hi bro jun |ch| , as a bro in samster, just a piece of advice. i think it's not a good idea to bring her back to sg to stay with your parents. as u mention, u r the only son. what will happen if people or your parents in sg found out what she have been working as. do u know how much pressure your parents will get if ppl around your family get to know it. i believe your relation with your parents will get to a boiling point whereas u r trying to protect your girl then they r trying to get rid of her for u. i m not saying anything bad about your parents. as a parent myself, we always want the best for our kids. hope u get on the right path with your career n start a family. no parents will want his son to go start a family with a girl working in such a trade b4. just my point of view . hope i don't offend u or any bro here. do take care n bye.
Personally, i felt this a small problem. It all depend on bro jun|ch| on how much she love her. If he can take what other said about her, that it is perfectly alright. As for parent, yeah it good to have their acknowledgment but not necessary you have to agree with them. They are living in a different era.
As for me, i will defintely do it if I am not married provide that i find a really good one (like bro jun did, i hope!)
hi bro jun |ch| , as a bro in samster, just a piece of advice. i think it's not a good idea to bring her back to sg to stay with your parents. as u mention, u r the only son. what will happen if people or your parents in sg found out what she have been working as. do u know how much pressure your parents will get if ppl around your family get to know it. i believe your relation with your parents will get to a boiling point whereas u r trying to protect your girl then they r trying to get rid of her for u. i m not saying anything bad about your parents. as a parent myself, we always want the best for our kids. hope u get on the right path with your career n start a family. no parents will want his son to go start a family with a girl working in such a trade b4. just my point of view . hope i don't offend u or any bro here. do take care n bye.
Personally, i felt this a small problem. It all depend on bro jun|ch| on how much she love her. If he can take what other said about her, that it is perfectly alright. As for parent, yeah it good to have their acknowledgment but not necessary you have to agree with them. They are living in a different era.
As for me, i will defintely do it if I am not married provide that i find a really good one (like bro jun did, i hope!)
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Re: Advise please
jun|ch|,
if as what you said, your gf is working 20K baht a month in an agogo bar, why don't you come back to singapore and work instead?
20K baht equivalent to around 800++SGD
I am sure you can get a job which pays at least 1300SGD in singapore and then you can give her the 800++ instead of letting the poor girl work in the bar pay for your visa runs which costs more than 1800baht per month
Who knows if you get a job which pays >2000SGD, you can even save her out of the bar.
So now your gf work in an ago-go bar, 1 month earn 20K baht, while you not working?
SC
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Orr .. tis info you ownself tell ppl 1 hor, dun later u ask me "how come others know ... "
No worries man,already said she was a ex gf liao mah...she is already married and perhaps have a kid by now. She provided me with details about the normal procedures though she never tell me the loopholes lah..hehee
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i think it depends.....if you are financially broke becoz of certain unfortunate situation (rather than splash it on gambling/kio kway)...i have seen few examples of the SG/MY gals stuck to the guys, even to the extent of extending financial support....
however, in some cases, the gals desert the guys not merely based on the facts that he is financially broke, but personality bankcrupt.....
True,there will always be few examples here and there,but i guess majority think that spore gals are materialistic rite??I am quite okie with spore gals,have not yet met one who stuck to me for money..
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Kio kway too often ---> Salary can't support habit ---> Take loan from bank ---> Unable to repay loan ---> File for bankruptcy
got such people meh??hehee...Nice to see u here anyway
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Personally, i felt this a small problem. It all depend on bro jun|ch| on how much she love her. If he can take what other said about her, that it is perfectly alright. As for parent, yeah it good to have their acknowledgment but not necessary you have to agree with them. They are living in a different era.
As for me, i will defintely do it if I am not married provide that i find a really good one (like bro jun did, i hope!)
Just my two cents worth!
Cheers!
No point marrying someone of a decent background,and everything that everyone wishes for,in terms of character plus bods and looks,when u get married with her or spent the rest of ur lives together,she does not love u.Though there are cases where love blossoms within the marriage itself.Like that also considered love mah.
I think its pretty alright for me to accept her the way she is.Whether my parents will give consent or not,well it depends and that is certainly not going to deter my relationship with her.Only thing is that the day she ceases to love me,then that will only be the obstacle to make things go right.Hope that day wont come hor??heehe...
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if as what you said, your gf is working 20K baht a month in an agogo bar, why don't you come back to singapore and work instead?
20K baht equivalent to around 800++SGD
u need me to do a statement on how much her earnings for a day plus her timesheet as well?Getting 20k per month working in a bar without going with customers is not impossible.I read from the previous posts from this thread regarding pays of 6k or even 2k.It was ridiculous.Anyway choosing between a job that pays 6k the same,working as a salesgirl who needs to stand 12hrs per day with a job that works 5hrs without using any brain cells.I reckon some would choose the latter.By the way also,waitresses do not have the certain BFs to be met,that is for rainbow grp but i am not sure for the other bars.
