How/What guys can do to stay longer during sex?

[smay]

Not lasting longer usually falls into one of these 2 categories:

1) Being able to overcome the initial excitement and last longer than the first 30 seconds- 3 minutes

2) Not getting so turned on in the 3-5 minute range that you have no choice but to cum

Let’s look at
Situation 1)

Currently lasting only 30 seconds to 3 minutes or so

Here you are having an issue with excitement. Let’s gauge YOUR sexual excitement on a scale of 1-10.

1) Looking at an ant farm (no sexual arousal..hopefully lol)

4) Notice a hot chick but you are in public (aroused but no action from Mr. Big Dick down there)

7) You start making out with your girl and getting some wood down there

8) You are about to have sex or having sex but you could keep going WITHOUT coming

9)You are going to cum no matter what - an oncoming train could be about to hit you, there is no turning back, you are blowing your load

10) Ejaculation

During sex you want to be hovering right around number 8. The issue you are facing is that you are having sex at 9 INSTEAD of at 8.

Here’s what to do:

Actually think about the numbers while you are hooking up for the next few times only. This also works well if you practice while jerking off. As soon as you hit 8 take 4 deep breathes QUIETLY and slow down your thrusting only slightly. Also, make sure your eyes are open and you are looking at your girl.(when your eyes are closed for many guys it intensifies the stimulation and makes it harder to control yourself)

Now, you can go back to thrusting as usual. Keep repeating this until you are having sex steadily an 8 level of arousal. This is a very common way to get your stamina up BECAUSE IT WORKS.

Practice while watching porn. Recognize where you hit the point JUST BEFORE ejaculation is inevitable and then back it down with the breathes, slower thrusting (or jacking off), and by opening your eyes.

NEVER THINK ABOUT DEAD HORSES OR BASEBALL. You don’t want to put your mind elsewhere but rather to PUT YOUR MIND EXACTLY on what you are doing. After you have done this 3-5 times whacking off and 5-10 times during sex you should find that you can last at least 2x as long.

Tip: Breath quietly, I’ve made mistake of breathing loudly in the heat of the moment and it didn’t go over well. No girl wants to fuck a steam engine that is doing weird breathing techniques. And your girl will think that you are getting old.

Big head control small head.

PS: Extracted from 2 girls teach sex with some of my own words added. Along the way, I will add comments or feedbacks from some brothers.

To be cont....

[callmebad]

when you say last longer, there can be 2 meaning behind this
last long during the whole process?
or last long inside her?

on average, a man can last about 5-7 minutes inside her, very few men can stretch more than 10 minutes, and if too long inside her, can make her sore down there

if you want to last long, you can spend a lot of time on foreplay, devote a lot of time to kiss her from head to toe, give her oral, or you can give her an erotic massage - this can last you up till 15 minutes

you can also choose those sex position that can make your cock not too excited, such as having sex in standing position, you can get her to be on top of you but you ask her not to rock too hard

during sex, when you take you're about to cum, you pull out to squeeze the area just below the tip of the cock

or, if you feel that pulling out is too disruptive, you gently pull at your balls

actually, most important thing is whether you can make a girl orgasm before you enter her, if you can do this, her body will be quite sensitive after her 1st orgasm and even your time inside her is short, she can still orgasm again or probably orgasm at the same time as yours

[smay]

Situation 2)

Lasting 3-5 Minutes but certain positions or hard thrusting makes you blow

This is a very common scenario as well. You don’t come IMMEDIATELY but certain positions (doggystyle), really hard thrusting, or maybe a really sexy blow job make you come WAY before you want to.

Here is how to remedy this and last as long as you want:

1) Same as above your sexual excitement is peaking a bit too early so….Make foreplay last TWICE as long. This will bring down your level of arousal to the point where you are very hard but not ready to come.

2) Make sure your eyes are totally open and then take a few deep breathes quietly. Again, being more AWARE of your sexual excitement is the answer not trying to distract yourself.

3) Take your weight off of your hands and use standing positions. By taking the weight off of your hands you remove tension. (a source of cumming too early) Do it by placing your hands palms up under her upper back and shoulders rather than flat on the bed. Make your body hold your weight not your arms. And by using standing positions you don’t have to worry about the thrusting motion carrying you over the edge as you can use your entire BODY to fuck her not just your hips.

Tip: Avoid you standing and her bent over when you try this. That position is very stimulating. (All doggy style is) Give this a try with her on her back and you standing.

Let’s recap:

Usually stamina problems are either immediately after penetrating her or prevent you from fucking hard or in doggy style.

Use the above tricks to last much longer. You will find that the longer you are lasting you can combine your stamina with other tactics and techniques to give her multiple orgasms or even a squirting orgasm! I will post them later.

P.S. Do not just paying attention in doing the above tricks and forget to kiss and touch your girl. You can still use your other parts of body to keep the girls stimulated.

End -- open for discussion. (extracted from 2 Girls Teach Sex - super stamina)

[sleepless111]

Originally Posted by smay

Situation 2)

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Usually stamina problems are either immediately after penetrating her or prevent you from fucking hard or in doggy style.


End -- open for discussion. (extracted from 2 Girls Teach Sex - super stamina)

great share bro thanks for your enlightenment great help

[smay]

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[ladyangela]

Originally Posted by nicefreak

Being in 5 years of sexual relationship with my gf (soon to be wife), i learn some tricks of my own which helps prolong our sex activity.
Just my subjective comments

1. Having more frequent sex actually helps prolong each session progressively.

2. Masterbate before sex. Took longer time to cum.

Agree with bro on this. My love does it well because of the above reasons! Hours of fun leave me wanting more! ;D

[tttk3388]

Like what other bros have mentioned earlier. Mind control and practise is important. And if you are worried about not giving your partner a good bang, maybe you should try extending your foreplay. After all i was told having a good sex is not only about how long you can last, its more on the overall package that they get. Just my 2 cents worth.

[diputs1269]

Originally Posted by tttk3388

Like what other bros have mentioned earlier. Mind control and practise is important. And if you are worried about not giving your partner a good bang, maybe you should try extending your foreplay. After all i was told having a good sex is not only about how long you can last, its more on the overall package that they get. Just my 2 cents worth.

Yes, prolong sexual arousal is more instense and enjoyable than penetration

[freezetheDB]

my woman once told me she felt I was too concerned with my performance. Sometimes trying too hard to prolong it makes my lil bro soft. She rather I enjoy myself even though i dont last as long.

so took her advice and just follow my instinct (dont think so much about whether cum fast or slow), ended up I lasted longer than usual.

these days my performance on and off, sometimes longer sometimes shorter depending on my tiredness and the condition of my mind.

really the mind is the biggest sex organ

[MitMit]

change position seems to work over the years.

Just like a speeding car, u tap the brakes and it slows down.

but getting old now, tapping the brakes will sometimes stall the engine!

[smay]

Originally Posted by MitMit

change position seems to work over the years.

Just like a speeding car, u tap the brakes and it slows down.

but getting old now, tapping the brakes will sometimes stall the engine!

Bro, don't tap break. just release accelerator will do. me also old liao.

[Escorts555]

I think one way is to bonk more girls. As you bonk more and gets familiar, you don't get too excited during sex so you will last longer.

[smay]

Why man always want to stay longer during sex? You must always ask the girl if they song or not? You can bonk her for hours but she is not song, then what is the point?

[JohnsonHeng]

Originally Posted by Escorts555

one way is to bonk more girls.

Hahaha, nice solution

[toyking69]

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