Have anyone fallen in love with a FL

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

She doesn't. And you can think me gullible but I believe it. Every mannerism and action and belief she has shown me demonstrates she can't stand the thought of doing it with someone she doesnt feel for. It would be hard to keep up a false impression for as long as we've been together... and that's why she's ML not FL.

我好痛苦。 我在微信看到她发的, 也知道她不好受。 我们真的能够走下去吗? 有未来吗? 还是这轰轰烈烈的爱情是天注定没结果的, 就算再继续也必定分手, 只是时间的问题。。。

ML, FL, Hostess, Singer etc it makes no difference. They are all WHORES!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

She doesn't. And you can think me gullible but I believe it. Every mannerism and action and belief she has shown me demonstrates she can't stand the thought of doing it with someone she doesnt feel for. It would be hard to keep up a false impression for as long as we've been together... and that's why she's ML not FL.

我好痛苦。 我在微信看到她发的, 也知道她不好受。 我们真的能够走下去吗? 有未来吗? 还是这轰轰烈烈的爱情是天注定没结果的, 就算再继续也必定分手, 只是时间的问题。。。

If you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees...to me ML, FL, KTV, are Working Ladies (WL)...



Very simple...we can send guys to massage and tell you result if you let us know where she works and her name/number...

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

I'm terribly lost right now. We broke up a month ago, and I've been trying to get over her but it's so hard. She's the awesome-est relationship I've had.

Despite being a ML, I've never felt she's one when we're together, when we go out, when we have our up and down moments. Reading all the good MRs on her, I'm flattered that she chose me, and i fell headlong into it.. If you say she's faking the gfe, I simply don't believe anyone can act so convincingly. I know how she behaves commercially (afterall I started out as just a client) and she's not like that with me..

One month later, today, a chance at rekindling appears. She tells me we broke up to test me, that she never stopped missing me, that there was never anyone else. I believe her. That's my heart speaking. It's not my dick talking.

I know better than to trust my heart alone. I need time to evaluate the situation. After nursing the hurt for so long and making progress, should I relapse? Do we have a future together here, in China? What would I be giving up? Is she worth it?

When we broke up, a wise person told me to contemplate 值得。 At that point I thought she meant she wasn't worth my affection because she left me. Now I wonder if she meant if she is worth sacrificing all I have and know, in order to be with her..

I need time to sort this thing out in my head..

~lost

ps: 我有个很强的冲动立刻开车下去抱着她哭。为什么要试探我? 为什么要浪费我们一个月的时间?

pps: I'm not usually this emo. In fact I pride myself on being quite a level headed INTJ. But she has a way of evoking the feelings in the deepest recesses of my soul.

ppps: I welcome advice.. u may also slap me awake if you think i deserve it... haiz I need a keg of beer now and brudders to drink with

thought you said you woke up bro

been there, well really whatever we say, you will still go for her, because that's what your heart wants.

you want to believe her and she is 100% for you. While that doesn't mean a ML or FL cannot have a favourite client or even like a guy, you have to realise the road forward is going to be a lot of pain. They are human, they can have feelings, but they can detach body from feelings, heart from mind, much better than you. They can be very wet with a client, screaming in loud ecstasy because physically they do enjoy themselves too, wanting more and more, but they can shut it off once the person is done. Question, can you?

Reread my post
https://sbf.directory/showpo...&postcount=161

Btw, the behavior characteristics are normally very true. They are good at words, and most times, they need to lie, because, the truth hurts more and if they tell you the truth they are afraid you think less of them. So they might tell you, I didn't "Really" fuck guys, I did more blow jobs and handjobs. But in reality looking at the LV bags, you know the sums don't add up. But they cant tell you that right? And they are good at telling you they need you, miss you etc...but later on during a fight, the truth is, they needed you for something like money or company and they really didn't mean what they said
As per post, a lot of them end up psychologically affected, I mean who wouldn't after sleeping with so many strangers, touching so many cocks, sucking so many dicks.
I am not saying they cant have normal lives, I am just saying to road back to being a normal person with a normal life is one always looking over your shoulder, treading on egg shells. And I suspect once a mirror is smashed, you can mend it, but cracks are still there.
You need to have the strength to deal with the cracks as long as you are with her.

