My Life as a "Robert" Cheongster

Originally Posted by Peter_North

To LauHero,

At 45 maybe you should consider settling down. Read today's papers. Get a wife from Vietnam, a young one. And bonk safely.

Brother, thanks for your advice. What I need now is not bonking any more and actually, I had been looking for love all these years, even hoping from the WL den. To get a Vietnam wife is no different from WL without her love. It is just like paying by installment or an one time payment for sex. Furthermore, nowaday working in Sillypore is not stable (any time can get retrench). I really don't have the gut to settle down at this moment.

Well, given a chance, I would rather marry a foreigner and migrate to her country. Let me get out of this silly country and start afresh in my wonderland. Hope so......... hope so............

[Peter_North]

Originally Posted by LauheroNo1

Brother, thanks for your advice. What I need now is not bonking any more and actually, I had been looking for love all these years, even hoping from the WL den. To get a Vietnam wife is no different from WL without her love. It is just like paying by installment or an one time payment for sex. Furthermore, nowaday working in Sillypore is not stable (any time can get retrench). I really don't have the gut to settle down at this moment.

Well, given a chance, I would rather marry a foreigner and migrate to her country. Let me get out of this silly country and start afresh in my wonderland. Hope so......... hope so............

The whole idea is to find someone cheap to maintain.

[bhoven]

Agree that a better choice would be the single mum who is doing FL out of desperation and perhaps as a kind of revenge on the ex-husband who has cheated on her or ill-treated her. Problem always is that once used to the easy money, particularly if they are pretty, they will always be tempted to go back to the line. (a trick at $100 is equivalennt to almost a month's hard work in a factory in PRC!) Unless you are so laoded that you can provide everything she needs. This was so in my case and I supported her primarily so that she would not continue this work. Now that she has succeeded in marrying someone I am really happy for her. At least I hope she will not be tempted by her friends to return to the FL line as before when all she had was the small but comfortable stipend i gave her but no real family life as i could only visit her every six months.

[bhoven]

Thks brudder for your frank comments. Yes, at the end of the day, the family is still important. No point sacrificing all this for an affair which has no future in this monogamous world of ours. To lose the respect of one's kids is as bad as losing the love of one's wife ....

Since some bros post about prc girls in china, let me ask some advice here. I am heading to Shanghai with a group of buddies. My first ever trip in China. Going next week. Now, my phobia abt going China is that I am CHinese but cannot speak a word of Mandarin (peranakan). But I see prc girls I buay tahan
esp admiring their beauty and white porcelain skin. Yummy!!

But as we all know, prc girls are reputed to be cunning and money-faced. So can anyone advice please! If I go shanghai sure look for cheonging what and looking for that kind of "happiness" in all the wrong places. Am I setting myself up to kanna "Robert" in Shanghai?? I am fearing the worst!!!

[oakleyeug]

Lau Hero,

As a piece of advise if u cannot control ur feeling I tell u confirm u will die in their hands.. I believe u have read the private dancer from Delifrance.. That version is for Thai but honestly it applies to China too..

Alot of bros here agree with me that after they comes to China land of MM none can return safely either missing here or loves the life and wonderful event here.. The best part is they will set the KC trap so deep u don know hoe to pull it out (quite alot of us have exprienced it already). I can safely quote to u Sinoview.. After goin back to SG and reading our FR he is so eager to be back n have fun here n well he did have or fall for some KC trap and he managed to get out of these juz in time(damn that man is good I telling u)...

So these r a few advise I will give in regards to China...
1) Do not think free is good it might be worst then u think
2) Do not think that you r the only 1 she said the L word to
3) They do have a template for the L word like hoe to say or even write(seen those around at books store)
4) There is not a a need for Chinese to be spoken trust me juz follow instructions n let her know that u r paying
5) Do not flash ur money around like u r rich otherwise hehe good luck
6) Unless u r Tom Cruise otherwise do not believe what that gal have to say

Hope that these will help I believe Bro Sinoview and Bro Ronaldo will advise accordingly again

[game10199]

Originally Posted by oakleyeug

So these r a few advise I will give in regards to China...
1) Do not think free is good it might be worst then u think
2) Do not think that you r the only 1 she said the L word to

i agree with bro oakleyyeug's points 1 & 2. i have a 3-4 PMM gf in S'pore in the last few years. They seem to fall into L quite easily, and tend to use to the L word easily. after a few dates, and free fucks, they will start using those words. often i have diffculty to believe them.

