erection problems !!!

[Hatepooh]

Originally Posted by MrCam

ED is a very stressful thing to happen to any man. I had this problem too. As usual, tried all sorts of things. Chinese medicine, qigong, as well as doctors getting Ciallis. My personal experience with Ciallis is that it makes u hard for a couple of days. But after that the dick seems to be softer and smaller. With a box of 4 pills costing $80 not to mention the doctor's consultation fees, it's expensive to get a hard-on.
Recently I came across something that is not taken orally. I hate popping pills. It did work for me after about 2 weeks of trying. It's not an instant cure so pls don't think this is a miracle. Any bros interested can PM me for the info.

Bro. Show me the way for greater success please. PM me soon

[Happy555]

400g can make how many cups of coffee bro? How long before u feel the "power"?

[callmebad]

you didn't tell me your age
but if you're over 40,go for checkup to see if there're any underlying medical condition that can affect your erection
people with heart problem tend to have erection problem

I prefer that you don't take any pills first, better not to get yourself addicted to pills because you're actually feeding those drug companies for whole of your life if you're hooked onto those pills

for non-medical approach, you can get a cock ring (or penis ring)
this works by restricting blood flow out of your penis, allowing longer and probably harder erection
but you have to be careful not to wear the cock ring for more than 15 minutes

go to a doctor, where you can get a good quality penis pump to help in your erection,before you leave the clinic, make sure you get the doctor to teach you how to use the pump

during intercourse, get your girl to stimulate you more, ask her to give you hand job or mouth job to get you stand up again,or to stroke you in any way that can arouse you

also watch out on your lifestyle - are you stress, lack of sleep, smoke too much, drink too much - all these can affect your erection

[ChEm]

i also have these kind of problems sometimes. it happens when the partner is not attractive enough, bad attitude, unhygienic etc. sometimes it happens when too frequent of sex activities (including masturbation). Our brain is the greatest sex organ, once we have negative thoughts sure it will affect erection and performance. Maybe just stop the sex activities for 2 weeks and u'll be fine. Not to forget exercise also, cardiovascular training (jogging) for blood circulation and more importantly strength training for increasing tostesterone in the body. taking zync supplements also increases tostesterone in the body, this hormone is not just the sex hormone but it also take care of muscle and bone development. Just google zync and tostesterone and u'll get the connection. hope this helps.

[V123]

Hi

I have similar problems. Worried it might be health problem so went see a urologist. Health cleared. He offer me some Viagra which help. However i know this is not long term.

Sometimes went for tuina. They alway say prob need some Chinese health supplement as my kidney not so good.

Wonder any guys know of TCM doctors which can prescribe such medicine for health maintainance especially for erection issues. Sometimes I get hard but can't last long.

Hope to hear some recommendations.

[retief]

If one has a normal erection in the morning. Unlikely to have any physical abnormality being vasculature nor nerves.

Likely psychological especially if you are young. ED is a broad diagnosis. Can be define as unable to reach erection with stimiulus, able to reach erection but unable to penetrate or able to penetrate without successfully reaching climax...

Note is different from premature ejaculation.

Most of the time, docs will ask you such few questions and also screen for diabetes, hormonal deficiency.

Before one can be prescribed CIAlis and meds at such, one need to do ECG check for heart strain if above 40 and also do a hormonal profiles blood test.if all normal then prescription can be dished out. Sometimes, one just need one of two such med to boost the confidence in men.

If hormonal profiles is low in testosterone, then referral to endocrinologist will be warranted and hormonal therapy can start.

Like some bro mentioned, even with meds and adjuncts,must also have good tactile and visual stimulus to reach satisfactory erections..

Hope you will sort out the problem soon..

[Sen5eS]

Originally Posted by MultiOrgasGuy

TS appeared not to have a physical problem, as he gets hard in the mornng, and able to PCC normally. If it is not a physiological issue, it's most likely a psychological issue, as many had pointed out.

Here are some suggestions:

1. Don't pcc too much using porn. If you only get titillated by AV stars, you set a high standard for your "fantasy lover", and hence you may not find your gf good enough to titillate your senses. This works on your subconscious mind, regardless of whether you are aware of it or not. I get around this by using amatuer porn, where the girls are not perfect, and are of comparable standards to your gf or fb.

2. Hold off pcc for a while, maybe a few days etc. Then watch some amatuer porn with your gf, imagine & fantasize it's her, and then both of you can ML after that.

3. No matter how beautiful or sexy your gf is, most guys can get "tired" or de-sensitized" after some time. You know it when that happens, eg, your gf strips off and change her clothes in front of you but you don't get a hard-on anymore. That is why we guys get a fb, or look for FL etc. Guys need new stimulation for our mind. With new fresh stimulation, ML with your gf may get better.

Just my 2 cents on what works for me. Your views may vary.

I guess the diagnosis of Performance Anxiety fits ... would be good to get a normal check up to clear out any underlying issues b4 popping pills.

Good luck

[fox88]

Originally Posted by V123

Hi

I have similar problems. Worried it might be health problem so went see a urologist. Health cleared. He offer me some Viagra which help. However i know this is not long term.

Sometimes went for tuina. They alway say prob need some Chinese health supplement as my kidney not so good.

Wonder any guys know of TCM doctors which can prescribe such medicine for health maintainance especially for erection issues. Sometimes I get hard but can't last long.

Hope to hear some recommendations.

Hi, I recently come across this herbal supplements that can help with erection issues. I used to have erection problem like many of the brothers here. I resort to taking Viagra but it cause headache after a few hours. After taking the herbal supplement, I feel my erections are harder and I can last much longer. The best thing is I do not feel any side effects associated with taking ED medications like Viagra. Any brother interested can PM me.

