How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

Actually it's really sustainable if she just stick to proper job in BKK and with my monthly allowance. (Average middle class with no luxury spending).

She has no family to support, only have to take care of herself.

Doesn't want to give too much info, less people decipher which girl was it, but she end her stint in Singapore way early. She dump a richer guy for me.

But end of the day, think she wouldn't go back to normal lifestyle. And I think she now kinda blame me for urging her to return home.

Won't doubt she used to love me, but now... I think it all about money. Even my ex-WL friends ask me to forget her, stating they know what thai girl think and used themselves as a benchmark.

End of day I just have to move on. But this time round, I guess I gongtao deeply. Even go find others girl, enjoyed the session, but few hour later the emptiness creep in again.

At least you enjoyed the sessions, as for me, my dick cannot even stand. Sigh.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Are you talking about you financially support them fully or no?

Even if you are financially fully supporting them, you need to keep them reasonably occupied daily. Best is let them do some work, some small business. If not, then she may get bored and do shit stuff. Especially if they have bad friends.

If a guy is not financially supporting them fully, then how is she going to support herself and takes care of her liability and responsibility?

You are referring to both of you NOT staying together but supporting her financially fully? This one is challenging because you are not there for her physically. If one is in this situation, very tricky.

If not staying with her, best is support her financially partially. But if you do that, then what do you expect her to do when her family needs money? Ask from you? Will you give? After you give her the money, would you feel that you "own" her?

So the biggest question is survival. If not enough money, she will have to find the money somewhere. Especially if she really love you and know that you are not very rich, how?

I encountered that before too. Remember, to these girls, even if you give 6 figure, to them it is nothing. They can tell you they can easily earn that in a year or two. And they have seen all sorts of life and all sort of guys.

[Chillbill]

I have a friend who gave big sums of money to a WL but her appetite was insatiable. As soon as he decided to stop, all communications ceased. Talk about “love”! Betting on 4D n Toto makes more sense than trying to enter a relationship with a WL. Why squander money on one and yourself into emotional turmoil? At best, just be a good customer at the house and be a friend outside if the WL does go out.

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Chillbill

I have a friend who gave big sums of money to a WL but her appetite was insatiable. As soon as he decided to stop, all communications ceased. Talk about “love”! Betting on 4D n Toto makes more sense than trying to enter a relationship with a WL. Why squander money on one and yourself into emotional turmoil? At best, just be a good customer at the house and be a friend outside if the WL does go out.

Truly said. As the saying goes, relationship based on money or sex is never a true relationship, though sex factor is indeed important. But yet most men fall because of dick brain, me included.

[abcchinese8inch]

Originally Posted by Chillbill

I have a friend who gave big sums of money to a WL but her appetite was insatiable. As soon as he decided to stop, all communications ceased. Talk about “love”! Betting on 4D n Toto makes more sense than trying to enter a relationship with a WL. Why squander money on one and yourself into emotional turmoil? At best, just be a good customer at the house and be a friend outside if the WL does go out.

Agree... I'm still in contact with some ex-WL. When I told them my situation all advise me to stop communication with the girl and visit as many new WL instead.

Really thought this relationship will work out... end up just getting heartache. Amount spend on her is enough to go geylang daily sia zzz.

Personally don't advise going out with WL during off day. The expenses is shocking especially if you don't drive. Once I go out the entire day to multiple location. The day grab fare alone maybe close to 100....

[Chrisk456]

If someone wants to get in a relationship with a WL, you need to take control of the game or at least share the rule-making of the game as I do with mine. You all have to remember the reason why a lady works in this industry:

1. Earn money
2. Earn money
3. Earn money

Basically she controls the whole game. The amount of money someone invests is not commensurate to the sacrifice the lady has already made getting into the flesh trade. Want to get into a relationship? Dont want to involve big sum of money? Take control of the game. Seems impossible? Then stop!

[abcchinese8inch]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

If someone wants to get in a relationship with a WL, you need to take control of the game or at least share the rule-making of the game as I do with mine. You all have to remember the reason why a lady works in this industry:

1. Earn money
2. Earn money
3. Earn money

Basically she controls the whole game. The amount of money someone invests is not commensurate to the sacrifice the lady has already made getting into the flesh trade. Want to get into a relationship? Dont want to involve big sum of money? Take control of the game. Seems impossible? Then stop!

Agreed. Initially I'm the 1 controlling. Now I tio gongtao. Get controlled. Now attempting to get out of this emotion

[Darge]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

Agreed. Initially I'm the 1 controlling. Now I tio gongtao. Get controlled. Now attempting to get out of this emotion

Be strong! You will break free. Think of the sufferings she caused you!

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

Agreed. Initially I'm the 1 controlling. Now I tio gongtao. Get controlled. Now attempting to get out of this emotion

Its hard to play the KC game as it is a long game. But no one lady has the same deck of cards always remember that. One bro should be flexible and able to stack various factors in mind to be able to predict probabilities of success in the long run like playing in casino. One thing is for sure, love isn't enough. Make compromise and maybe it will work.

