How To KNow if Your Wife Is Cheating on You??

[AngusYoung]

TS, where are you? So many bros have responded, you should at least make some comments.

I think the biggest point here seems to be the comment regarding how come all men tease with their tongue sticking out like that.

TS, can you confirm this was in reference to lickng her cunt? It wasnt clear in your post but I think all bros concluded it was.

If indeed it was, then you should ask her about that comment even if you have not asked her then. It could be mis-communication and once she told you what she meant.... it could make things easier for you.

Honestly, if she was cheating will she make such a stupid comment?

[Cocky]

Originally Posted by angrybigpenis

Alamak, just spend time with her, listen to her and fuck her every night. Once she is well fed at home, she won't stray.

Also helps to fuck her every night so you can check for cream pie.

Kill 2 birds with 1 stone.

Not quite true, a man will "eat outside" & go home even he have a change of heart. As "eating outside" for men is LUST not LOVE. But once a woman allow a man to "eat" her most of the time is feeling & emotion is involved. Cos most women will only want to have sex when there is "FEELING or EMOTION".

Talk to your wife in a calm & peacefull manner, if she really have a man outside than is better to go seperate way. Cos is not easy for a women to have a changes of heart but if that happen..... Most of the time, she is NOT IN LOVE with you anymore.

My 2 cents worth.........!

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by Cocky

Not quite true, a man will "eat outside" & go home even he have a change of heart. As "eating outside" for men is LUST not LOVE.

Not always true... we can have an affair outside with 'love' and still keep our marriage for a hundred and one reasons...

But once a woman allow a man to "eat" her most of the time is feeling & emotion is involved. Cos most women will only want to have sex when there is "FEELING or EMOTION".

True... but partially. Sometimes women have affairs just for the sake of sex and will still stay married for the same 100 and 1 reasons...

Had an office fb once...she even had a 3rd child that she strongly felt was mine (but not confirm by dna test lah), we had some feelings for each other but we both also had our own families and don't want to rock the boats. We eventually broke off amicably when situation no long allow the affair to continue 'conveniently'. As far as I know she is now still 'happily' married.

Talk to your wife in a calm & peacefull manner, if she really have a man outside than is better to go seperate way. Cos is not easy for a women to have a changes of heart but if that happen..... Most of the time, she is NOT IN LOVE with you anymore.

Unless TS is like Bro Peter Pan...don't mind wife tauchiak outside, mostly men can't take it lah...some women still can for financial or whatever reasons...allow the hubby to have 'supper' outside. Best is both 'steal-eat' but stay married if there are children involved. Everybody happy!

My 2 cents worth.........!

There is no hard and fast rule where human relationships are concern. So many factors...so many different circumstances. That's why we are human and NOT robots!

[Taihao]

Originally Posted by yang punk

There is no hard and fast rule where human relationships are concern. So many factors...so many different circumstances. That's why we are human and NOT robots!

Agreed with you totally. In fact I will add that all generalisations of human relationship are dangerous.

[dormant]

That the birds of worry and sadness fly above your head, this you cannot change. But that they build nests in your hair, this you can prevent.

So do not fret. William Churchill once said:

"When I look back on all these worries, I remember the story of the old man who said on his deathbed that he had had a lot of trouble in his life, most of which had never happened."

The last thing I have to share with you is this saying: "Worry gives a small thing a big shadow".

[android]

The best way is to confront. I don't think you would want to catch her in the act right?

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by android

The best way is to confront. I don't think you would want to catch her in the act right?

Confrontation without evidence will lead to many secondary negative effects.. for example:
1. She will outright deny and may even get pissed off about such confrontation and started yelling and shouting and fighting..
2. she will be more careful now and cheong more carefully.
3. she and him will now officially register a crack in the relationship and this scar will remain and probably not heal but mutate into something more ugly
4. he will be constantly reminded of this problem and slowly but surely the problem will eat him up alive! no bones left.

Lets play out the possible methods of confrontation...

Scenario #1 - he confront agressively and accuse her of cheonging...
She responds with denial and violent... that immediately puts him in a weaker position and try to calm her down and eventually play on her terms.

Scenario #2 - nice romantic quite dinner and try to pop the questions as gently as possible
Well, he can start by saying "you know.. i know darn well that I am not a PERFECT man in many ways... and after all these years.. i feel that you could have deserved a better man rather than suffer a life like this with me.. but since we are married is that anything you like me to improve on in order to be a better husband?" Possibly with that, she comes up with a list that takes 2 weeks to go thru in detail ... either case.. he is at weaker position before anything starts.

So, how to confront?? how to win in such situation? If husband gets violent and hits wife.. police case... if wife gets violent and hits husband.. still husband fault.. if he reports.. tomorrow he will be in newspaper labelled as hen-pecked!

Women in SG today are not stupid damsel-in-distress types, so do you thing they will be forth-coming in their response and say "yah lor.. i cheonging around lei.. so how ah!???"

[soundworks]

Originally Posted by android

The best way is to confront. I don't think you would want to catch her in the act right?

But if u catch her in the act,u dont have to pay a single cent when doing a divorce.

[deptrai4u]

Originally Posted by soundworks

But if u catch her in the act,u dont have to pay a single cent when doing a divorce.

That is totally not true!

In any divorce case, even if its the ladies' fault.. the man penalty of the man is still exactly the same... in Singapore's Law, divorce is divorce.. regardless of man or woman's fault and the man is ALWAYS on the loosing end!

[soundworks]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

That is totally not true!

In any divorce case, even if its the ladies' fault.. the man penalty of the man is still exactly the same... in Singapore's Law, divorce is divorce.. regardless of man or woman's fault and the man is ALWAYS on the loosing end!

Bro,u r very wrong,if u can prove adultery,u dont have to pay a single cent to her. any lawyer bro around

[lam1673]

Originally Posted by soundworks

Bro,u r very wrong,if u can prove adultery,u dont have to pay a single cent to her. any lawyer bro around

That's not the case. As long as it is a divorce, whether whoever commit adultery, the law still require the couple to split their property. It is hard to fight the case not to pay the wife.

[soundworks]

Originally Posted by lam1673

That's not the case. As long as it is a divorce, whether whoever commit adultery, the law still require the couple to split their property. It is hard to fight the case not to pay the wife.

I meant alimony,u dont have to pay a single cent.

[TroyGage]

Originally Posted by soundworks

I meant alimony,u dont have to pay a single cent.

I'm pretty sure that you still have to pay alimony. Singapore is a "no fault" state.

I'm very sure you have to pay alimony if you have kids.

[bairni]

Bro TS,

1. take a few days leave...
2. tell wifery that you be outstation.
3. check in to a hotel
4. standby near her office building and wait for her to knock off.

By the second nite you should find out something.

wish you all the luck!

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by soundworks

I meant alimony,u dont have to pay a single cent.

No matter what, woman charter make sure the guy will have to bear the woman half.