That's just my experience talking.

So ask her if she really love you, quit now, today. And never go back into the trade. See what she says to that

[desolutionhurts]

我不是什么郭靖。 但你是我的黄容。
金庸故事的结局会是我们的吗?

你说过你关注我, 托顾客留意我在论坛上的发表。

我用了很多不同的名。。你有读到我在这写的, 却不能对你述说的吗? 我跌过的感受, 爬起来的挣扎, 哀求佛把你送回来的痛苦。。我好不容易能往前走了, 老天却选择在这时答应我的哀求。。你知道我现在对情的恐惧吗?

我很想洒脱的回答你昨晚叫我做的。。。 侧个身说, xx 我们在一起吧！

可是我是个窝囊。 我没爱过任何人这么深过,也没这么彻底的跌过。你从没问过我感受如何。。你知道吗? 我们真的可以坐下来把我们的距离拉近吗? 把问题坦承的讲出来然后克服吗? 恐惧能克服吗?

求佛有用的话, 我就求把我的世俗欲望带走。我不要了。让我出家算了。

[sg50]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

我不是什么郭靖。 但你是我的黄容。
金庸故事的结局会是我们的吗?

你说过你关注我, 托顾客留意我在论坛上的发表。

我用了很多不同的名。。你有读到我在这写的, 却不能对你述说的吗? 我跌过的感受, 爬起来的挣扎, 哀求佛把你送回来的痛苦。。我好不容易能往前走了, 老天却选择在这时答应我的哀求。。你知道我现在对情的恐惧吗?

我很想洒脱的回答你昨晚叫我做的。。。 侧个身说, xx 我们在一起吧！

可是我是个窝囊。 我没爱过任何人这么深过,也没这么彻底的跌过。你从没问过我感受如何。。你知道吗? 我们真的可以坐下来把我们的距离拉近吗? 把问题坦承的讲出来然后克服吗? 恐惧能克服吗?

求佛有用的话, 我就求把我的世俗欲望带走。我不要了。让我出家算了。

Don't believe what she said about testing you. It is all BS.

[desolutionhurts]

Originally Posted by sg50

Don't believe what she said about testing you. It is all BS.

Do u know something I don't, or is that your speculation? Or perhaps some other reason?

[Hanster]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

我不是什么郭靖。 但你是我的黄容。
金庸故事的结局会是我们的吗?

你说过你关注我, 托顾客留意我在论坛上的发表。

我用了很多不同的名。。你有读到我在这写的, 却不能对你述说的吗? 我跌过的感受, 爬起来的挣扎, 哀求佛把你送回来的痛苦。。我好不容易能往前走了, 老天却选择在这时答应我的哀求。。你知道我现在对情的恐惧吗?

我很想洒脱的回答你昨晚叫我做的。。。 侧个身说, xx 我们在一起吧！

可是我是个窝囊。 我没爱过任何人这么深过,也没这么彻底的跌过。你从没问过我感受如何。。你知道吗? 我们真的可以坐下来把我们的距离拉近吗? 把问题坦承的讲出来然后克服吗? 恐惧能克服吗?

求佛有用的话, 我就求把我的世俗欲望带走。我不要了。让我出家算了。

这是哪 部电视剧偷来的对白？ 你要出家当和尚？ 算了吧， 你就别污辱佛门了！你确实是个窝囊废！

[korean]

Originally Posted by Hanster

这是哪 部电视剧偷来的对白？ 你要出家当和尚？ 算了吧， 你就别污辱佛门了！你确实是个窝囊废！

放下龙棍，立地成佛

[SEAsiaJoe]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

If you trust a WL then pigs can climb trees...to me ML, FL, KTV, are Working Ladies (WL)...



Very simple...we can send guys to massage and tell you result if you let us know where she works and her name/number...

Hoot! Hoot!

If Ah Pek Ang aka Hurricane88 can be trusted then pigs really can climb trees!

Where is your dog SEAJ aka Joseph T.T. Tan?

