Woman offers but man refuses

[wondergal]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

When I'm with a girl for too long I take longer and longer to shoot. They think I'm getting better but I'm probably just losing interest. But men can separate sex from emotions. When I eat outside, I know when to go home, provided there's no pressure for me to stay physically faithful. To answer your question, I think rejection rate of 6/10 is high enough to start getting suspicious. Anything below that cannot be construed as breakup brink.

Thank for your opinion.

I think you understood the gist/context of my question, and what I'm asking.

[wondergal]

Originally Posted by newbieboy

When I'm with a girl for too long I take longer and longer to shoot. They think I'm getting better but I'm probably just losing interest. But men can separate sex from emotions. When I eat outside, I know when to go home, provided there's no pressure for me to stay physically faithful. To answer your question, I think rejection rate of 6/10 is high enough to start getting suspicious. Anything below that cannot be construed as breakup brink.

Thanks for your opinion.

I think you understood the gist/context of this matter, and what I'm asking.

[yangguo]

Originally Posted by dirtbag_26

bros ,i hear before a lot of story from friend ,from colleague,and i 100% can confirm that EVERY MAN WHO EVER TURN DOWN something like dis ALWAYS REGRET IT

That was what happened to me. I received a sms from my ex-gf recently, hinting me to have sex.

I took very time to consider and finally turned down her offer becos I do not want to feel guilty after that as i am already attached with someone else.

Guess what, I am still cursing at myself now:"CNN why so stupid..?"

Am i a bastard to think that way?

[pdmmlvr]

Normally I don't reject and enjoy the fun of BBBJ, CIM, 69, AR etc.... etc... with my fb, we agreed that she will not sleep with other man after i paid for all her expenses, is talking about few k per month! until one day i found a big box of CD, 12 packs packing and left only 8 pcs in her bags, with a vibrator and women steamulator, i totally lost my apetite, cannot stand when she touch me, BBBJ me I push her away, I finger her using four fingers, make her cum many times on that night, from 10pm till next morning 7 am, never fuck her at all, using the vibrator found as well as my fingers! just to torture her, finger her ass till she feel pain cannot walk properly the next day, ended our relationship immediately before i need to pay her again!

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by wondergal

Sorry, I should make this clearer.

My man friend was telling/advising me about how to tell if a man is losing interest with his relationship/marriage, and maybe seeing another woman for sex. His theory is, assuming that a man does not have religious restrictions, work exhaustion/stress, sexual health problems, and perhaps World Cup included, there is probably no strong reason for any healthy man to refuse sex from his wife/girlfriend.

This man friend was telling me how a wife/girlfriend could spot the signs of trouble in a marriage/relationship, and maybe spot divorce or break-off approaching. He says that if a wife/woman observes her man refusing to have sex with her, it should be panic big time for her.

What are your opinions?

Yes, he is right. Not withstanding any other "seasonal" reasons like those stated above, chances are that the man is starting to drift apart from his woman with a hidden agenda in mind. After all, sex is a VERY BIG thing for us men. And unless there is something very significant to hold on to the current relationship (kids, finances, save face etc), any normal hot-blooded male will be driven into arms of another woman who offers him the sexual thrill that is waning off in his current relationship.

[justfuckit]

Originally Posted by yangguo

That was what happened to me. I received a sms from my ex-gf recently, hinting me to have sex.

I took very time to consider and finally turned down her offer becos I do not want to feel guilty after that as i am already attached with someone else.

Guess what, I am still cursing at myself now:"CNN why so stupid..?"

Am i a bastard to think that way?

So you regret now u r still consider a nice young man but still not mature yet hehe.

Live life to the fullest, including sexual life

[Fatboy39]

Hello dear,
I suppose that you are a sis!
We are not always in the mood for sex one lah. If he is stressed out, tired or has his mind preoccupied with something else his mood would be shifted away from sex. Don't listen to your guy friends. He just probably want you to dump your current BF so he can have a chance at you. I know I would take this advantage if I was in his shoes. Don't get paranoid. I still love my girl very much, yet I reject sex sometimes. At times, I reject because I want to save up and abstain so that our next time would be more special and we would have enough wood for the fire.

Sometimes if a guy says no to you is because they do not see you as a sex object but rather respects you. So do your best to understand.

I hope this helps!
Good Luck!

[fringe929]

the last time my gf wanted and i said no, she replied me she will do the same when i need it too..... wtf..... so in the end had to fake it saying.. "ah ya i joking one.. wanted to tease you..." or end up i suffer in the end.