Advise please

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

A girl that can go work in an ago-go bar earning 20K baht monthly, and still afford to pay 2K baht monthly for her bf to do visa runs, I really song sarn her.

Amazing to read this.... hmmm like "private dancer", Joy works hard to give money to Park for him to smoke, drink, eat, buy a bike n bonk around. In return , Park encourages or should I say demands Joy goes short time with customers....Once in awhile slap her, but Joy still feels Park love her a lot....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

haha in that case,u need to consult Singrakthai since he is the one who said all that is achievable for anyone who comes bkk.If cannot succeed then go ask him why hor.

Sure boh???

Singrakthai where r u.... help me find lobang in Thailand leh...

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Working in an ad firm earning 2K plus still not enough then work harder lor.U got 2K SGD plus, not enough meh? Ur tirak only earn 20K baht=800++SGD. So u give her 800++ minus ur 2K ++ still have 1000++ mah. Since u are into soccer betting, toto and other investments as they pay more than ur day advertising job, U can simply afford to bring your girl out of the bar. Correct me if I am wrong here.

S$800 in bkk maybe barely sufficient at times,but 2k u want to live off with 2 persons??I personally do not think its enuff loh in spore.I worked in the ad firm cos of friend's need to fill it in.I stayed on the job because i get to see SIA model girls and stuff working there.Since my company does SIA advertising.i did not stayed for the job for the money.As i said,my other sidelines are far more profitable than working long hrs in the office.I never said i cannot afford to bring her out of bar.It's a matter of when i want to do it.I was saying to her,prior to reading this thread,i ask her,if i want her out of the bar,and come spore will she come with me?

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Visa runs u think I don't know meh. Last time I use jackgolf only 1800baht, 1 mth visa extension from poi pet, aranyaprathet. Now petrol increase, of course costs more lor. Last time I go, don't even need photo.

must be pretty long ago since its been 2k for quite some time already if i am not wrong.its not cos of the recent upsurge of petrol prices that why 2k okies..please get ur facts rite.u want talk last time,last time just give passport can already,dun have to go also,they do it for u...

Originally Posted by siamcutey

But the issue here now is YOU ARE NOT WORKING AND SHE IS STILL WORKING IN THE BAR, so do we call that a solution?

That is not a long term solution but that is the current solution to the problems both of us faced now.Now do not come ask me to post it all here,since i find that its a waste of time posting all that here,in the end most of time people will talk machiam they can settle it like that.Already said tirakship between WLs is not easy,so people here think can just pack up and go and everything will be perfect hor.

[Jun|ch|]

[QUOTE=swing123]or rather, what's his LONG TERM solution???/[QUOTE]

please read the previous posts than asking the same questions again

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

I already stated that,its not that i not wanted to go back spore,its her who not letting me go back,try talking to her then,since talking to me is no use.There are some things people here just dun understand between both of us.If she is that understanding,then i wont ended up here in the first place.But bros here can post anything u like,since this is a forum.But unless u really know my girl,then u come tell me what i should do when she insists on some things.

what is there to validate my actions??I do as i deem fit if i choose to.I never said anything about advice that are not nice to the ears rite?

Yo Jun|ch|
Own up like a man lah. Yeah, you can say she don't want you to go back singapore and find a work. But she surely got tell you don't go fuck other girl's behind her back, but you still do. Whose gf don't tell that to their boyfriends?

Don't go and push the blame to her saying that she is not understanding. Upon reading this, really make me puke.
No one force you to take your passport go buy air-ticket and go bangkok stay with her.

I really pity this girl again for her bf bad-mouthing her on a public forum.

SC

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by DNAT

My only advice is:
If you really love her, you should before end of this year
- come back to Sg
- get a job in Sg
- bring her back to Sg
- supply her maybe around S$400 (only half of wat she earns in BKK as claimed by you, but should be enough lor)) to remit home + as her monthly allowances in Sg.
- slowly make her obtain a proper job in Sg to make her financially less dependable on you / or to increase the household income - both will benefit in the long run.

I believe if one really loves a gal, he will feel 'down' to see his gal go to work at a nite spot everynight. Moreover, you can't possibly go on like present .. this type of 'nua-lan' life will make you to slack even deeper and it's very unhealthy psychologically.

Faster come back lah ...

that was what i posted a few posts back.Lucky thing is that she said she did not have to remit any money back to bkk,since her parents are able to fend themselves.