1 of them was quite honest, and she would tell me plainly. "look i am in S'pore alone. I just want to have a man that i can depend on". she was 1 woman who never asked me for money. when i fell ill a few months back, she would come to my rent room to cook dinner for me and clean the floor. and of course fuck me.

so do be careful.

regards,
game10199

[smartalex]

Originally Posted by game10199

i agree with bro oakleyyeug's points 1 & 2. i have a 3-4 PMM gf in S'pore in the last few years. They seem to fall into L quite easily, and tend to use to the L word easily. after a few dates, and free fucks, they will start using those words. often i have diffculty to believe them.

1 of them was quite honest, and she would tell me plainly. "look i am in S'pore alone. I just want to have a man that i can depend on". she was 1 woman who never asked me for money. when i fell ill a few months back, she would come to my rent room to cook dinner for me and clean the floor. and of course fuck me.

so do be careful.

regards,
game10199

Fear of long term commitment in a marriage is common in both sexes. It does not matter what the guy or gal's background is. If she was an MP (minister of paliarment), we ordinary folks will be too insecure about ourselves to even think about dating her. If she was an ordinary yet pretty girl, we worry she will run off with a better looking and wealthier guy. HAHAHA...

The problem is not that she is a PDMM or PRC factory worker, but that we have seen/heard too many cases, and think the one in front is also one of them. Like what a famous western actor said "Life is a box of chocolates, you never know what you get till you open it." Some live a happy life afterwards, but many don't. So far statistics tell us that it is the GUY who is fooling around, and not the girl. Think of it, if we samsters never approached these PDMM and WLs, you think they will come and find us? Another way to see it - geylang was meant for who - WOMEN? Of course not right? If we GUYS didn't patronise them, GEYLANG will not have its present day reputation. So my advise is - the girl has more to worry than the guy. Since most samsters are like game10199, the PDMM really has no choice but to keep trying till she hooks a nice man who trusts her isn't it? Afterall, the PDMM is not in a glamorous job and Singaporeans wouldn't respect and trust her, save her fellow PRC citizens who understand how difficult her life here can be. Just think about it - would your Singaporean mother go to Australia or USA just to accompany you as you study? Or even to work so that you have some money to use? My mom won't and I know many Singaporean mums won't. Lastly, if your mom secretly resorted to selling her body just to support your education because living expenses are too high in UK, what does that mean to you? Should we respect or disown them?

[Sinoview]

Originally Posted by LauheroNo1

Since some bros post about prc girls in china, let me ask some advice here. I am heading to Shanghai with a group of buddies. My first ever trip in China. Going next week. Now, my phobia abt going China is that I am CHinese but cannot speak a word of Mandarin (peranakan). But I see prc girls I buay tahan
esp admiring their beauty and white porcelain skin. Yummy!!

But as we all know, prc girls are reputed to be cunning and money-faced. So can anyone advice please! If I go shanghai sure look for cheonging what and looking for that kind of "happiness" in all the wrong places. Am I setting myself up to kanna "Robert" in Shanghai?? I am fearing the worst!!!

Shanghai happen to be the most expensive city in China. Shanghainese are well know to be merceneries even among the Chinese. Though there are many WLs from the other provinces they all have to be even more "street smart" than the Shanghainese in order to survive in this big city.

Cannot speak Mandarin or putonhua is not a big problem in SH. Though you may be handicaped somewhere but as long as you are prepared to flash and spend yr $$$ you will have many WLs willing to provide you with the "happiness" you are seeking.

Robert or no roberts, it's really depends on individuals. Just like there are fried rice which costs S$3 a plate and there are also fired rice that costs S$30 a plate. Who're we to judge and said that those who pay for the S$30 fried rice are robert ?

IMHO inspite of the lessons you have gone thru with the Wls and you still choose to seek happiness from them. We all know the prime objectives of these WLs are to make money. So in order for them to recipocate we need to meet their objectives first....

