My short term plan is to go back spore,bring her over and work as well in spore with me.After 3 or 4 years,if we are still together,since nothing is for sure,after the change of environment,who knows maybe she falls for another spore man,i always tell her spore got many yandao kias ard as well as rich people.Long term plan is I will go back bkk and start a business and buy a house since housing is cheap there as well as car.By 3 or 4 yrs later,my investments plans and stuff would have matured and also being the only son,i will try to arrange in between for my parents and myself.After that,I will sell my house in spore and I can settle down in bkk too.
Since you can speak Thai, why not stay there and look for a job? It will be much better for a guy like you to leave home then let the girl come here, because of language barrier... she may not find work or would feel homesick easily.
hi bro jun |ch| , as a bro in samster, just a piece of advice. i think it's not a good idea to bring her back to sg to stay with your parents. as u mention, u r the only son. what will happen if people or your parents in sg found out what she have been working as. do u know how much pressure your parents will get if ppl around your family get to know it. i believe your relation with your parents will get to a boiling point whereas u r trying to protect your girl then they r trying to get rid of her for u. i m not saying anything bad about your parents. as a parent myself, we always want the best for our kids. hope u get on the right path with your career n start a family. no parents will want his son to go start a family with a girl working in such a trade b4. just my point of view . hope i don't offend u or any bro here. do take care n bye.
nice plans indeed, well check back with us in 3 to 4 years time , OK?? to let us know every thing is allrite.
I do hope you know the legal steps and procedure in thailand and singapore , that will facilitate realisation of your objectives.
concerned
I placed more priority in making plans come true,than to update here,though perhaps a few friends here will surely be informed of the outcome.Of course I am aware of the legal steps and procedures for both country,since my previous ex gf for spore works in ICA.I had not spend hours clocked reading about infos of advices on how to get here stay in spore.Anyway my girl is pretty much different from the rest.Most WLs basically have poor education.As for my gf,she had good education,and her family does not have to depend on her to take care,perhaps that's why she can throw all her attention to me.As for legal stuff to stay in bkk,should not be a problem since i consulted quite a few farangs who came to bkk to stay for retirement already.
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...interesting plan.......hope it goes well for you.....
I hope so too,since i know myself that its not a easy path to walk,given a choice,I would still choose the easy way out.But who ask me to go prove her love for me,now i am touched and sometimes i want to take the first flight back when we faced with problems,but relented cos she has proven worthy to take care of,now or perhaps soon i need to fulfill my other part.
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Since you can speak Thai, why not stay there and look for a job? It will be much better for a guy like you to leave home then let the girl come here, because of language barrier... she may not find work or would feel homesick easily.
Wish you all the best.
Its pretty useless to find a job based in bkk.Preferably from spore and posted in bkk perhaps.Pay wise is miserable and have to compete with khon thais.Saw the classified for jobs,requires more of thai nationality.As i said,i am the only son,and my parents had been wanting me to come back asap. As for her,should be no problem since she is good to go anytime,except she has a grandma who is quite sick at times with colon problems.Other than that,she have no obligations. Actually its easier said than done.There are many issues to tackle,furthermore her house and her car in bkk as well.Not that i need to pay but need to settle b4 going to spore.Since her mum is paying for the rest of the instalments for the car.The house is already hers.
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hi bro jun |ch| , as a bro in samster, just a piece of advice. i think it's not a good idea to bring her back to sg to stay with your parents. as u mention, u r the only son. what will happen if people or your parents in sg found out what she have been working as. do u know how much pressure your parents will get if ppl around your family get to know it. i believe your relation with your parents will get to a boiling point whereas u r trying to protect your girl then they r trying to get rid of her for u. i m not saying anything bad about your parents. as a parent myself, we always want the best for our kids. hope u get on the right path with your career n start a family. no parents will want his son to go start a family with a girl working in such a trade b4. just my point of view . hope i don't offend u or any bro here. do take care n bye.
That is what i called a piece of advice,not just passing remarks...hehee...anyway. yeah i understand the situation and my parents had already voiced out their unhappiness to me already.Both my parents are educated and currently working.But their thinking remains conservative.I trying to juggle between my parents as well as her.I do not wish to lose anyone in the process.I hope u understand.Its not easy to find someone who stand by u when u are down and "broke".Assuming i was broke since i told her.How many spore girls will stick to u if u are broke??Not mentioned about WLs in thailand.I know i will face alot of pressure,and i told my girl to be prepared if my parents initially will despised her of her nationality and unfair to her.I need her to go thru it with me,not falling out with my parents.Since i am the only child of the family.
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I hope u understand.Its not easy to find someone who stand by u when u are down and "broke".Assuming i was broke since i told her.How many spore girls will stick to u if u are broke??Not mentioned about WLs in thailand.
i think it depends.....if you are financially broke becoz of certain unfortunate situation (rather than splash it on gambling/kio kway)...i have seen few examples of the SG/MY gals stuck to the guys, even to the extent of extending financial support....
however, in some cases, the gals desert the guys not merely based on the facts that he is financially broke, but personality bankcrupt.....
Dunno leh ... Since you ask, you go try liao then come back here and post the info
I got personality bankrupt meh?
I also never
- borrow $ (from fellow samster) to go kio kway
- drink already dun pay bill
- eat already then later complain to organiser "why so expensive?"
but I got record of 'drink half way, faster run home" (becos I scare kena merlion)
18-10-2005, 05:23 PM
Re: Advise please
