My Fillial Daughter

[thaiboy]

bro what is jao-chuu??? can anyone explain thanks.......

[Hakoshu]

Someone who is "hua xin" Flowery heart, Playboy-like..

Originally Posted by thaiboy

bro what is jao-chuu??? can anyone explain thanks.......

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Just a matter of interest, while you were with film, how many times you engage in commercial sex and when was the last time?

Zero. Film gave me what I needed when I needed it, and that was good enough. I old man liao, cannot keep doing w/o letting the body recuperate lah. So now can be intense for a while, then need time to recharge. Else maybe will just fire blanks. Lucky her own drive not high, else there will be serious problems.


Before Film, when I was with Dancer or Rain, was tempted cos damn siong & dun know got to wait till when. With Film, it's easier to to abstain. Also dun want to fireblanks when I am there right? It will get her worried cos she still wants to be a mum of her own child. BTW, she thought she better start going on the pill until we are ready for a baby. I told her I heard about the morning after pill and maybe it is better cos I dun fancy her pumping herself with drugs everyday when there is no need to. Anyone can pray tell more about this morning after stuff?

[free]

Originally Posted by thaiboy

bro what is jao-chuu??? can anyone explain thanks.......

wa lau, the sifu himself asking for translation? Jing reu bplao?

[free]

Originally Posted by thaivisitor

Some how, no matter what or unless I was with you all the time, I don't believe. I do not think a single guy (even with GF) will not cheong when he is not with his GF for prolong periods.

What about when Dancer or Rain was your GF. Any commercial sex?

thaivisitor

With both Rain and Dancer, I had but only on very few occassions. I had always told them I would never prefer to seek another woman to meet my needs if the one I love will do it with me. My tirak also knew how I felt about commercial sex while we were still friends, and she had said that then she cannot agree with the 2 ladies and thinks they dun appreciate me enuf (or maybe even dun love me enuf), cos she would definitely meet my needs if I were to be her bf & I love her the way I did the other 2. We had no idea we were going to end up as tiraks then,

Anyway, the experiences was not good, cos there was a lot of guilt and I not only did not enjoy it, often I couldn't complete what I started out to do. The moment the mental pic of my gf (at the time) appeared, something just snapped inside me and I lose interest, if not even erection. Usually ended up spending the time talking, not moving. At the end of the day, I released myself mostly by pcc.

Not good really, cos it does take me much longer to climax (or sometimes not at all) when I finally had the chance to do the real thing with my beloved. It sometimes really tire her out (so I really appreciate her efforts). But glad the situation is much better now that we have established established a more regular and frequent pattern.

Last 10 days were great & intense cos it was also coupled with heightened emotions. Now I (& also her) feel that I am "normal" after all. However this intense period was preluded by 2 weeks of abstainence from pcc. Talked over with my beloved after on why there is a difference and she request me try not to pcc too often, and even avoid it and save up for till we meet instead. She had read that as I age, I'd better tone down if I want to enjoy sex with her for a long time more. To encourage me, she promised to meet my needs whenever we're together, no matter how many times I may want. Said it's only fair to me, hahaha.

[free]

Forgot to add though. In between r/s when I am not attached, I do go overboard, cos there is no reason to hold back. No strings attached though.

[Bonker911]

Originally Posted by free

Apologize to SC for the straying off topic. Hope everyone can give this thread its due respect, definitely it's a great thread.

Bros TV and Free, whether a man is Jao Chu or can tahan LDTR without straying is not relevant to the focus of this thread.

Pls continue your Q&A at Free's LDTR thread instead. Tks.

[free]

Case Study - A Genuine case

I know of a Thai lady who used to have a very successful career. And as result, invested in property, bought nice car, took good care of parents, set aside big monthly expeenses for kids, etc. Just like some SGreans. Then she fell on bad times - after she had to leave her job.

No longer have the big income of the past but still tried to maintain expenditure on kids, parents, cos she love them too much to let them worry/suffer. Meanwhile, hoping things will turn upwards again, as she explores business opportunities. Took that risk and failed. Ran out of money. One day dad suddenly had a stroke and bleeding in the brain, and there was no one else in the family who could foot the hospital bill. Desperate, she had no choice but to take up a job as a drink hostess where her job was to accompany guests to drink, period (as far as she is concerned). On the first night, one customer propositioned her - she rejected him even though he offered good money that could help towards paying for the dad's operation. On the 2nd night, yet another propositioned. Unable to take the shame (it's shameful to her to be in such a position), she quitted, vowing never to subject herself to this insult again. Hence lost even the little pay she was able to earn, and of course no chance to pay for dad's hospital fees.

