Qn: will u tell ur possib le fling u r married?

[todae]

Originally Posted by Big2

From personal experience:

Met a girl from WLNY. Managed to get her out and was in progress of turning her into my fling. One problem: I didn't tell her I'm married. The most we did was hugs and kisses as we were in HDB void deck and she's not comfortable with staircaes. Arranged to meet up again for more fun, which certainly meant her getting laid. However, she went searched and found me on facebook with my status as married.

She got so pissed she tracked down my OC's account on facebook and sent her facebook messages informing her of my antics. Luckily I intercepted the messages before it was read!

this is freaking scary! my balls shrink upon reading this. how did he found out? u use your real name?

[todae]

actually my situation is.. wanna find a fling.. makan then if can turn to fb, if cannot then hit n run.. but now haven makan.. find myself actually fall in love with her.. haiz... 一个头两个大。。。

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by todae

this is freaking scary! my balls shrink upon reading this. how did he found out? u use your real name?

well he must have used the same email address for all his activities....classic example is how a certain iverbert from Sammyboy not this porn forum but the other talk cock forum got his identity exposed and all including pics...his was a classic example of leaving a trail of his shit for others to follow...

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why would you want to have a fling if you're already married?

Originally Posted by todae

actually my situation is.. wanna find a fling.. makan then if can turn to fb, if cannot then hit n run.. but now haven makan.. find myself actually fall in love with her.. haiz... 一个头两个大。。。

Then why would you want to find a fling in the first place? Perhaps it is not too late yet; be decisive, choose your wife or the fling. Prolonging the decision will just make all 3 parties suffer, trust me on this. Get it over and done with. And don't turn back once you made your choice.

[jayson]

For married man the game play should be as follows:

1) if horny visit Geylang or find FLs

2) If want to find flings, must let them know that you are married and the following decisions to be made:
a) If she accept you being married and let you 'love' her. if yes, proceed
b) Financially can you cope with a fling? if yes, proceed
c) Is she a 'chewing gum' once you sleep with her (have to see the number of ex and how open she is about sex). if no, proceed
d) Has she been with a married man? if yes, experienced but she might be out for something else (cautious)

3) Married woman (very unethical, highly advise NOT TO!!!)
a) she got everything to lose like you thus she wont expose u and thus no strings attached.... (never tried so dont dare to say too much.)

woman are funny animals, if you play your cards well, they will love you and let you do whatever you want. But if you lie to them, they will hunt you down, and do whatever it takes to destroy you. Even when breaking up, need to spin some BS that goes something like '........(reason)....but i still love u...(but)....reason.....will miss you....etc etc' or just find a good reason to argue and pretend to be angry with each other....

[bonkster]

Originally Posted by jayson

3) Married woman (very unethical, highly advise NOT TO!!!)

Totally agree on not touching married woman.

Years ago, a friend's friend got hacked with a chopper by the psycho husband of a married woman he had an affair with.

I swore never to touch any married women after hearing that

[Ravenzou]

Originally Posted by jayson

For married man the game play should be as follows:

1) if horny visit Geylang or find FLs

2) If want to find flings, must let them know that you are married and the following decisions to be made:
a) If she accept you being married and let you 'love' her. if yes, proceed
b) Financially can you cope with a fling? if yes, proceed
c) Is she a 'chewing gum' once you sleep with her (have to see the number of ex and how open she is about sex). if no, proceed
d) Has she been with a married man? if yes, experienced but she might be out for something else (cautious)

3) Married woman (very unethical, highly advise NOT TO!!!)
a) she got everything to lose like you thus she wont expose u and thus no strings attached.... (never tried so dont dare to say too much.)

woman are funny animals, if you play your cards well, they will love you and let you do whatever you want. But if you lie to them, they will hunt you down, and do whatever it takes to destroy you. Even when breaking up, need to spin some BS that goes something like '........(reason)....but i still love u...(but)....reason.....will miss you....etc etc' or just find a good reason to argue and pretend to be angry with each other....

Nicely put it Bro Jayson . That's the ground rule I guesss in this recent years.

[lancerist]

i always say say right away than no issue with the potential gf. Better pay even better..no strings attached. Gf when u married might cause you to be no thinking straight. Some gf's might want more after awhile...just pay shoot and leave man..less headache

[geckoSG]

If u want to have a fling with any woman, be honest with them about your
marital status, if they are keen to do with you, you will get it. If you choose
to cheat on them to bed them, be prepared for the consequences