Is there true love between us and PRC WL

[Ibonk]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

maybe.. I was sticky because she was sick and very moody so I wanted to be there when she needs me... because she felt she started needing me more, she started to push me away...

which is y we are waiting for her to go back ZH before we see if we should really go steady and serious.

My biggest complaint to her is that she refuses to share with me her problems sometimes... and worry to much about me so much till last week she tried to "HEN XIN" and tell me she got no feelings for me and that everything was a lie...

After our quarrel, then she broke down and admitted she is very stressed over our r/s as she is frightened of letting me down.

Eyes, ears all open now but I am keeping my heart partially closed till she makes up her mind.

Good luck to you too.

Sometimes in a relationship, i personally feel that we should learn to take a step back. By taking a step back sometimes, we actually make space for growth. Bro, u understand the phase " 以退为进"?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

WOW bro you are STICKY haha

if i was her i would feel the same way . . you're too much too soon

you gone overboard bro . . .ease back
great of have those feelings about her . .but dun her scare away

she's a young girl, but now you're smothering her with all sorts of FUTURE . . . love, house, happiness . . . no wonder she has doubts about herself

but stick with her . . .she by having doubts she's bothering to care whether she deliver/can live up to your HIGH expcectations of her and of both of u together

why not try NOT talking about the future at all . . .let the future come by itself. . .it will arrive here naturally. . .like u v alreday said before . . go back home and THEN see what happens after where live is normal. .

just attend to her everyday issues for now . . nothing about the future

you really gone case . . .ease up

Aiyoh.. what to do... me broke up with SG GF to be with her whoa.. that's why she stressed..

Now, I tink the best is to cool down.. like you said. One step at a time

Concentrate on helping her get home 1st. Rest will come later

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[PeteTsang69]

[QUOTE=aczeta76;2694202]Aiyoh.. what to do... me broke up with SG GF to be with her whoa.. that's why she stressed..
Now, I tink the best is to cool down.. like you said. One step at a time
QUOTE]

WOW bro you full of surprises . . .that's truly commitment . . .

Confirm you gone case

[aczeta76]

[QUOTE=PeteTsang69;2694265]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Aiyoh.. what to do... me broke up with SG GF to be with her whoa.. that's why she stressed..
Now, I tink the best is to cool down.. like you said. One step at a time
QUOTE]

WOW bro you full of surprises . . .that's truly commitment . . .

Confirm you gone case

Thank hoh... I ask her if she was willing to HUO CHU QU like me and give it a shot, she said YES so I cannot be two-timing mah...

Next thing, the next day change tone and said she dun like me at all and ask me to go back to my SG GF...

Next day, I told her no chance to reconcile between me and my GF then she diam diam and after a while acting tough, call me and said she was lying before about not having feelings. No commitments now but we can try when she returns to ZH.

Now she blow hot and cold again... last 2 days refuse to see me or answer my SMS. So now I wait for her to response loh.. ball in her court.

That's WHY I was so pissed off today and wanted to get it over once and for all and get her to hate me.

SIGHzzzz...

[PeteTsang69]

[QUOTE=aczeta76;2694276]

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

Now she blow hot and cold again... last 2 days refuse to see me or answer my SMS. So now I wait for her to response loh.. ball in her court. That's WHY I was so pissed off today and wanted to get it over once and for all and get her to hate me.SIGHzzzz...

Bro . . dun know whether to laugh or cry

u no need to go china to make money
stay here write dramedy for tcs . . sure make fortune . .

[aczeta76]

[QUOTE=PeteTsang69;2694291]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Bro . . dun know whether to laugh or cry

u no need to go china to make money
stay here write dramedy for tcs . . sure make fortune . .

Glad u find it funny... hahaha... I am trying to learn to take it like that too..

But making money is impt for everyone lah, with or without a MM or GF

I had made promise that if one day 4 or 5 years down the road, if whoever she has chosen betrays her or if she needs help, I will help her

So muz earn more now.. for better or worse.

[PeteTsang69]

[QUOTE=aczeta76;2694298]
I had made promise that if one day 4 or 5 years down the road, if whoever she has chosen betrays her or if she needs help, I will help her
QUOTE]

Sorry bro . . .pls dun take offence, really
. . dun know if its just this girl .. .or all of your GF's
but u really OTT

u really know how to smother her . . .make so many future scenarios
u really really must be taken by her . . .

pls dun tell us any more . . .can't take it
next u'll say that u told her, if you break any promises made to her u'll jump into the sea . . .

[aczeta76]

[QUOTE=PeteTsang69;2694400]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I had made promise that if one day 4 or 5 years down the road, if whoever she has chosen betrays her or if she needs help, I will help her
QUOTE]

Sorry bro . . .pls dun take offence, really
. . dun know if its just this girl .. .or all of your GF's
but u really OTT

u really know how to smother her . . .make so many future scenarios
u really really must be taken by her . . .

pls dun tell us any more . . .can't take it
next u'll say that u told her, if you break any promises made to her u'll jump into the sea . . .

She insecure then mah.. always ask me for "Chen Nuo" so I give and give loh...

Still dun know wat I see in her.. if it is sianren's XP, I understand as she is a gem... now looking at her photos still makes me miss her.

