How I got cheated by KTV girl

[Hitman]

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be but then you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create who you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and to open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count.

Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

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It's okay to fall down, just pick yourself up and continue walking...

Merry Christmas to all and let's look forward to a better 2005!!

[MachoDevilX]

Originally Posted by Hitman

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.

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It's okay to fall down, just pick yourself up and continue walking...

Merry Christmas to all and let's look forward to a better 2005!!

Bro, what you have said is truly "Words of Wisdom"..
Our characters are being built up through things have we have been through.. Regardless of whether it is hardships, hurtful relationships or any form of mishaps, happy relationships, happy family etc... Everything do occurs with a reason... We learn from there and strengthern our character...

All is fair and square in the game of love. Dun say who cheat who or who owes who more. At the end of the day, both are willing parties who come together for a good time, despite whatever underlying reasons. We men are basically looking for sex, and the KTV girls, money of course. That will never change and will always be our first priority. As long as during the time when both of you are together, you and her are happy, that's good enough.

Nobody knows what will happen tomorrow. You and her may be together, or maybe not. Whatever the outcome, dun have too much expectations and just enjoy the moment, go with the flow. Putting too much pressure on yourself to expect her to treat you like the most impt person in her life is not realistic, even foolish to some extent.

[lawry]

This is their process of how one becomes a PRC (singapore) KTV hostress..

1) when they are 16 ~ 18.. they join their local hometown (hair saloon/pub/ktv)

after 2 ~ 3 years.. they heard from their senior that Shanghai or Beijing or the main city can earn more.. so they all go to zhu hai/shen zhen/shanghai/beijing to work in pubs/disco (yes disco in china has FL PRO..)/ktv...

after 2 ~ 3 years in these big cities....due to the amount of beautiful gals competing each other.. they hear about places like singapore/malaysia where the local singapore/malaysia gals look like dinosaurs... and with their look they can be ang pai in singapore/malaysia... so they hook up with people who has been to these places for Visa applications..

and thus,

they are here..

so all in all.. they have been in the scene for 4 ~ 6 years before they end up in Singapore/Malaysia KTV/HC.. etc..

men in china can con (love) better than us and i believe most of them have already been con in china by their own china men..

they have been transformed from a innocent angel to a demon during these 4 ~ 6 years process...

and they already know one thing... MEN WHO GOES TO HC/KTV are not good men...

so they wont fall in love with such a men..

if u are a working gal will u fall in love with men who goes to HC/KTV??

so good luck guys...

[wahpiang]

Originally Posted by lawry

and they already know one thing... MEN WHO GOES TO HC/KTV are not good men...

so they wont fall in love with such a men..

if u are a working gal will u fall in love with men who goes to HC/KTV??

so good luck guys...

very well said, bro lawry. Afterall, how many men have tried their luck with these women. Placing yourself in the women's shoes, you would definitely not want to lose out on anything and always want to be on top of the game.
hence, take it with a pinch of salt and things will be fine.

[Spursgetz]

Originally Posted by lawry

This is their process of how one becomes a PRC (singapore) KTV hostress..

1) when they are 16 ~ 18.. they join their local hometown (hair saloon/pub/ktv)

after 2 ~ 3 years.. they heard from their senior that Shanghai or Beijing or the main city can earn more.. so they all go to zhu hai/shen zhen/shanghai/beijing to work in pubs/disco (yes disco in china has FL PRO..)/ktv...

after 2 ~ 3 years in these big cities....due to the amount of beautiful gals competing each other.. they hear about places like singapore/malaysia where the local singapore/malaysia gals look like dinosaurs... and with their look they can be ang pai in singapore/malaysia... so they hook up with people who has been to these places for Visa applications..

bro, there also another group of gal. Those that working in beauty line(legal), factory, hari salon, shop assistance etc etc. they never work as KTV /Sauna gal back in china before.

But they decided to come to Sg/malaysia/Indonesia/Japan or even Dubai because they heard from their friends who came back and found out that there are good $$ to be earned at these countries. So...most of the times, those gal who returned will act as the "middle-man", getting some commission in return when introducing their friends to the actual agent for getting visa, employment etc.

I knew most went thru the few year process before deciding to venture overseas, but there are also quite alot who never work in this trade before and decided to come here, mainly because they felt that its much safer to work in overseas, as chances are you won't see your relatives/friends here, and the money is better.

I myself had met more than 10 of these type of gals in my 3 years of cheonging. 2 had become my gf, and 1 of the 2 still with me right now, while the other is the smarter one who upon return home, become to middleman to intro her friends to sg/indonesia.

just my 2 cent worth of sharing, no offend.

cheets

[Customerzzz]

As far as I know an avg KTV gal can earn on avg S$15k/mth so if they tell u they need $$$ and they are poor most time is bull shit unless they gamble or providing for "little white face". S$15k/mth how long do most ppl here take to earn that? 3 or 4 mths? So guess what we are the 1 who is poor

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by sadfa

bro, sunday times big big they dont know? ica left hand dunno what right hand doing.

anyway why u so interested? trying to get visa for your china mei mei?

the recent sunday times??? well wan to get a long time pass for my china mei mei loh....

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by TheSting

http://www.china.org.cn/english/travel/114571.htm

http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp...05436&sec=asia

thanks bro!

sgd50,000?
i can get her to come sg 2 yrs with only sgd 8k.
haha. so expensive.
they also dont need to work for agents. free and easy.
intro me the girls. i give you comission.

some bank need s$100,000 in a/c
most need at least half a million

anyway, i can get her gold visa cc
for a fees of 8k. interested and pm me.

[TheSting]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

thanks bro!

no worries!
just remember to jio next time got ktv outing!

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by TheSting

no worries!
just remember to jio next time got ktv outing!

ok lah.. but bro, i hv gave up TH liao, how 2 go...

btw really thanks for info, but my chabor hv no Visa Gold... and i definitely will not b so dumb to sub for her....

S$15k/mth if they do extra
no extra normally around S$3-4k.

i know it is hard to get gold visa CC from china bank. you know china is all abotu corruption(bribing, alot of bribing, i mean)
in order to get a gold visa CC in china, she must be real real rich.
no less than half a million rmb is difficult. even she earn alot of $$$ from sg before also no use. cause the bank want only legal money ( must pay tax 1st)
just half million of rmb tax alone can die.

anyway i got people in china bank, i can get the CC for the girls.
S$8k will do the talking/deal/
S$1k comission to anyone who intro the deal.
interested can pm me.

any deal ( must put deposit) before christmas,
my fren will charge only 5k instead of 8k.

all she had to do is put S$3k as deposit,
photo-copy her passport to me. i will pass to my fren.
wait for about 21days, i will recieve the CC.
pay me the rest of the payment(S$5) and the CC is hers.

CC come with documents of the bank. prove that the CC is apply legally.

[TheSting]

aye.. u can always set a limit on a sub card
a reasonable amount like 1000 bucks a month or what lah

still.. i'm not sure if this is valid or not, given that the visa is PROBABLY only for the main card holder.


As for TH, its NOT that we LOVE that place. Its just probably the most easily available place and perhaps the cheapest.
hehe.. i'm all Up for exploring other places!

I think I'll have to explore some other places after the big wind..

btw.. u guys do know that bs,th,mg,rs,ivy all same boss one?