My life is upside down because of a vietnamese

[m_wu]

Originally Posted by torn

don think so la.... I think maybe she cast long line and reel in the big fish...

But i very small fish leh??? MAybe i will just play along with her and see if her " love " really last ...

TS, I think it is better you do not commit to anything now (if you go back to the village, you may not come back "alive"). Do the DNA testing as one of the Bro suggested.

If positive, & you still want to do the "right" thing, you can still do everything in SG. IN fact, you should suggest to her to stay in SG all the way until she delivers.

Good luck!

[goodpartner]

Late camper

I think those fake ceremony, even if not registered, can be valid grounds for you to commit bigamy. Wasn't there a documentary show on how an Indian married guy gone through the same thing in India only to be caught in SG? The proofs are the photos of the ceremony and this is exactly what she wants right?

Can be used to black mail you for the rest of your life; even if you trust her now....
Women are unpredictable!!!

[alan0338]

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[torn]

[QUOTE=goodpartner;5723262]Late camper

I think those fake ceremony, even if not registered, can be valid grounds for you to commit bigamy. Wasn't there a documentary show on how an Indian married guy gone through the same thing in India only to be caught in SG? The proofs are the photos of the ceremony and this is exactly what she wants right?

Can be used to black mail you for the rest of your life; even if you trust her now....

Bigamy is unless either 1 of them is married and own 2 spouse.. But not sure if that apply when we are not married and did not sign or register our name in viet

[goodpartner]

Oh wow, then u better be SURE before you do anything. Different country, different law and culture. Maybe some places regard traditional ceremony as more valid than registration. In any case, the photos and witnesses can haunt your future during a contest.

[arsenal_84]

you still can choose not to get married in sg with your current gf.
don't create unnecessary troubles in the future for yourself.
stay single until you can decide which path to chose.

[shysaint]

Interesting Thread ...

Friction or Non-Friction STill thinking About it ....

[Brick]

Torn, have you thought of that the child may really be yours and confirmed after DNA testing ? And she then apply to sg court for maintenance and also let your now future wife know ?
It is one thing doing raw and another cumming inside. You should know better.
If it is too good to be true, maybe it is ?

[teebs_darklord]

Interesting and real or not, TS better think carefully before you make your next step. You really don't want to end up in deep shit...

[Slate]

Originally Posted by torn

Bigamy is unless either 1 of them is married and own 2 spouse.. But not sure if that apply when we are not married and did not sign or register our name in viet

Bro, if by their culture a wedding dinner is considered as getting married, not going to matter if you did not register or sign anything official. You cannot apply sg standards everywhere, every place is different.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Friction or Non-Friction STill thinking About it ....

It's "Fiction" you twit.

"Friction" is what you feel when when you're getting screwed and the lube runs out.

[Glock]

i want to ask you.

why are you getting married to your singapore "gf" ?

what for ?

if you have a baby in vietnam , is your local marriage going to last ?

in what way is your vietnamese woman worse than your singapore woman ?

Originally Posted by torn

hi Bro,

Need ur advice urgently, i got to know a WL @ ec*o in JC call Ah Ng, She claim she love me a lot and here is the "tricks" she use.

1) she don take money from me for the past few month after many rounds of bonking
2) Paid almost all the expense when i visit her in viet..
3) Bear me children even though she noe i have gf and intend to settle down in singpaore ( she is pregnant now ) and she ask me to marry my gf!!!
4) she pay the studio our make-over marriage photo and put it in her house in vietnam
5) bring me to stay with her parent for 1month in vietnam
6) volunteered to give me 3k after i told her i got no money

can bro here adivse me?? i am being torn apart by her

[torn]

Originally Posted by Glock

i want to ask you.

why are you getting married to your singapore "gf" ?

what for ?

if you have a baby in vietnam , is your local marriage going to last ?

in what way is your vietnamese woman worse than your singapore woman ?

Every body will be laughing or pointing finger at me if i choose to be with the vietnamese and losing a good wife-to be and losing everything in singapore.

[torn]

Originally Posted by Slate

Bro, if by their culture a wedding dinner is considered as getting married, not going to matter if you did not register or sign anything official. You cannot apply sg standards everywhere, every place is different.

Bro thanks for the advice... I do agree with you on that... This path will be long and hard for me....

[hornytrai]

In Vietnam it's the same as sillypore. To be legally married u need to register the marriage. Just going thru a ceremony without registering it's not deemed as a marriage legally.

TS, really dont know if u are the luckiest or the most suay MF. Screw the girl for free and on top of that she wants to give u $$. Just hope she's not like the Indian woman who had HIV and went on to do RAW with hundreds of men in revenge.

When it's FREE, it's scary........