Grabhitch

[seventynine]

Originally Posted by nicktiger

and i hope you could be honest with your hubby. if i was him, i would rather to know truth.

The Truth Hurts.

It can cause an immediate & irreversible change of heart i.e a breakup or divorce.
Also, what's the point of knowing? What can you do about it after knowing?
Become more skeptical and possessive to the extend that she can't take it anymore and leave you?

I think the only benefit of knowing The Truth in a relationship is if you are unfortunate enough to be in a KC Trap.
The Truth will set you free, after it wake you up from the lies by the '老婆', teerak, em yêu and so on

In life, certain things are better left unsaid and taken to the grave.
Regardless you're a Nice Guy or Bad Boy

[babyeyes]

nice story, Camping for more.

[sexcision]

Originally Posted by seventynine

The Truth Hurts.

It can cause an immediate & irreversible change of heart i.e a breakup or divorce.
Also, what's the point of knowing? What can you do about it after knowing?
Become more skeptical and possessive to the extend that she can't take it anymore and leave you?

I think the only benefit of knowing The Truth in a relationship is if you are unfortunate enough to be in a KC Trap.
The Truth will set you free, after it wake you up from the lies by the '老婆', teerak, em yêu and so on

In life, certain things are better left unsaid and taken to the grave.
Regardless you're a Nice Guy or Bad Boy

Fully agree with you bro, something are better left secret.

Aside from that yying, you previously mentioned that ur hubby had given you warning previously.
Can explain what have u done and got caught by hubby? Damn curious lol!

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by yying

I don't think I can totally come clean with him on such stuff, ignorance is also a blessing

I can understand your position since you have chosen to be with your husband

telling him could change everything. it could break and damage the relationship forever

although I attest to the fact that its a love hate thingy for guys cheated on. They want to know but hate the fact they know.

[nicktiger]

Originally Posted by yying

I don't think I can totally come clean with him on such stuff, ignorance is also a blessing

if i were you i dont think i would be able to do so too, i respect your decision.

i wish that you and your hubby will have a loving relationship and hope that he never finds out about it.

please do continue your story, its really a great one.

Just a gentle reminder you are a great wife.

[nicktiger]

Originally Posted by seventynine

The Truth Hurts.

It can cause an immediate & irreversible change of heart i.e a breakup or divorce.
Also, what's the point of knowing? What can you do about it after knowing?
Become more skeptical and possessive to the extend that she can't take it anymore and leave you?

I think the only benefit of knowing The Truth in a relationship is if you are unfortunate enough to be in a KC Trap.
The Truth will set you free, after it wake you up from the lies by the '老婆', teerak, em yêu and so on

In life, certain things are better left unsaid and taken to the grave.
Regardless you're a Nice Guy or Bad Boy

yes the truth hurts and it will force an undesirable outcome, but lets say you were the one being cheated on.

would you want to know what is going on?

loving someone isnt easy, why love someone who does not appreciate it ?

i hope my words dont piss you off, just treat this as a normal discussion yea....

[babyeyes]

Originally Posted by seventynine

The ending is an epitome of: 男人多情而长情, 女人专情而绝情.
"Men tend to have feelings for many women because they are sentimental.
Women tend to be faithful because they can be heartless"

不在乎天长地久, 只在乎曾经拥有

Nice meaningfull....

[Amplus]

Originally Posted by nicktiger

yes the truth hurts and it will force an undesirable outcome, but lets say you were the one being cheated on.

would you want to know what is going on?

loving someone isnt easy, why love someone who does not appreciate it ?

i hope my words dont piss you off, just treat this as a normal discussion yea....

No worries

[seventynine]

Originally Posted by nicktiger

yes the truth hurts and it will force an undesirable outcome, but lets say you were the one being cheated on.

would you want to know what is going on?

loving someone isnt easy, why love someone who does not appreciate it ?

i hope my words dont piss you off, just treat this as a normal discussion yea....

Haha, no offence taken definitely

As mentioned by others here, it's human nature to be curious and would want to know.
But asking her about it does not guarantee receiving the truth.
Worse, she might 恼羞成怒 and call for a break-up/ divorce with you even though it was really just a casual fling in a moment of weakness or folly.

As one saying goes: Act blur live longer.
Jolin Tsai says the same thing in this song too

[yying]

Originally Posted by sexcision

Fully agree with you bro, something are better left secret.

Aside from that yying, you previously mentioned that ur hubby had given you warning previously.
Can explain what have u done and got caught by hubby? Damn curious lol!

They were the darkest moments in my life. Don't think I want to recall them

[yying]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I can understand your position since you have chosen to be with your husband

telling him could change everything. it could break and damage the relationship forever

although I attest to the fact that its a love hate thingy for guys cheated on. They want to know but hate the fact they know.

Divorce is never in my dictionary

[yying]

Originally Posted by nicktiger

if i were you i dont think i would be able to do so too, i respect your decision.

i wish that you and your hubby will have a loving relationship and hope that he never finds out about it.

please do continue your story, its really a great one.

Just a gentle reminder you are a great wife.

Thanks for your thoughtful wishes

[yying]

Originally Posted by seventynine

As one saying goes: Act blur live longer.
Jolin Tsai says the same thing in this song too

I like this song

[yying]

(Short updates for today, hand aching )

Back at home
Thank goodness, I managed to exercise self control. Otherwise I could imagine that we would have probably make out at Mount Faber or in the car. I was captivated by kk's charm but I did not want to be direct with him. In my heart, i secretly wish to stay in contact with him. I decided to bake to distract myself since it requires a certain level of focus. Yes, I have weird habits as well.

I undressed since I was still feeling the heat, threw my blouse, bra and skirt on the floor. Contemplating whether I should shower first or later. I decided I should bake first. I went to my kitchen and put on my apron. As I wanted to adjust the apron, I walked to my living room as we have full length mirrors on the walls. While tying a knot behind my waist, through the mirror, I could see my nipples protruding, side boobs and butt exposing. I was pretty aroused admiring myself, bloody self indulgence, I admitted. I went back to the kitchen, washed my hands and started to prepare the ingredients for the madeleines. I always love those dainty cakes. It was my first time baking naked with only an apron over me. I wished that my male neighbours would noticed me, yes I know I'm crazy.

In the midst of preparation, I received an incoming call. Not my hubby's ringtone, probably could be kk. I was right. It was kk, he asked how I was feeling and I told him I was preparing madeleines. He sounded excited and he wanted to try them. I told him I could give him a treat for breakfast next morning.

He suggested to use FaceTime since he was still on his way home. The wild side of me agreed. We changed our communication to FaceTime.
His first reaction was: "wtf!...."

[stole]

Nice story sis!