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Originally Posted by siamcutey
I am sure you can get a job which pays at least 1300SGD in singapore and then you can give her the 800++ instead of letting the poor girl work in the bar pay for your visa runs which costs more than 1800baht per month
I was working in a advertising firm back then for a year which pays me 2k plus.And that was the onli working experience i had for my life since most of my time i was into soccer betting,toto and other investments which brings me a earnings more than what i can get sloggin my days in and out in the office.I would not be giving her the amt u stated since that will pretty much the same as the rest providing for their girl in thailand.Of course i will be taking care of her in such a way she will not feel a loss or anything.By the way for ur info,visa runs for me requires 2k baht plus a "normal" looking photo of myself.
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Who knows if you get a job which pays >2000SGD, you can even save her out of the bar.
u really think that with 2kplus,u can save a girl out of the bar??Not to mention my girl at the moment.I bet most of us here earn more than 2k and i do not see anyone able to bring a girl out of trade.By the way I do not need 2k to bring her out of the bar.Neither do i need $400 to bring her out of the bar.As most people paid their girl out of the bar,will only provides her with a chance to go back to the job should the relationship fails.The money paid was meant for the absence of herself at work.If the day comes i want her out of the job,I will just tell her to stop work altogether,not planning to let her back to the work in the near future or whatsoever.
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Originally Posted by siamcutey
So now your gf work in an ago-go bar, 1 month earn 20K baht, while you not working?
yeap,my girl is working in a bar,and i am not working.In fact i was busy for the past few days going out with a couple of samsters who came over.I was busying going ard enjoying myself.But i never use any allowance she gave me for the entertainments.So any problems with that??
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yeap,my girl is working in a bar,and i am not working.In fact i was busy for the past few days going out with a couple of samsters who came over.I was busying going ard enjoying myself.But i never use any allowance she gave me for the entertainments.So any problems with that??
I personally think that sitting and posting replies at 5AM in the morning answering to replies in SB, and constantly soliciting ( which is ok itself) for meetups with bros in BKK, means that a part of you is lonley and wanting attention.
Go on and do something positive with your life, can't get a job in BKK, then come back to singapore. I m sure your GF will understand, even in Singapore u can still fly up once a month to be with her, if u live frugally with 1K plus takehome salary in SGP.
another thing, U started this thread for advice and in the end , I only realise you seem accept advice that seem to validate your actions, Advice to the contary of your actions or plans, u become very defensive and explain your points ad nauseum, well its your prerogative . But remember its a public forum and there's this saying : if you cant stand the heat, Get out of the Kitchen
u really think that with 2kplus,u can save a girl out of the bar??Not to mention my girl at the moment.I bet most of us here earn more than 2k and i do not see anyone able to bring a girl out of trade.By the way I do not need 2k to bring her out of the bar.Neither do i need $400 to bring her out of the bar.As most people paid their girl out of the bar,will only provides her with a chance to go back to the job should the relationship fails.
The money paid was meant for the absence of herself at work.If the day comes i want her out of the job,I will just tell her to stop work altogether,not planning to let her back to the work in the near future or whatsoever.
I think SC meant was why did u chose to let yr gf work and support u instead of u working supporting her? Simple as that.
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Originally Posted by Jun|ch|
yeap,my girl is working in a bar,and i am not working.In fact i was busy for the past few days going out with a couple of samsters who came over.I was busying going ard enjoying myself.But i never use any allowance she gave me for the entertainments.So any problems with that??
I didn't know 6 months could change a person's mentality and behaviour so much. I think u had been successfully converted into the "KHON THAI" culture with flying colours. Dun mind if I say something wrong, maybe you should consider leaving your girl as previously you mentioned that "you are having fun while your gf is at work and you hope that she can go out with customer and you will feel better". This sentence doesn't reflects fm someone who is truly in love with her but someone who is truly too LAZY to work!
I guess if i jump in to say something now, he'll say we all gang up on him...
Truth is,
1) there's nothing wrong with falling in love with a WL.
2) there's nothing wrong with staying in WL gf's apartment.
3) there's nothing wrong in accepting WL gf's job as it is.
But,
1) why declared love and then come here to tell ppl how much fun he having with other women and fucking her colleague for free?
2) I don't think he is piichai (or mang-da) for staying in WL gf's house... but sometimes he say he getting allowance from gf, and sometimes say he not using a single cent from gf. What is the purpose? To show he capable of being a piichai using his charm and looks? Proud?
3) 20,000THB is only $800++. He saying his girl is "educated". He saying his girl not much commitment. "Educated" girl can easily get a job for around 10,000THB/mth. Many people surviving in Thailand with less than 10,000/mth. If he goes back s'pore to work, every month send her 5,000THB ($200), and together with her own 10,000 salary, she can lead a easy life too. Point is, will u allow ur gf to work in a agogo bar for $800?
I think if he love his gf, he'll ask her to stop working, bring her back s'pore stay with her. She stays home help his mom do house work, and he goes work... like this also shiok wat.
This is Amazing Thailand for u guys. In just 6 months, Amazing Thailand has turned this Amazing kid from a whinner, lost, almost broke kid, to now suddenly a Investment, soccer betting, toto betting expert, and full of confident (in this forum).. oh, not forgetting can speak like a Thai.. haha
So there u go, people with low confidence, please pack ur travel bags and come stay in Thailand for a while... 6 months will give u all the morale boost and confidence u need...
Also, whats amazing is I still see many people here supporting him..... is it me, or is it this world has all turned blind?
19-10-2005, 04:17 PM