This GF, no figure and not very pretty which is why XP and this GF both dun understand why... hence insecurity on their end loh..

hahaha.. But i will not jump into the sea as that means I will not be around to take care of her anymore.

Juz brought dad to see doctor, he old liao so I also bo pian else sure go china loh

[colins]

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

...next u'll say that u told her, if you break any promises made to her u'll jump into the sea . . .

hahahaha.....and zhuhai has plenty of that!

Really, bro aczeta, you a bit over the top. I think once your problem is solved, I will miss your stories. Real life some more. We've got to sit down and exchange stories, making me more and more curious as to how come you are falling so deep.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by colins

hahahaha.....and zhuhai has plenty of that!

Really, bro aczeta, you a bit over the top. I think once your problem is solved, I will miss your stories. Real life some more. We've got to sit down and exchange stories, making me more and more curious as to how come you are falling so deep.

Dun suan me lah... I was quite jialat the last few days... hengz now the distance between us help me cool down a little

I was chatting with Xiao Lu from the other thread today thru sms and she help me see some things into FL's life

爱上她是为了忘记你-- This is a good song

爱上她是为了忘了你 饶天亮
词曲：吴昊
演唱：饶天亮

爱上她是为了忘了你
还是害怕一个人孤寂
不敢想你就忘了自己
忘了伤忘了回忆

和你分手和她相遇
牵她的手想的是你
闭上双眼吻她的唇
却感觉是你的呼吸

以为她的甜言蜜语
能让我又找回自己
到最后醒来却发现
只是伤得更彻底

爱上她是为了忘了你
还是害怕一个人孤寂
不敢想你就忘了自己
忘了伤忘了回忆

爱上她是为了忘了你
还是渴望爱情的甜蜜
她的感情不能代替你
闭上眼想的是你
啦啦啦........

想忘掉你的微笑
和你身上的味道
既然忘你忘不了
爱上谁都是煎熬

忘了我忘不了你

[colins]

Hey, I just read this thread all over again from page 1 and boy, have we all evolved!

Bro, sorry do not mean to suan you, I also know you damn jialat. Picture this, you could have been a happy man looking forward to this weekend, can go Luna drink and see girls, hop to MOS dance like a madman, not happy still can go play pool, have supper in Geylang, walk down the road catch a CAT90 prc, or go BS NSH NBJ sian a WL and bring her out to family karaoke or back to MOS, whatever crazy things YOU should be doing.

Whats with it now? NO MOOD FOR LIM KOPI also. Come on dude, I am not talking wind language to you. When I was wallowing in my misery, even my mum come tell me the girl is not good, give her up. Does it matter if the girl is good? Of cos not! People concerned about you want you to be happy! How can I, or anyone else for that matter, give you encouragement for this?

These may be strong words and it'll only come out once. You did too much, tooooo much. If you like prc girls, I introduce super decent pretty career woman to you. Gam bo? If you want to expand to China, I introduce proper contacts to you until you happy. If you want to play, I'll bring friends along then we do crazy things you never thought of. Anything except gay stuff.

Sigh...you see my point? All these offers also not appealing to you right?

Get well soon, bro aczeta. Sorry for running that thru you.

[aczeta76]

Ya loh Colins,

No mood for anything now...Only forcing myself to work to keep my mind away from things.

Good things is that all human beings will adapt, unless we die so as time passes... scars may remain but the wound will harden and we will slowly move on..

[今天不回家]

Originally Posted by Ibonk

Sometimes in a relationship, i personally feel that we should learn to take a step back. By taking a step back sometimes, we actually make space for growth. Bro, u understand the phase " 以退为进"?

Bro Ibonk, you are absolutely right ...
Take a step back assess the situation and attack again

[FL Lover]

Originally Posted by colins

Hey, I just read this thread all over again from page 1 and boy, have we all evolved!

Bro, sorry do not mean to suan you, I also know you damn jialat. Picture this, you could have been a happy man looking forward to this weekend, can go Luna drink and see girls, hop to MOS dance like a madman, not happy still can go play pool, have supper in Geylang, walk down the road catch a CAT90 prc, or go BS NSH NBJ sian a WL and bring her out to family karaoke or back to MOS, whatever crazy things YOU should be doing.

Get well soon, bro aczeta. Sorry for running that thru you.

I think what the bro had said is correct. You are way fallen too deep into this RS. It takes two hand to clap in a RS. If you are not meant to be together in this life, that's fate. Time will help u to forget. But that does not mean it is the end of yor life.

I dont see why you want to shut yourself up while on the other hand she could be enjoying her life out there. I n fact, if you had spent more time enjoying outside, you proerly would have forget her more easily rather than staying at home, looking at photos and in the end, more misery for you.

Tio bo? I was in your state once but I overcome it. Ask yourself, Y should you be so depressed when she does not appreciate what you have done for
her in the past?

Its her loss that she does not appreciate you. Many trees out there, I am sure you can find a new tree that will standby you.

[ktv cheongster]

I think not just one tree willing stand by his side, many, but is he willing to give them a chance, that is the problem now ...

But sometimes it is hard to give up unless one is totally sure it is a gone case ...