How to get my FB back?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by elaiinee

Enough details?

Hell yeah...tons infact.
Actually, if you really read your own post, you'll know where and what went wrong.
The cause of HELL for him and the 2 of you is actually you yourself!!!!
Why?
Cos you did not follow the basic rules of being the other 1! Period.
Very simple, how would you react if you're married, had a FB who doesnt stick to the rules and get caught by your husband cos your FB is a dumb arse player who sms you in the wee hours of the morning, calls & sms you in the weekends???????
It's all there!
As a neutral, cut the dude some slack...you've caused him BIG misery.....let him go & find yourself another meat stick!

[flowerpot]

your FB also have got no choice but to do this to you....

He is monitored by his so-called wife now.... who knows which sms-es could be seen by his wife....

give him some time, for things to cool down, after probation period is over, than the animal in him will be released......

[jasdude]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

The cause of HELL for him and the 2 of you is actually you yourself!!!!

Agree with BRO DO_YOU_BJ TOTALLY !

As a FB , you should be as transparent in the lives as the other FB . Your emotions for your FB got the better of you ! Now the worst has being done , your FB has to do damage control .

THINK HARD GAL! if you are that important to him NOW ! would he be by your side or the side of his so call wife NOW ! wake up and move on! You need a hard knock to get on track !

[slider_72]

Sheesh... head bang wall also don't know what happened. Make up your mind TS, whether you want to remain as FB or become his mistress. You think you are just FB but behave like a kept woman. You crossed the line and now he suffers. I pity the poor chap. Probably sleeping on the sofa now.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Sheesh... head bang wall also don't know what happened. Make up your mind TS, whether you want to remain as FB or become his mistress. You think you are just FB but behave like a kept woman. You crossed the line and now he suffers. I pity the poor chap. Probably sleeping on the sofa now.

Worst, knelling on durian husks pulling his ears...bwahahahahha

[colins]

Originally Posted by elaiinee

More details? Okie...
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Enough details?

Yeah. As his 'FB', you were unconsciously relying on him for emotional support, something which FBs do not share. FBs share physical support only.

Your action has led to the discovery of this relationship by his wife. He is now going thru emotional roller coaster stage trying to get her favours back.

My advice is, stop all communications. When the storm blows over on his side, he will come and find you. When that happens, he will come to EXPLAIN TO YOU why he cannot contact you. If he doesn't come back, pls forget about him. 连偷吃都不会的男人，只能一辈子被一个女人喂。

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by colins

连偷吃都不会的男人，只能一辈子被一个女人喂。

I am simply amazed how do you people become so learned......

The phases used nevered failed to enlighten me.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

I am simply amazed how do you people become so learned......

The phases used nevered failed to enlighten me.

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF THE FORCE my brudder!

[buducidal]

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF THE FORCE my brudder!

I think we must also thank the power of all the PRC mei mei(s)

They helped us to improve our 2nd Language and also bed skills......, last but not least, also suck us dry dry, both in terms of Money and Sperm.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by buducidal

Gentlemen I fear that your logical arguments will not appeal to the feminine psyche. They will only act if they an emotional motivation otherwise we are just trying to water the concrete and expect it to magically grow grass

In that case, I will have to plagarise a phrase from Bro DYBJ's signature. TS 是你的，就是你的。不是你的，不要抢！

[demonorc]

Hi Elaine,

I guess the best way to get back your FB is to first give him some time.. maybe alot of time as well.

First of all, he needs to get his wife to trust him all over again, then next, he will then be able to come out again.

Who knows, when you sms him, his hp will be vetted by the wife, and then, the waiting time gets longer again.

Once he gain the trust of his wife again, maybe only then he is able to come and find you ,or he might just find another fb. That, noone will know in the future.

I guess in life, a relationship with a married person is always like this, we must be prepare for the worst to happen.

Enjoy while it last and sighs when it is over.

Give him lots of time and meantime, if someone else comes along, do consider him. Thats what I can advice you.

[uiop]

This is the worst thread that i ever seen, there are still some morons advice on how TS going back to her FB.

No wonder the divorced rate in Singapore are getting higher and higher.

[pewpew]

Dear, that is a relationship that you are trying to find, not a FB from the way you mentioned, start moving on, forget about him, treat it as a lost relationship.

Just remember what is a partner and what is a FB or else you will hurt yourself again and again.

Hope your wound will heal soon and take care.

Sending this to cheer you up

q(^oo^)p

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by pewpew

Dear, that is a relationship that you are trying to find, not a FB from the way you mentioned, start moving on, forget about him, treat it as a lost relationship.

Just remember what is a partner and what is a FB or else you will hurt yourself again and again.

Hope your wound will heal soon and take care.

Sending this to cheer you up

q(^oo^)p

Very warm words.......upz u 7