She had literally no choice but to consider what her dad wanted her to do - Let him go home and die. Fortunately at the very last hour, an old friend of the dad came to the rescue when he returned from overseas and found out that his friend was literally at death's door and paid for the operation. Had to sell off part of Dad's land to pay for the hospital stay (post op).

So she had refused to sell her body for the sake of her dad cos she could not take the shame of doing it. Was she being unfilial? Also in wanting to maintain her honor, she lost her car (took back by finance company) and had to sell her home (again still under financing). Now she is trapped at home with little means of making good. Was she foolish to hang on?

[Bangkok Master]

Originally Posted by free

So she had refused to sell her body for the sake of her dad cos she could not take the shame of doing it. Was she being unfilial? Also in wanting to maintain her honor, she lost her car (took back by finance company) and had to sell her home (again still under financing). Now she is trapped at home with little means of making good. Was she foolish to hang on?

She is not foolish to hang on as I believed that she had her own sets of principles doing things. Her father will definately understand why she can't swallow her pride and just sleep it through cos I think probably due to their traditional strict upbringing. She's not unfillial cos she had tried her best to let the whole family lead a luxurious life so not matter what her priority is still her family but maybe due to her luck, she must go through this type of situation. Currently I think it's almost totally impossible to find such a lady who still can mantain her stand in the realistic world. I just spoke to my colleague over a new fling for her and she told me if the guy can give her 20000baht per month, she will do anything he wants her. You see the point in our current world the most important rite now is monetary support without it, it's difficult to get things done.

So in the playing field, just need to remember this sentence "LUI KIA TAO" then everything also "BO SALA"...............

[free]

Originally Posted by Bangkok Master

Currently I think it's almost totally impossible to find such a lady who still can mantain her stand in the realistic world. I just spoke to my colleague over a new fling for her and she told me if the guy can give her 20000baht per month, she will do anything he wants her. You see the point in our current world the most important rite now is monetary support without it, it's difficult to get things done.

Almost impossible is the word. So there is still a very small minority who can still maintain their stand after all. I had tot that she would not stand up to the test, and buckle under the pressure. But she did. Dad is now out of hospital, though not fully recovered. Still cannot walk properly and speaks with a slur. I talked to him today. Who is she? - she is and will remain my dream gal. But she's not the one I have chosen. I chose a "real" gal instead. She knew I had made my choice and accepted it. Life will go on for her and she still will not sell out. I respect her for who she is - one of the strongest woman I have ever met. I am doing the last ditch I can for her, as an final expression of the love we shared for a while - I am sending her my Bacharra watch and told her to sell it for any amount of money she can raise if anyone is interested, and told her the cost I had bought it for while in Switzerland. I seldom wear it anyway and she needs the money more than I do the watch.

[Snuber]

Originally Posted by free

Was she foolish to hang on?

Foolish? Nope, i won't use that to describe her. But rather, it tells me of her strong character. Surely, selling her body would be the easy way out. After 1 nite, the $$$ would be hers & some of the problems would be solved. But what if problems come again & again? Is she going to sell her body again? It is like an addiction, once stepped in for some time, their mindset will change & think it's quite normal. Psychological effects? There are but i guess it just fades over time if she keeps to the easy way out.

Remaining strong in the face of the many problems, how many people can do that? Doing her best in the current situation is what I feel.

[free]

Originally Posted by Snuber

Foolish? Nope, i won't use that to describe her. But rather, it tells me of her strong character.
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Remaining strong in the face of the many problems, how many people can do that? Doing her best in the current situation is what I feel.

Yes, she belongs a rare class of TGs and I am proud to have a chance to have shared her life, even if for a short while.

That is why it is really tough to let go of my dream gal, even after I had decided on my choice. In the end had to force myself to play role of "martyr" and let her go so that she can open her heart to someone who has a higher if not guaranteed chance of restoring her to her previous level of lifestyle. Unfortunately she is not going to open her heart that easily still. I think her ex-hubby (whom she insist is still a friend and they do talk on friendly terms when I was with her) must have hurt her rather badly.

[thaiboy]

Bro freeee.......yr story never end.......hope u be happy and god bless u....

[free]

Originally Posted by thaiboy

Bro freeee.......yr story never end.......hope u be happy and god bless u....

Of course I hope it will never end (or more realistically, till death do us part). But this time walking only on 1 track with my chosen gal, walking towards what we hope will be our home. This is the furthest I have come with any gal, ever since I opened my heart to love once again.

If dream gal can also let go, dun u think the chosen one has to be very special to me? All of her, complete with her pros & cons.

[thaiboy]

Originally Posted by free

Of course I hope it will never end (or more realistically, till death do us part). But this time walking only on 1 track with my chosen gal, walking towards what we hope will be our home. This is the furthest I have come with any gal, ever since I opened my heart to love once again.

Bro i wan to be like YOU....kekekek LOve one more time...before i same like POPE