting 10 min is more than sufficient.

I also don't agree that if u can't get give ur woman regular PVOs she can never be really attracted to u. Or that she will never love or be addicted to u. In the short term, say a few yrs, she can be addicted to u n love u.

BUT, in longer term, she will lose her love or addiction for u IF you can't give her regular PVOs. It's a CERTAINTY.

Here is what he sent me:

Hi Bro Warbird,

Sex Secret # 1: Oral Sex Alone Is Never Enough To Truly Please A Woman!

A lot of guys think that going down on a girl is the best way to make her happy in bed.
I know, because I used to be one of these guys
But now, after having been with a whole lot of women, I can tell you that is absolutely FALSE.
Sure, girls like a guy who knows how to go down... but if you REALLY want to blow her mind, you've gotta first rock her BODY...
And the way to do that is through good ole' fashioned penetration sex!
You probably already know that women are biologically programmed to want penetration from a man... the same way we are programmed to want to penetrate a woman.
But what most guys DON'T know is this:

The orgasms a woman gets from penetration sex are literally TEN TIMES as intense and powerful as any orgasm she can get by any other means!

Ask any woman and she'll tell you... no tongue or vibrator will ever replace her craving to have a man inside of her.
But here's what's REALLY crazy...

Sex Secret #2: Women Don't Just LOVE Penetration Orgasms... They Actually Need Them!

Here's another CRAZY secret most guys don't know...
When you have sex with a woman, a special chemical is released in her brain that tells her whether or not you are a good mate.
I'm no scientist and I cannot spell the name but I do know the more of this chemical that is released, the more she becomes attracted to you.
If you ejaculate too quickly, her brain doesn't have time to register that she is having sex, and nothing happens.
On the other hand, if you last long enough to give her a penetration orgasm, her brain is literally FLOODED with this chemical!
She immediately becomes sexually addicted to you... and sees you as "the one" for her.
Women NEED this chemical in order to tell if a guy is the right mate... and if you can't give her a penetration orgasm, she's not gonna get it.
The next secret I had to learn the hard way...

Sex Secret # 3: If You CAN'T Give A Woman A Penetration Orgasm, She Can Never REALLY Be Attracted To You!

Because of this biological need a woman has for penetration orgasms... if a guy can't give her one, she begins to see him as less of a man.
This is ESPECIALLY TRUE if a guy she was with before you was good in bed...
When this happens, she starts to worry she is with the wrong man... and thinks about going back to her ex, or finding a new guy.
The BUMMER is that this happens no matter how perfect you are for her in every other way!
No matter how well your personalities click, and no matter how much fun you have together, if you're not giving a woman orgasms from actual penetration sex, her brain subconsciously tells her to find someone who will.
I learned this the hard way when a girl I was in love with cheated on me and then left me for another guy.
It wasn't until many years later I figured out what the problem was (I'll explain in a minute)... but first, get this...

Sex Secret # 4: Giving A Woman A Penetration Orgasm Can Actually Be Easy...

A lot of men make the mistake of thinking they need to be "huge", or know some kind of special technique to give a woman a penetration orgasm.
NOT TRUE.
All it takes is a firm, steady motion... and being able to last at least 20 minutes in bed.
It has NOTHING to do with your size, and your technique isn't that important either.
All that's important is that you can LAST LONG ENOUGH for her to have one!
Women aren't like us men. I know you've heard that women like a lot of foreplay. That's true. Because everything takes longer for a woman.
It takes longer for her to get warmed up and ready for sex... and it takes longer for her to get off.
Let me say this in a different way:
It doesn't take "tricks" to give your girl a penetration orgasm... but it does take TIME.
But... once you go the distance, it happens by itself!
I know what you're thinking. If you're like I used to be, lasting 20 minutes seems like an eternity in bed...
I used to be lucky if I lasted 2 minutes .................

Mr. Guru

[ahpui99]

Hello warbird


Thank you for your post。
What about foreplay? Is it part of the 20 mins?

Also this feeling is just from penetrative sex?

Cheers

[warbird]

Originally Posted by ahpui99

Hello warbird

Thank you for your post。
What about foreplay? Is it part of the 20 mins?

Also this feeling is just from penetrative sex?

Cheers

Hi bro ahpui99,

No, foreplay is not part of the 20 min.

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Good morning!

What is foreplay?

Some RS masters hv mentioned that 'foreplay' begins the second you meet the gal of ur type for the very first time n is a continuous process...

But for most men, foreplay begins inside the bedroom n includes hugging, touching, massaging, kissing n using the fingers, mouth n tongue to give the gal clitoral n g spot orgasms a few times. It will take abt 25-30 min. This should be followed by penetrative vaginal sex for 10-15 min, so that she will experience continuous orgasms. Longer than 20 min is not necessary.

While you r eating her pussy, you could use a finger to stimulate her ass. It will double her pleasure. You may also feel rhythmic contractions of her anal sphincters which is an objective sign of orgasm.

BTW, in a longer term RS, every healthy gal secretly wants u to eat her pussy n tickle her ass. Once she is comfortable w/ u playing her ass, you could easily do AJ on her, if u want to. I hv little interest in AJ though.

Regular PVOs is most satisfying physically, psychologically n emotionally for a gal/woman. There is no substitute in a long term RS, IMHO.

Your comments n criticisms will be appreciated.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[PowerTAN_P_W]

perhaps it's time for Power Tan to walk outside KTV and enjoy having all the pretty PRC ladies looking at me.

Rgds,
Ah Wee