Is paid sex really addictive?

[topcook1]

Of course is addictive..even though I have ED and always in my mind keep on thinking of bonking...

[essray]

I\'m glad that TS started this thread so that many others are able to share their opinions and hopefully help others who are also trying to get rid of the addiction.

The problem with us men is that we have our urges (2IC talking) which will keep on coming no matter what that will require us to release them from time to time. This is not necessarily unhealthy, only problem is how you go about releasing it and learning how to control. Having pretty girls dressed sexily everywhere and FLs who for a big fee will sextisfy you does not help especially for those without girlfriends to help them out. But I do agree that being busy helps as you will not have time for your mind to wander and your 2IC to take over your mind.

Perhaps we should have some SBF activities for bros who cannot control their addition to FLs and help them to save their money drain.

[kreator28]

No,its not addictive.Just bonk once in a while.Mostly money spend on 4D and toto.

[Singaporeaura]

Paid sex is definitely addictive. From my first session 13yrs ago, already spent quite abit of $$$ and still continuing till today!

[Oralcraz]

I pay for HJ because I have an urge for sex, an urge to hug a woman and an urge to smell the fragrance of a woman. In my mid thirties when I had a so call affair, I did not paid a single cent for FL/WLs. So, is not paid sex that is addictive. Is the sexual urge that make us go for sex ..... and in this aspect, paid is the most convenient way.

[一 条 龙]

initially I concede that I'm addicted to sex.
Spend quite a number of amount in HC/TN/GL/OKT in this forum etc...
However, recently i felt slowly lost interest in visiting such place that i used to visit though i have the urge. Lately I would prefer having sex with a little more feeling (though is a paid sex) rather than fuck & forget. Or maybe I' m the weird one.
Anyone having the same feeling as me ?

[samyboys]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Yes initially. You will have a sense of conquering the world. Chinese girl (tried), Korean (tried), Thai (tried), Singaporean beauty (tried), lesbian (tried) etc... Some experiences will be memorable.

But after sometime, you will realise that you feel very empty inside. You know... so what if I had paid to bonk the prettiest lady? I still sleep alone at night, I still feel empty. Money can only buy you temporary happiness. Really want to pay to bonk strangers until cock can't stand meh?

I find that when I have hobbies, organise gatherings... basically things to prevent me from being free, I don't have strong craving for paid sex. But once i'm free and have nothing to do... then maybe. So trying not to be too free.

good point, keep yourself busy so that you won't stray

[samyboys]

generally i have friends that are active outfield.

their reasons - the one they have at home cannot give them what paid sex can offer.
maybe paid sex workers are more experienced and work towards $ and therefore satisfy you.
some come with huge boobs which u can play with, which again if your partner do not have, means you can never experienced that kind of feeling.

but its quite a bit for $ for that 120mins of passion to 'release' stress. its always the process that is interesting, the end result seems the same. shoot out the load and feel relaxed.

talk about conscience, deep inside you do not feel right.
maybe fear of some diseases.. getting hooked?

but for sure. if a man cannot control his sex desires, and no $, will he end up being a molester and rapist?

[dexblu]

Originally Posted by richie_rich

for me, paid sex is not addictive.
but once a man has spending power and is bored of having home-made steak all the time, he would want to go outside for a burger once a while. that's me.

hmmmm... very true... and i noticed that you have been going for GOURMET BURGERS instead of the type which the fast food joints serve !!!

how befitting to aptly name yourself as RICHIE RICH !!!

[samyboys]

whats worrying when u don't even know you are addicited

[longwinter]

if paid sex isnt addictive, there wont be so many of us lurkin around in this forum liao le mah.

Ya, agreed that paid sex is addictive. Somemore u can even use $ to buy it, that makes it even much more tempting to all the guys out there. U dun have to go thru the normal procedure of knowing the girl, wooing process n etc...

Basically it is like free n easy, with no hassle or trouble, u have the $, u get what u wan...

[phantom010436]

Yes,it is so don`t start because it is hard to kick.

[cuntcum]

Originally Posted by longwinter

if paid sex isnt addictive, there wont be so many of us lurkin around in this forum liao le mah.
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Agree bro, dont forget that only paid sex can fulfill your fantasy and fetish, if you ask your partner then got scolded upside down lao.

Confirmed additive

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by cuntcum

Agree bro, dont forget that only paid sex can fulfill your fantasy and fetish, if you ask your partner then got scolded upside down lao.

Confirmed additive

That is why I urge newbies to really think carefully about it before plunging into this world of commerical sex. Once u try it le, u are hooked forever.

[Boliaoz]

For me , paid sex is getting stale. I am venturing into FB relationship. The process is far more enriching and fun, rather than a straight cash transaction.