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apparently theres what i wan is that xiao yun went to pick a fight with nan nan out of jealous, thinking i like nan nan and has intmate transaction with her, which none of this is true .....
ya ... learn my lesson liao ... thanks guys
finish whatever business, paid and go ... dun get involved .....
bro, as a frequent customer of HC and TN myself, my advice to u is dont bother too much abt the girls. those damn chio PRC SYT who wrks in TN are only keen in laying their hands on a gold mine so they dont have to suffer wrking long hrs earning peanuts and performing their CMI massage on sweaty bodies. if u want to bonk them outside, can. but make clear its all business transaction, no KC involved and nvr ever believe their SOB stories. watever things they say to u just listen with a pinch of salt and once u sense they are trying to push u to bao them better run as far as u can b4 the yr whole pants kana burnt finish. so whether they jealous of each other over u or nt no need to bother just sit back grab yr popcorns and watch free show can liao.
1. We don't fight for girls cause we love them...Face matters.
2. We fight cause bo-song that guy for quite some time liao.
3. Opponent too many bird words.
Anyway...just for reference. Since you like PRC so much...get a job there if your still unemployed. Confirm you can find a good natured PRC girl there. Those that come sg, came to earn money...no offences here for PRC lovers.
You been interpreting events to fit what you wants – You continued to pressure her, initiated all the contacts and you reinterpreted each contact, each visits to the HC and supper treats as her wanting to be connected to you. She tried to shut you down being emotionally unavailable (no sex, no kiss, love is not about affection etc), but you were hoping in your repeated visits that you could warm her up and made her to fall in love with you.
All her tell-tale signs were screaming loudly in your ear to wake up: I am just providing massage services to you, it’s only business, nothing personal!.
Unfortunately you piled interpretation upon interpretation instead of looking at what reality is trying to show you. You trapped yourselves in a non-existent relationship that will never give you the love and closeness you want, while your life and job were passing you by.
1) The gals are not fighting over their love for you, they are fighting over:
a) Working politics
b) Your YU XIAO YUN was probably pissed over the gossiping behind her back, of losing a client to the 2 gals and most importantly, lost revenue $$$.
2) She was nice and friendly to you because you were her client, probably a nice one ( there's a hokkien word for this but won't want to offend you) who bot her suppers treats and etc....
Try to be willing to see the true nature of the situation, it’s only your 一厢情愿的想像 and 表错情..keep looking at it until the fog of denial and misinterpretation clears and you start to see things as they really are and a sense of peace for you to go find a new job! .
wat u mentioned is more likely the real fact bro, so far i hv yet to see or heard of PRC TN girls cat fighting over 1 customer. cat fighting over $ maybe, but nt the customer.
as i thought we were a couple, i would wish to be love by her too by kissing her ... gana rejected!
she apparently still angry over some matters, i tried to coax her and tell her how worried am i but got scolded by her, saying things like who am i to her and why shld she reports her movement to me and she went out with a fellow country person, but dun wish to tell me if its a male or female, etc.
things like why nan nan picked up a man (me) whom she (xiaoyun) dun wan .... etc gals kind of accusations.
i ggigled [ thinking of 2 women fight indirectly because of me]
I have summarized some of the points you had made.
From your story, it is VERY CLEAR that Xiao Yun NEVER love u at all leh. U sound like a naive 15 years old boy who has never dated before.
Dun be kum lan to think the 2 women quarrel over you. U are nothing to them. U are not the bf of either. Just someone who TA PAO meals for them.
Wake up your idea! Sometimes ppl like u need harsh words to wake up!
well it all began a month plus ago when my body aches because my last job was a storeman ,,, then read one spa is a decent place to be and no hank panky there known, so went for a try., all prc.
Not FL/WL leh... How come all the bros say so?
But still sound like a really fucked up story of digging one's own grave.
Hope you have found your way out of it by now, bro TS. From your replies, sound like you're still in the "kicking self" stage.
27-04-2009, 04:24 PM