Just accept the hard truth, this game is not everyone. Even if one is rich, no one can win this game in its entirety. When I mean by "win" is when you grow old together without any cheating or anything.

Try visiting different girls right now and the feeling will naturally go away.

[Chillbill]

Abide by the 3Rs: Release (just have a good fuck), Rotate (try different WLs and MLs) and Restrain (be disciplined and don’t get emotionally entangled). Heard about too many victims and met a number of heartbroken dudes. Venture into Geylang with your eyes open.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by Chillbill

Abide by the 3Rs: Release (just have a good fuck), Rotate (try different WLs and MLs) and Restrain (be disciplined and don’t get emotionally entangled). Heard about too many victims and met a number of heartbroken dudes. Venture into Geylang with your eyes open.

Agree. If the WL tries to share a sob story tell the lady nicely that youre not interested as the owner of this forum has advised. Were all human beings and were capable of feeling sad about some other people's poor life. Whether its true or not once youve felt sad about them no bro can ever go out and theres a high chance youll RTF her for more and listen to her stories. Much worse youll fall in love. If you have the will and money then go play. Otherwise go back to step 1 and dont listen/invest a feeling with the lady. Such a simple rule and yet bros are still coming back here complaining the same issue..

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

They might be earning a lot but its not plain and flat they receive that cut of money besides they wouldnt be working like that for the rest of their lives if they do. Ive seen the bank accounts of an ex-GL lady in over 1 year of working recently, I cant believe what I just saw. Its a lot of money but it didnt meet the expectation Ive had from their line of work but can definitely buy a house and a good secondhand car. After that they usually consider working in other country, the cycle is Taiwan and/or Dubai. Sometimes Taiwan comes first then Singapore.

The point being is its not always rainbows and butterflies in their industry. If someone would support them financially maybe they can fold and change. MAYBE. Theres always a chance for them to go back to the flesh trade especially when the need arises. Its hard to predict them.

Yah. Actual, it is the same for us also. We have a fix period of time to work and earn money. The money we earned must last us till we passed on and also take care of our family.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by abcchinese8inch

Actually it's really sustainable if she just stick to proper job in BKK and with my monthly allowance. (Average middle class with no luxury spending).

She has no family to support, only have to take care of herself.

Doesn't want to give too much info, less people decipher which girl was it, but she end her stint in Singapore way early. She dump a richer guy for me.

But end of the day, think she wouldn't go back to normal lifestyle. And I think she now kinda blame me for urging her to return home.

Won't doubt she used to love me, but now... I think it all about money. Even my ex-WL friends ask me to forget her, stating they know what thai girl think and used themselves as a benchmark.

End of day I just have to move on. But this time round, I guess I gongtao deeply. Even go find others girl, enjoyed the session, but few hour later the emptiness creep in again.

Oh no, you asked her to cut short her time in Singapore and go back? When you ask somebody to do something like this, you become the one responsible, whatever shit that happens.

Yah. The feeling of knowing somebody out there thinking of us is nice.

[Chrisk456]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Oh no, you asked her to cut short her time in Singapore and go back? When you ask somebody to do something like this, you become the one responsible, whatever shit that happens.

Yah. The feeling of knowing somebody out there thinking of us is nice.

The lady have high expectations due to that and maybe our guy overpromised. Its not simple having a relationship with an ex WL/FL. Never simple. It is always bound to fail unless each of them do their part. Their situation must be easy to be honest, a lady who doesn't support her family, no sick family, no loan repayment and a uni grad. Its relatively easy and I have no idea why it failed.

Moving forward just dont get into a relationship with a WL/FL. Its mentally exhausting thinking if youre the only BF, or where is she at this moment (maybe meeting with other previous customers) while youre sending their dating money haha

[abcchinese8inch]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Oh no, you asked her to cut short her time in Singapore and go back? When you ask somebody to do something like this, you become the one responsible, whatever shit that happens.

Yah. The feeling of knowing somebody out there thinking of us is nice.

Nope, before we even start the relationship, she already mention she only here for short period and will end her stint earlier.

Have to say this relationship has its up and down, there was a period where we quarrel to the point that she block me all communication. That period im midst of moving on, and 1 day she told me she returning Thai. That when i start to fall back.

Originally Posted by Chrisk456

The lady have high expectations due to that and maybe our guy overpromised. Its not simple having a relationship with an ex WL/FL. Never simple. It is always bound to fail unless each of them do their part. Their situation must be easy to be honest, a lady who doesn't support her family, no sick family, no loan repayment and a uni grad. Its relatively easy and I have no idea why it failed.

Moving forward just dont get into a relationship with a WL/FL. Its mentally exhausting thinking if youre the only BF, or where is she at this moment (maybe meeting with other previous customers) while youre sending their dating money haha

Didnt overpromised. Set all the arrangement upfront and she agreed, and to date, i still kept to the promise.

Think time for me to face reality and stop hoping for the Cinderella ending. End of day she used to the quick cash. Unless i can sponsor her THB100K minimum per month, there no way i see any future. Last time i still can see her phone, has her password. Now cant even see what she doing on her phone. (red flag).