U think leh,i already slack so long until so sian liao.I told her too the same thing.Maybe can write a pettition and sign it and tell her to release me okie mai??

I have so many issues to settle back in spore and are rather urgent already.If she refuses to listen to me,what should i do??

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

People don't worry, actually why should we worry for him?

I only pity his gf. That's all.

SC

No need to pass judgements if u do not know what she is thinking in her head lah.I myself sometimes also do not know how to please her,sometimes become anger her onli if i bring up sensitive issues to discuss.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

S$800 in bkk maybe barely sufficient at times,but 2k u want to live off with 2 persons??I personally do not think its enuff loh in spore.I worked in the ad firm cos of friend's need to fill it in.I stayed on the job because i get to see SIA model girls and stuff working there.Since my company does SIA advertising.i did not stayed for the job for the money.As i said,my other sidelines are far more profitable than working long hrs in the office.I never said i cannot afford to bring her out of bar.It's a matter of when i want to do it.I was saying to her,prior to reading this thread,i ask her,if i want her out of the bar,and come spore will she come with me?

Hope you read carefully again. I wrote earn 2K SGD in singapore, send her 800++ SGD convert to 20K thai baht. Then she don't need to work in the bar, while you still have 1000++SGD left for you to spend in SG.

Frankly lah, if your sidelines are far more profitable than working long hrs in the office, she doesn't need to fork out your 2000baht Visa Runs.

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

must be pretty long ago since its been 2k for quite some time already if i am not wrong.its not cos of the recent upsurge of petrol prices that why 2k okies..please get ur facts rite.u want talk last time,last time just give passport can already,dun have to go also,they do it for u...

Petrol prices didn't surge up recently, it has been on-going for the past 2 years.

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

Already said tirakship between WLs is not easy,so people here think can just pack up and go and everything will be perfect hor.

U already pack up and go to BKK already mah. So???

SC

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Amazing to read this.... hmmm like "private dancer", Joy works hard to give money to Park for him to smoke, drink, eat, buy a bike n bonk around. In return , Park encourages or should I say demands Joy goes short time with customers....Once in awhile slap her, but Joy still feels Park love her a lot....

That's why mah,this story is fiction mah.Not real.by the way i do not drink,nor do i smoke.Nor do i buy a bike since i travel by trains and buses. hahaa that's the way the life is here.I know someone in person who beats up his gf,yet gf gives him money for boinks,and drugs..

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

I know someone in person who beats up his gf,yet gf gives him money for boinks,and drugs..

Wow I just wonder how the f he does that. He has a 20 inches long n 3 inches thick dick??

[Jun|ch|]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Yo Jun|ch|
Own up like a man lah. Yeah, you can say she don't want you to go back singapore and find a work. But she surely got tell you don't go fuck other girl's behind her back, but you still do. Whose gf don't tell that to their boyfriends?

Don't go and push the blame to her saying that she is not understanding. Upon reading this, really make me puke.
No one force you to take your passport go buy air-ticket and go bangkok stay with her.

I really pity this girl again for her bf bad-mouthing her on a public forum.

SC

Please lah,u trying to make things into a big matter up to u lah,i got no time to reply u today.I need to go out today hor.I do not need to badmouth her man,since she was with me many times when i post on this forum.She knows what i am typing to SC the other day.If i bad mouth her,think she still stays with me meh??trying to make me look bad here,try again man,..

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

Please lah,u trying to make things into a big matter up to u lah,i got no time to reply u today.I need to go out today hor.I do not need to badmouth her man,since she was with me many times when i post on this forum.She knows what i am typing to SC the other day.If i bad mouth her,think she still stays with me meh??trying to make me look bad here,try again man,..

U badmouth no badmouth, I let others read

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

I already stated that,its not that i not wanted to go back spore,its her who not letting me go back,try talking to her then,since talking to me is no use.There are some things people here just dun understand between both of us.If she is that understanding,then i wont ended up here in the first place.

If you really show her what you typing to me, remember to be more daring to tell her what you relate to us about you fcuking her colleague in Meechai Mansion then.

