Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[sladang]

Originally Posted by sexyback

If really fall in love, hard to keep a clear mind.

And the so called fall in love is oni a one-sided feeling from the chiongster, not the massage girl ..

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sexyback

If really fall in love, hard to keep a clear mind.

always doubting her commitment, suspecting two timing, overthinking what happen inside tge massage room & worrying someone snatching her away?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sladang

And the so called fall in love is oni a one-sided feeling from the chiongster, not the massage girl ..

massage girl will also fall in love. Especially when they thought they found a guy who can give them better future. Sometime they also one-sided feeling for loving a player who dump them after unlocking.

They ML i seeing, she kana once before she met me. Then she also nearly fall in love with another 'fake single' player who come in flashy cars, tell sad stories and give big tips.

[JasmineJ]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

massage girl will also fall in love. Especially when they thought they found a guy who can give them better future. Sometime they also one-sided feeling for loving a player who dump them after unlocking.

They ML i seeing, she kana once before she met me. Then she also nearly fall in love with another 'fake single' player who come in flashy cars, tell sad stories and give big tips.

totally spot on bro..they term them as 画大饼.

There are ML who want to con us SG guys but similarly, there are also many SG guys who wanna do the same to them..hahaha

[Wee0502]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

How it boost your ego when you know she BS you?
So did you reward her more when it boost your ego?

For my case, I never go out with any ML other than the one and only I having relationship with.
When she say she never meet customer during off day, I believe leh.
Only for one time a customer ask her out for supper after work, she let me know. Other than this one time, she never go out with anyone for supper, I also believe leh.

The only time when I suspect is when we having big argument and cold war for 4 days. During that period, see her post some food photos, I texted her wishing her happy eating with customer. I kana f-ed by her, then I notice those photos were taken during one of the many meals we had together.

Now I change my mind. I realise it is much more cost efficient for me to just keep engaging them for full jobs rather than going out. As long as you patron many times per month, they will become more and more attach to you, regardless of whether you go out with them or not.

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by sladang

And the so called fall in love is oni a one-sided feeling from the chiongster, not the massage girl ..

I too am having a relationship now. Just how you define one sided feeling? Does she tell you honestly everything? Be it customer want to date her, give her gifts, want to marry her etc? Does she only want to spend her off days with you? If when with her and you can feel the 恋爱 feeling, then I suppose should be both also fall in love.

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

always doubting her commitment, suspecting two timing, overthinking what happen inside tge massage room & worrying someone snatching her away?

Yes I will have all these thinking initially. But now we are into our 6 months together, she always ensure me I am her only man and she only love me now. So I take it with a pinch of salt la.

[xjackx]

Originally Posted by sexyback

Yes I will have all these thinking initially. But now we are into our 6 months together, she always ensure me I am her only man and she only love me now. So I take it with a pinch of salt la.

hmm which shop she's working at, i'm sure bros here would enlighten you

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by JasmineJ

totally spot on bro..they term them as 画大饼.

There are ML who want to con us SG guys but similarly, there are also many SG guys who wanna do the same to them..hahaha

画大饼 is what I always do during younger days to hook up many viet ladies from pubs

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Wee0502

Now I change my mind. I realise it is much more cost efficient for me to just keep engaging them for full jobs rather than going out. As long as you patron many times per month, they will become more and more attach to you, regardless of whether you go out with them or not.

FL providing fj already so no point bring them out to KC them as nothing much more to unlock.

If after unlock ML for fj and you only continue patronise them just for fj than it becomes very transactional. The temptation for you to continue will diminish. It may also come to a point where the ML don't want provide fj anymore because after all they are ML. Maybe they get too attached and see it brings them no where, they will stop provide fj. So for ML, there is still a need to bring them out so as to keep the fire burning.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by sexyback

I too am having a relationship now.

If when with her and you can feel the 恋爱 feeling, then I suppose should be both also fall in love.

You are the one in a relationship and enjoying the process of 恋爱 with your ML. So its you who know best how she feel.

Everyone sees a ML differently. Different people has different experience.
But truthfully, high % of ML are high hand in the game of relationship.

Originally Posted by sexyback

Yes I will have all these thinking initially. But now we are into our 6 months together, she always ensure me I am her only man and she only love me now. So I take it with a pinch of salt la.

So you are gaining the upper hand in this relationship now yah.

my relationship with the ML is temporary suspended since she went back to her country. Maybe will resume or maybe not when she return back to work. in fact when she left, although its feel like I am missing her or the daily chores of meeting her, I am much relief now with more concentration on my family.

[sladang]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

But truthfully, high % of ML are high hand in the game of relationship.

男人可以用一句话骗到女人的一夜
女人可以用一句话骗到男人的一生

So if guys still think u are smarter than them, think again ..

[StealthBomber]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

FL providing fj already so no point bring them out to KC them as nothing much more to unlock.

If after unlock ML for fj and you only continue patronise them just for fj than it becomes very transactional. The temptation for you to continue will diminish. It may also come to a point where the ML don't want provide fj anymore because after all they are ML. Maybe they get too attached and see it brings them no where, they will stop provide fj. So for ML, there is still a need to bring them out so as to keep the fire burning.

I agree that it becomes very transaction based, once you pay for the fj, chances of building a normal relationship is gone. You are just a customer. ML also knows no prospect and going nowhere if they know you are married family man. In fact those with any decency will try not to get involved and disturb your family life.

The ml I am banging almost weekly now also never sends me any ad or greeting or festive wishes , despite our special arrangement, because as she said don't want to disturb my private time and accidentally trigger ww3