Gers Are Still Gers

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by foolish_

Hahaha, bro let me tell you this, many women's attraction with diamonds start with that proposal ring.
......Therefore, my advice, propose with the ring from the can drinks......kekeke

Cannot lah, like that she won't marry me. Maybe she will ask me to go screw the can instead.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by foolish_

Just a few days ago, my fren told me about what his wife wanted. He already heavily in debts to credit card companies, but his wife wants to go on a holiday to Europe. When he say they don't have the money to go, know what she said? Ask him to go apply for another card. When he say, they can't afford to continue paying off the credit card companies, she started blaming him for not earning enough.
Funny thing is whenever he says he needs to work late or on weekends, she turn around and say all he cares is his work.
Women!

Wah!!! This kind of wife quite scary leh. Your friend married for long? Wife working? If wife work, she has to do her part as well also. Want this want that, can.....Pay also lor. Why? Just because can afford then all on him? Ie me, I'll tell her I'll give her some pocket money she go herself, or else choose another destination.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Cannot lah, like that she won't marry me. Maybe she will ask me to go screw the can instead.

Tell her choose between the ring or the wedding photo/gown package.....

[Wins88]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Wah!!! This kind of wife quite scary leh. Your friend married for long? Wife working? If wife work, she has to do her part as well also. Want this want that, can.....Pay also lor. Why? Just because can afford then all on him? Ie me, I'll tell her I'll give her some pocket money she go herself, or else choose another destination.

Wah lau eh! Kenna this kind of wife sure die lah ... Owe credit card companies but wife still insist on expensive holidays, and ask huby to apply for more credit; is a one way ticket to the classifieds notices section under Petition for bankruptcy!
I dunno about the rest of the guys but when I went for a month long holiday in the US in the beginning of the year with my wife, I made sure she helped foot the bill! In fact, I personally think that a healthy relationship between husband and wife should include sharing the $$$ responsiilities. In fact, I often do get my wife to pay the bills just so that she understands that it is not a one way street in our family.
I had a friend who made a huge mistake marrying a girl who did nothing but spend his moeny n their wedding almost bankrupted him. In the end, the bitch made him wear "green hat" because the other guy she met had more moeny to lavish on her and they divorced within 7 months of marriage...

[foolish_]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

Wah!!! This kind of wife quite scary leh. Your friend married for long? Wife working? If wife work, she has to do her part as well also. Want this want that, can.....Pay also lor. Why? Just because can afford then all on him? Ie me, I'll tell her I'll give her some pocket money she go herself, or else choose another destination.

Bro, they married for about 5 years liao. Yes, she is working and that's the problem. She starts comparing him to those guys in her office. However, I know that she spend her salary on her own things and expect him to pay for all the other bills. Every now and then keep wanting him to buy this or that. I am incline to believe she is making him wear a green hat liao. But love is blind. He just keeps trying to work harder and harder to earn more for her.

I told him long ago to dump her. He can't bear to. Don't know is it her pussy make of gold or what. I really pity him.........sigh

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by foolish_

Bro, they married for about 5 years liao. Yes, she is working and that's the problem. She starts comparing him to those guys in her office. However, I know that she spend her salary on her own things and expect him to pay for all the other bills. Every now and then keep wanting him to buy this or that. I am incline to believe she is making him wear a green hat liao. I told him long ago to dump her. He can't bear to. Don't know is it her pussy make of gold or what. I really pity him.........sigh

That's the problem when the wifey gets to compare with so and so, this is the begining of never ending trouble. What all so called "love" in this marriage now. Honestly if your friend is doning fine and early thirties, best time to seek for a new companion......

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by foolish_

Bro, they married for about 5 years liao. Yes, she is working and that's the problem. She starts comparing him to those guys in her office. However, I know that she spend her salary on her own things and expect him to pay for all the other bills. He just keeps trying to work harder and harder to earn more for her.
I told him long ago to dump her. He can't bear to. Don't know is it her pussy make of gold or what. I really pity him.........sigh

Love may be blind but at the end of the day, he needs to face reality. Marriage is about sharing, going thru thick and thin, not simply accepting and receiving. If she thinks she got a long term ticket, then it is a big mistake. Nowadays living standard does not allow one to sit home and be Tai Tai, what you wnat, you work for it. After I heard what you said, I pity him too.

[lament]

Husband Mart

A store called Husband-Mart, which sells husbands, had just opened where a woman can go to choose a husband from among many men.

Comprising 6 floors, the men were placed such that they increase in
positive attributes as the shopper ascends each floor. There was, however, a catch. As you open the door to any floor you may choose a man from that floor, but if you go up a floor, you cannot go back down, except to exit the building.