[Jacks83]

Bros,

I just encountered for the first time a similar problem as TS and some other bros mentioned. Some background about myself is that I am nearing 30 also, I have a gf of 4 yrs and our r/s is very rocky, we quarrel every single day and havent been intimate for very long (more than 2 yrs already). Sadly (call me a bastard), I visit GL frequently to satisfy my urges. I watch porn and PCC regularly and have always rose to the occasion when I visit GL, bonking them WLs everytime w/o fail with full erections. Lately felt my skills even improved tremendously from the regular visits - can do WLs in multiple positions with full erections I can hold until I damn tired and have to over exert myself just to ejaculate.

Today, decided to visit GL again to find my favourite WL to bonk - can't forget the last time we bonked more and more gfe so dying to visit her. On the way there, was quarrelling with gf over the phone which made me super no mood and pek chek. When reached GL happily hooked up with my WL and went to room liao. Just before that, still exchanging heated words over sms with gf.

Thought of giving the WL with another round of intense sex. But dunno why this time after roleplaying and teasing didi in the underwear still flaccid and soft..she see already also ask me why my didi not happy to see her. By now I abit paiseh already but nvm. She continued to tease me, catbath me, pulled down my underwear and carassed my didi...still soft. I tried to carrass her boobies, finger her, kiss her, rub her all over while she capped me and gave me a bj on my soft didi. After about 2 mins of intense bj, did went semi-hard. Faster lay her down and tried to enter her..with her commenting asking why today my didi see her not happy. I tried to make didi harder but it was still semi-erect. Then she asked me to enter her slowly, which I did.

After only about 5 pumps, didi totally soften and popped out of her pussy.
Sian half, but she very nice, went down on me again and gave me an intense bj for about 5 mins, but didi just remained soft even though I tried to arouse myself and even thought of those OLs and SYTs I've always fantasised about while she blew me. After that, I gave up and told her today can't do. But she still very nice, lay down beside me for awhile, chatted with me including telling me some similar experiences she encountered with other bros, before we showered. I still paid her full rate and left. No confidence now even to visit her already. Confidence totally shattered today.

Drove home worried thinking whether something has happened to me. At home turned on my fav porn to test. And I was able to easily erect. PCC-ed and was able to shoot. Abit relieved but now confidence at a low. Now also dunno if got confidence go back to find WLs later waste money, time and throw face again.

From my own assessment of today, I think any of the following may be the cause:

1. Quarrel with gf totally spoilt the mood for sex. When I hooked up with fav WL still quite bothered by it thus cannot even erect.
2. Lately quite stressed over work, not enough sleep and also very horny. Past two-weeks everyday PCC (sometimes twice) and even visit GL occasionally. Not sure if its because of this and today reach a 'low-point' so can't perform.

Any bros have advice?

[dreamygal]

hmm I think TS has libido & erection prob? my bf also faced this n seen doctor last yr.. when aroused him his penis is so hard n long, when about to insert me it starts to shrink.. doctor recommended him to take herbal supplements called Tribestan from Guardian pharmacy counter as my bf doesnt want to take viagra or cialis. it doesnt require prescription. pharmacist told him it helps to stimulate own male hormones and can improve libido & erection. safer also.. he has been taking 3 tablets a day for abt 3 months, now taking 1 tab a day. he said not bad feels more alert during work and can last longer. i can feel it too not so frustrating hee.. happy me

[EdOng79]

There are some good pills out there to help us men facing such a problem. The one I am taking is very popular in Japan and its proven to me n my frens thats its a wonderful pill. My sexlife has totally turned around ever since I took it.

[happyguy1234]

Bro u might want to try this oil.... what is does basically is to lower the sensitivity of the penis glans during sex to help prevent early ejaculation.

[*FiReWoRkS*]

i have similar problems at times as well..but for me i think it's more of psychological as my sex drive has really nosedived over the years and i don't think of sex as much nowadays..i'm 30 yrs old btw..

1 thing that puzzles me is that what exactly causes morning hard-ons? i read somewhere it's because of full bladder putting pressure on the penis but for me i usually empty my bladder the night before thus no full bladder thus no morning hard-ons most of the time..is it normal?

[Campro]

Originally Posted by confusion

Dear bros,

i hardly log in nowadays , but i do need some advise from all the lao jiao here, alot of times when i having sex, be it with pros or with a normal gal, i can get an erection initially, but after awhile, i seems to lose interest and my di di soften, before penetration.
Once in awhile i am able to penetrate and have sex and even shoot inside, but on and off alot of times i can't get an erection when strip naked, and the more i am worried and try to get it stand up, the softer it gets. Is it ED? or my sex drive is becoming lower or simply my expectation is too high and my partner fail to arouse me?? But i have no problem at all when i watch porn and diy and when i wake up in the morning, my di di is hard.

I am really depress now, i am hitting my 30 and i am not over weight, runs regularly. Is it due to stress? This problem 1st begins 6 yrs ago.

What should i do, if i am to consult a doc, which clinic is good in this sort of issue? The DSC at kelantan?

All advices are welcome, no flamming pls.

Young man, that should not be happening to you at your age. I suspect there could be an underlying medical problem. Please go for a medical checkup. Most important is to take care of your health.

This uncle here is still going strong at 63 years. When the body is functioning well, the didi will also perform well.

[popi824]

You watch too much porn and diy too much... stop diy and it will improve significantly... dun need to tk wad ever med like viagra etc for booze... it doesnt help n its a waste of money... speaking from experience...