SC

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by Jun|ch|

haha in that case,u need to consult Singrakthai since he is the one who said all that is achievable for anyone who comes bkk.If cannot succeed then go ask him why hor.

ok lah, i admit lah.. i suan Jun|ch| because i was jealous of Jun|ch|'s great stunts in Thailand! I admit lah... I'm so so sorry.. I apologise to everyone here!

i admit Jun|ch| is the only one in S'pore, JB and some say Batam who's able to:
1) make a agogo lady fall crazily in love with him.
2) and agogo gf who'll allow him to stay in her apartment, while also giving him maybe 100 or 200 baht everyday to eat at mc donalds and take bus travel around and go surf internet and post on SB forums and write about his "stunts".
3) Also not forgetting giving him at least 2,000THB to renew visa every month.
4) fucked agogo gf's colleauge for free without gf calling him at least every hour to spot check him while she's away attending to her grandma.
5) agogo gf promising him she'll never sleep with other men in agogo bar, but will work her ass off to make at least 20,000THB every month by getting at least 466 THB tips working EVERYDAY.
6) meeting a University girl at Siam Square and she must've instantly fell in love with him because she took the effort to show him and bring him to his gf's apartment.
7) at least 2-3 Thai women waiting to sponsor him.
8) being a soft heartie and loving gf so much, cannot go back s'pore because gf threatened to kill herself if he choose to go back s'pore to continue with his life even though promising her he'll bring her back to s'pore with him.
9) enjoy himself in Thailand meeting up samsters and not having to work.
10) make a living out of betting soccer, toto and investments (which has maturity date which are probably bonds, fixed deposits or insurance endowment plans).
11) speak "sawadeekrup" and "khob khun krup" like a Khon Thai....
12) has a long term plan for Thai gf by applying for gf to work in s'pore because she's "educated", but of cos not now because ....... its just talks at this moment......

I can only think of 12 things i'm jealous right now.. when i can think of more, i'll add in...

I'm so sorry... Jun|ch| is truely God-send to Thai women and pride of s'pore. I shouldn't be jealous but instead proud for what Jun|ch| had done for us s'poreans.

[JustNormal]

Originally Posted by singrakthai

ok lah, i admit lah.. i suan Jun|ch| because i was jealous of Jun|ch|'s great stunts in Thailand! I admit lah... I'm so so sorry.. I apologise to everyone here!

i admit Jun|ch| is the only one in S'pore, JB and some say Batam who's able to:
1) make a agogo lady fall crazily in love with him.
2) and agogo gf who'll allow him to stay in her apartment, while also giving him maybe 100 or 200 baht everyday to eat at mc donalds and take bus travel around and go surf internet and post on SB forums and write about his "stunts".
3) Also not forgetting giving him at least 2,000THB to renew visa every month.
4) fucked agogo gf's colleauge for free without gf calling him at least every hour to spot check him while she's away attending to her grandma.
5) agogo gf promising him she'll never sleep with other men in agogo bar, but will work her ass off to make at least 20,000THB every month by getting at least 466 THB tips working EVERYDAY.
6) meeting a University girl at Siam Square and she must've instantly fell in love with him because she took the effort to show him and bring him to his gf's apartment.
7) at least 2-3 Thai women waiting to sponsor him.
8) being a soft heartie and loving gf so much, cannot go back s'pore because gf threatened to kill herself if he choose to go back s'pore to continue with his life even though promising her he'll bring her back to s'pore with him.
9) enjoy himself in Thailand meeting up samsters and not having to work.
10) make a living out of betting soccer, toto and investments (which has maturity date which are probably bonds, fixed deposits or insurance endowment plans).
11) speak "sawadeekrup" and "khob khun krup" like a Khon Thai....
12) has a long term plan for Thai gf by applying for gf to work in s'pore because she's "educated", but of cos not now because ....... its just talks at this moment......

I can only think of 12 things i'm jealous right now.. when i can think of more, i'll add in...

I'm so sorry... Jun|ch| is truely God-send to Thai women and pride of s'pore. I shouldn't be jealous but instead proud for what Jun|ch| had done for us s'poreans.

You do not have to be jealous... Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so...

[williamangkh]

...after reading more....i think bro jun is living in a fantasy world which most people would dream of....so bro jun if you think it is within your own principle...than continue your way of living.

As for my own principles....i believe i should be interested to take care the life of my "girl" by ensuring she has a better life with me than not being with me. If you think she is currently enjoying her life better with you...than you are very lucky! But as a man, i will not want to see her continuing her current work but instead lower the current living style and work it out together from scratch.

My two cents worth!


Cheers!

By the way, thanks bro jun for the points...but i am not here for the points!