So this woman goes to Husband-Mart to look for a husband. On the first
floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men have jobs.
The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than
my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes.

The second floor sign reads:
Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids.
The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again.

The third floor sign reads:
Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking.
"Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?"

The fourth floor sign reads:
Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework. "Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight.

The fifth floor sign reads:
Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking,
help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak. "Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?"

So up to the sixth floor she goes.
The sixth floor sign reads:
Floor 6 - You are Visitor No. 3,456,789,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please.

Thank you for shopping at Husband-Mart and have a nice day.

[lament]

Here's some WORDS WOMEN USE, and what they actually mean...

FINE
This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are right and you need to shut up. Never use "fine" to describe how a woman looks -- this will cause you to have one of those arguments.

FIVE MINUTES
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's an even trade.

NOTHING
This means "something," and you should be on your toes.
"Nothing" is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine"

GO AHEAD ( With Raised Eyebrows! )
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over "Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine"

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows).
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care" You will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by "Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

LOUD SIGH
This is not actually a word, but is a nonverbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment, and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over "Nothing"

SOFT SIGH
Again, not a word, but a nonverbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT'S OKAY
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow."

GO AHEAD!
At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.

PLEASE DO
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay"

THANKS
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say, "You're welcome."

THANKS A LOT
This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing"

[Five Stone]

[QUOTE=foolishJust a few days ago, my fren told me about what his wife wanted. He already heavily in debts to credit card companies, but his wife wants to go on a holiday to Europe. When he say they don't have the money to go, know what she said? Ask him to go apply for another card. When he say, they can't afford to continue paying off the credit card companies, she started blaming him for not earning enough.
[/QUOTE]
With all due respect, does the wife knows his financial situation, if yes then the more I despise her, I will never let my woman say such things to me. If she so 'kiang' then please be my guest and tour the world for all I care, buy the diamonds bigger than her boobs if she likes but please do not come around and insult me. I may not be raking in big bucks but still I am earning an honest living.

[wahzai]

Originally Posted by Wins88

Wah lau eh! Kenna this kind of wife sure die lah ... Owe credit card companies but wife still insist on expensive holidays, and ask huby to apply for more credit; is a one way ticket to the classifieds notices section under Petition for bankruptcy!
I dunno about the rest of the guys but when I went for a month long holiday in the US in the beginning of the year with my wife, I made sure she helped foot the bill! In fact, I personally think that a healthy relationship between husband and wife should include sharing the $$$ responsiilities. In fact, I often do get my wife to pay the bills just so that she understands that it is not a one way street in our family.
I had a friend who made a huge mistake marrying a girl who did nothing but spend his moeny n their wedding almost bankrupted him. In the end, the bitch made him wear "green hat" because the other guy she met had more moeny to lavish on her and they divorced within 7 months of marriage...

Agreed on the statement :
a healthy relationship between husband and wife should include sharing the $$$ responsiilities

especially in Sg where it is very hard to survive on a single income

[MoonBlaze]

Originally Posted by wahzai

Agreed on the statement :
a healthy relationship between husband and wife should include sharing the $$$ responsiilities

especially in Sg where it is very hard to survive on a single income

Earn more pay more, earn lesser contribute lesser.
Have money out money, have strength out strength.
Both must do their part. Like this kind of partner than can consider to settle down with.

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by wahzai

Agreed on the statement :
a healthy relationship between husband and wife should include sharing the $$$ responsiilities especially in Sg where it is very hard to survive on a single income

But one thing, we men must not take things for granted, we must chop in with our fair share of house work.

[lament]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

But one thing, we men must not take things for granted, we must chop in with our fair share of house work.

well ... the problem with sg gals is that some dun need our money or us to be rich but we must be stable financially cos 1 day they might want to quit ....

having been self-employed for the last 8 years, i have little cpf and have no contribution to that stupid fund .... remember many gals say u have no cpf how to buy house ..... knn got cash cannot but meh must use cpf .....

i say "use your cpf" then their answer is "not fair" .....

what is it sia.. one way they want us to respect them as a modern woman and yet when come to money they are traditionalist .....

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by lament

i say "use your cpf" then their answer is "not fair" .....
what is it sia.. one way they want us to respect them as a modern woman and yet when come to money they are traditionalist .....

I think this can be solved easily, pay more cash up front hence lesser installment every month for her else offer to cover for renovation. If not maybe can top up cash to your CPF and split the installment 60-40 / 70-30 whatsoever. Better still if you are above 35, buy your own flat, ask her move in and help with daily expenses.
The main problem nowadays are relationship are pretty insecure and money plays a big part when it comes to marriage. No one wants to commit unless both parties commit. Sad but true........