There is a Chinese saying "you want to eat salted fish, you must be prepared to withstand the thirst".. So why fear.... kanna robert ? This is your game man.....

Originally Posted by Sinoview

Shanghai happen to be the most expensive city in China. Shanghainese are well know to be merceneries even among the Chinese. Though there are many WLs from the other provinces they all have to be even more "street smart" than the Shanghainese in order to survive in this big city.

Cannot speak Mandarin or putonhua is not a big problem in SH. Though you may be handicaped somewhere but as long as you are prepared to flash and spend yr $$$ you will have many WLs willing to provide you with the "happiness" you are seeking.

Robert or no roberts, it's really depends on individuals. Just like there are fried rice which costs S$3 a plate and there are also fired rice that costs S$30 a plate. Who're we to judge and said that those who pay for the S$30 fried rice are robert ?

IMHO inspite of the lessons you have gone thru with the Wls and you still choose to seek happiness from them. We all know the prime objectives of these WLs are to make money. So in order for them to recipocate we need to meet their objectives first....

There is a Chinese saying "you want to eat salted fish, you must be prepared to withstand the thirst".. So why fear.... kanna robert ? This is your game man.....

well said. Tks for yr frank views. Yes I am afraid u are right and like many of those amongst our creed of cheongsters , I can be quite foolish and immature when it comes to affairs of the heart. And I will set myself up and seek solace in the most dangerous fashion. So prepare for another round of "robertness"!! Aiya, many old and lonely men are like me, always dwelling on what we dont have and yearn for those things missing and always use the wrong "head" to think!!

Anyway, great to hear the inputs. Definitely I am no Tom Cruise and I can assure u I do look at the mirror aplenty. So with all the expert advice, I will be more mentally prepared with these china dolls and their amazing and extravagant traps..

Cheers

[eddy]

Robert, after reading your original post, YOU HAVE MY RESPECT.

Some will be cheapskates, some will be Roberts and others will be somewhere in between. No right or wrong and no regrets!

all the best

[penny]

a bit off topic....

one stupid woman wrote to ST forum today to HIGHLIGHT the issue of sillypore old men getting Vietnam wife...
I wonder what is she up to......
this stupid woman even compare gettin viet wife to hiring indo maids!!
no love no romance just pay and da-bao home!
but she keeps referring to cases where maids being torture in sillypore and try to question if the viet women are also being torture .....sounds like all sillypore men getting wife from viet is meant for them to torture..are we beast or something?
wah lau...she forgot those who beat up the maids are mostly sillypore women!

die liao.. sillypore women hao-lian, PRC ones cunning/money face, now viet ones also try to joe-luan ,,,, can go be monk liao

[Sornporn]

You are a good man. Don't you think good people always being taken advantage of?

This world always not fair or should I say people can never have enough of complains. Take it as it is, you lose some but you win some. Thats life. Big Cheers to you.

Hi there!

I enjoyed your frank post and understand your need to just bare your soul.

I also noticed your concern with economics - you mentioned retrenchment and the cost of maintaining a family in Singapore.

The economy is actually very good right now and will continue its bullrun right up to 2008. However, this is not reflected on the ground level for many Singaporeans and as such they don't feel that things are any different from before.

The point I'm trying to make here is whether you'd be interested in a 5% return PER MONTH on your cash deposits, 50% of your principal guaranteed. Sorry for such a direct approach and I'm really NOT soliciting for business here but you sound like someone who might want a new and financially rewarding diversion in life.

Please forgive and ignore me if I may have crossed your boundaries. On the other hand, I can be contacted at: [email protected]

Thank you.

Hi all bro, I would like to share a PM with all of you (attached above) and seek for some advice.

Should I take the offer? Really scare to be Robert again.

Anyway, will be heading to Shanghai this Thursday. Will share my experience there with all bro when I am back.

Cheer

[Sinoview]

Seem like a "golden goose" jumping along a busy the road.... ha..ha...

If true...then many Singaporean can stop work and retire liao.Why need to work ??? with 50% ROI... Fat hope I think !!!