LOL
SEAsiaJoe

[desolutionhurts]

我们复合了。现在的感受是有点恐惧但也有点幸福。前天我请老天给我一个暗示, 让我试探了缘分, 让我寻寻觅觅在人海中找到了你。我们相见时眼睛含的泪, 你我都看到了。再差一刻你就上了车离开了, 老天要说的话, 我明白了。 别人可以祝福我或嘲笑我, 但至少在这一刻, 爱把你带回我的身旁。

[hugs]

go for it ba. everyone said no. but so what right? you dont need logic becos you dont give a care for logic. you care about your feelings of cloud-9. even if you went to heaven, dropped and be smashed, you die happy right? you rather die happy all broken into pieces, than to be alive and live in one piece right? to you, climbing that snow mountain is risky but you like to live life that way, than to be living a boring yet safe life right?

can i offer another suggestion? can u learn how to climb a snow mountain first before you attempt it? you really think you are superman ah? all the bad things happened to sommeone else but you? look at all the posts above me. they are teaching you and guiding you. they been to snow mountain.

try to communicate with those bros who are sharing with you in your thread. they care. dont insist on pouring out onto them, but also drink up what they are sharing with you.

你的痛苦=她的本领。

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

我们复合了。现在的感受是有点恐惧但也有点幸福。前天我请老天给我一个暗示, 让我试探了缘分, 让我寻寻觅觅在人海中找到了你。我们相见时眼睛含的泪, 你我都看到了。再差一刻你就上了车离开了, 老天要说的话, 我明白了。 别人可以祝福我或嘲笑我, 但至少在这一刻, 爱把你带回我的身旁。

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

been there, well really whatever we say, you will still go for her, because that's what your heart wants.

told you you would do this no matter what the bro here say

just do what your heart says. even if you have to pay with your life, suffering, you live it according to what you wanted. At the end, no regrets, and don't blame anyone for the results.

[aries]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

我们复合了。现在的感受是有点恐惧但也有点幸福。前天我请老天给我一个暗示, 让我试探了缘分, 让我寻寻觅觅在人海中找到了你。我们相见时眼睛含的泪, 你我都看到了。再差一刻你就上了车离开了, 老天要说的话, 我明白了。 别人可以祝福我或嘲笑我, 但至少在这一刻, 爱把你带回我的身旁。

It sounded ever so familiar. it was an expensive lesson learned for me. fyi $70K...

Recently i RTM this syt tier 1 ML quite often. She started asking me out once she knows my profession & the car i drives. But i tactfully turned her down. & just few days back she was sweet talking a guy over wechat when i was with her. Admit she is good & offers some extra to me when i visit her. I stop at that cos i had learned it the hard way. Hopefully we are not talking about the same girl.

[sex crusader]

Originally Posted by desolutionhurts

我们复合了。现在的感受是有点恐惧但也有点幸福。前天我请老天给我一个暗示, 让我试探了缘分, 让我寻寻觅觅在人海中找到了你。我们相见时眼睛含的泪, 你我都看到了。再差一刻你就上了车离开了, 老天要说的话, 我明白了。 别人可以祝福我或嘲笑我, 但至少在这一刻, 爱把你带回我的身旁。

复你 妹！looks like u just post here to show off! lucky this is a zap free zone....really fell like zapping you although i up ppl's pts more!

[saabking]

Originally Posted by hugs

go for it ba. everyone said no. but so what right? you dont need logic becos you dont give a care for logic. you care about your feelings of cloud-9. even if you went to heaven, dropped and be smashed, you die happy right? you rather die happy all broken into pieces, than to be alive and live in one piece right? to you, climbing that snow mountain is risky but you like to live life that way, than to be living a boring yet safe life right?

can i offer another suggestion? can u learn how to climb a snow mountain first before you attempt it? you really think you are superman ah? all the bad things happened to sommeone else but you? look at all the posts above me. they are teaching you and guiding you. they been to snow mountain.

try to communicate with those bros who are sharing with you in your thread. they care. dont insist on pouring out onto them, but also drink up what they are sharing with you.

你的痛苦=她的本领。

I have been to snow mountain too - lucky I survived the climb though with a couple of injuries. Well - many of us just need to learn it the hard way I guess

So just let pray that he will survive the climb and come back in one piece